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i dont care how old you are i dont care if youre a teenager "women as a whole are stupid" and "women need to know their place" and any type of "it was her fault she got raped/abused/etc because she [did or said x thing]" does not belong in any kind of feminist discussion WHAT! SO! EVER! and people are allowed to be angry at you for saying that and i dont know why anyone is surprised. those are all insanely antifeminist things to say and i thought everyone knew better. i genuinely dgaf how old you are. arguably something like that should be stopped as young as possible and the kid should be made aware it does not fly and she will be rightfully turned away from serious feminist discussion and spaces for saying shit like that. like are you for real. the internet has made some people so fucking brave and think it's fine to say weird shit

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Here's a thought: trans people could finally just respect women's spaces and use the bathroom that matches their birth sex, instead of trying every which way to trick and deceive women?

The more that TIMs and TIFs try this "but you can't even tell!" and any other form of a "gotcha" around bathrooms, the more proof that women have that they're dangerous, because they refuse to simply accept that no means no.

Stop trampling on our boundaries.

They can't tell

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Honestly that last point is scary. If a man walks into your women's bathroom pretending to be a trans man (current or post vagina-having person required to use the women's bathroom), this penis haver could gaslight you and you'd have to call the police to prove him wrong. But he'd be gone by the time they get there. No need to pants people. No need for gendered bathrooms. Make it about safety and respect; assault is never okay, and sexual assault should be far more reprehended than it is. end gender bathrooms, make all bathrooms co-ed and provide more one toilet (lockable, safe) family/handicapped bathrooms. IF THEY ARE USING THE BATHROOM WITHOUT INTERACTING WITH YOU< WHY ARE YOU INITIATING THE INTERACTION

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This is amazing

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This is the same man who said:

"However, until we wake up and Kemi Badenoch doesn't exist any more - I don't wish ill of her, I just wish her to shut up - whilst we do live in this world, I am honoured to receive this."

When David Tennant says that he doesn't "wish ill" on a woman, he wants her dead, but he's too cowardly to admit it and use the actual words that he means.

There is plenty of space for criticism of Kemi Badenoch as the current leader of the Conservative Party in the UK, but I still put the fact that he spoke so brazenly about wishing she didn't exist down to the fact that she's a black woman who, as Equalities Minister (as she was at the time), wouldn't bend to TRAs.

He's a misogynistic racist who loves to attack women who do nothing but stand up for our rights, but won't say a peep against rapist men.

Man praised for the bare fucking minimum of wishing a woman no harm

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North Bi Northwest (Aug/Sept, 1993)

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Mount Holyoke College students

at Pride in Northampton, MA (1989)

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It's because actual treatment for gender dysphoria would be helping sufferers to become more connected to the body that they're in by addressing their individual issues with therapy, and the men with AGP are terrified that the entire world knows that everything they're fighting for is really for nothing else but forcing the rest of the world to engage in their AGP and exhibitionism fetishes.

They use vulnerable LGB people, abuse victims, girls and women who want to escape misogyny etc and tell them that if they don't do everything possible to affirm the AGPs, then they're destined to end their own lives. Those AGPs have taken over everything and gaslit and abused to the point where someone with serious dysphoria treats actual, personal treatment and improving their lives like it's hateful and evil, which is mind-blowing when we take a step back and look at it.

The AGPs don't want the actual victims of this to figure out that what those victims need real care, support and therapy. That's why there's all of the fury, calls for rape and violence, threats of doxxing etc to keep everyone fearfully in line. It's all male-based aggression and dominance, and because the AGPs have deliberately dominated the space, and have groomed so many young people into believing that they're "trans," and then those young people go on to groom others into this horrifying pyramid scheme of abuse, until there is serious fightback from major institutions, then nothing will change.

In a decade, two, three or so, we will look back at this and see it as the modern version of pushing lobotomies as "cures" for everything. In decades to come, the number of people experiencing "gender dysphoria" will plummet to near-non-existence, and this era of medical malpractice and abuse from top to bottom will be compared to the way that paedophiles infiltrated the gay rights movement - but how this time, the abusive fetishists almost won.

The tactics of the trans movement

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@amireallymeangirl is a woman with a great, warm heart, with intelligence to envy. She's thoughtful and kind, a sharp tongue when it's needed, and a softness when it comes to caring for others.

What she's been put through has been downright evil. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, never mind someone as genuinely lovely as her.

If you read this: those thoughts and desires aren't you. They're the cruellest attacks from a vicious voice that you don't deserve. Take all of the time that you need to heal, with all of the support that you need. You're not alone, and there are people here that really care about you. Don't ever be afraid to reach out for help. Love to you. x

Calling radfem artists and writers for @amireallymeangirl.

TW

@amireallymeangirl is a very very kind radfem who came to radblr to look for support. She has been having an extremely hard time because of her endometriosis which resulted in a hysterectomy. She feels dysphoric as a woman and posted that she felt suicidal. In a response to this, "blackpill feminists" have flooded her inbox telling her to commit suicide. some blackpills have posted that they hope she kills herself or dies in her operation. They successfully bullied her off tumblr, making her feel more alone than ever.

@amireallymeangirl came to Tumblr to look for a sense of community. I ask that radfems show your support by submitting a drawing, a story, or just kind words to help her go through this

I'll go first. I'm not an artist, and my pencil was running out of led around 20 hands in, but I attempted to draw a uterus made of hands tearing itself apart to represent to feeling of pain that comes with endometriosis. The addition of hands was to represent that her body was ejecting it and reaching out for help. I made this in attempt to ease her dysphoria after her hysterectomy by making it feel unnatural.

I'm entrusting this in better artists because my vision ended up looking quite morbid

I'm officially out of led, and no pencil sharpener so ill stop here and leave the rest off to u

Look at the people who want to support you, @amireallymeangirl

Contributions

Art:

Contribution from @melancholy-symphony here

Photography:

Contribution from @niiwa-angel here

Writing:

Contribution from @colombinaa here

" I want you OP to know that you have my full support. This speculations are disgusting and horrible to read. Whoever came up with them is a heartless monster rotten to the core. I know what it's like to have nothing working for you anymore. I sometimes fear of having to get a hysterectomy in my future, as it's in my family history and my situation has been bad since my first menstruation. To go through such a surgery is so hard on the self. I may have not experienced one, but i saw it firsthand, with my own two eyes, and i saw what it does. I know that sense of guilt around having female-specific health problems, especially people's dismissal of them and of your pain. That look they give you... like they're deciding whether they wanna put you and your weakness in an asylum or to tell you to shut up and go back to work. Because of all of this, i want you to know that i see you OP, and i hear you. Your experiences and feelings are 100% valid. I also want you to know that me, and many other women on radbir, want you in this world. You deserve a place on Earth and i don't want you to think otherwise. You have all my love and support. ~~~ To see that you have deleted all your posts after your concerning words is very worrying. I know you may have simply decided to get off this app, which i think is what’s best for you right now; still, i am preoccupied. So if you read this, please know that i want you here on this planet. It is your right to live. You are loved and wanted by many. I’m sending you lots and lots of hugs, sister. You deserve life."

Asks:

Contribution from anonymous

Contribution from anonymous

Other support:

@valnyan on Tumblr

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Saying that misogyny is bad somehow... creates homophobes and biphobes...? Are you okay?

If you have beef with someone else, don't be a coward and reblog from a random stranger and take it up directly with them instead.

STOP GIVING BLACK-PILL ‘FEMINISTS’ ATTENTION. I CANT believe it’s gotten to a point that I have to damn rant about. I see a bunch of radfems go on and on about these women and it’s actually so stupid.

Don’t make memes about them. Don’t reblog them. Don’t even acknowledge them.

Who needs to hear this the most? The bisexual/het ones who get so damn pressed when you remind them about things like the fact that their jakey ain’t special.

Just stop it. I’m tired of seeing shit arguing about these damn people. Grow your ass up and learn to block and move on.

Don’t like their extremism? Fucking block them. Don’t like their views? Block them. It’s not that deep. It’s not that hard. You’re grown adults. Start acting like the age you claim you are.

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Considering I haven't said a single thing about Israel, I would reply to you, but I'm afraid that you would hallucinate about me again, so what would be the point?

STOP GIVING BLACK-PILL ‘FEMINISTS’ ATTENTION. I CANT believe it’s gotten to a point that I have to damn rant about. I see a bunch of radfems go on and on about these women and it’s actually so stupid.

Don’t make memes about them. Don’t reblog them. Don’t even acknowledge them.

Who needs to hear this the most? The bisexual/het ones who get so damn pressed when you remind them about things like the fact that their jakey ain’t special.

Just stop it. I’m tired of seeing shit arguing about these damn people. Grow your ass up and learn to block and move on.

Don’t like their extremism? Fucking block them. Don’t like their views? Block them. It’s not that deep. It’s not that hard. You’re grown adults. Start acting like the age you claim you are.

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This big Bur oak (Quercus macrocarpa) is older than Canada

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Anything That Moves (Winter, 1996)

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Cover of Anything That Moves (Winter, 1991)

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not feeling safe around a person who openly calls for me to be raped and murdered is not bigotry

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Totally agreed. All of the incredibly obvious criticisms here like the fact it was never, ever about "Jakeys," but a bunch of women who also will not partner with men (like me!) and women who are partnered with other women disgusted by blackpillers claiming to be the "real radical feminists" while spewing the most horrendous misogynistic slurs that have been recycled from incel forums.

The blackpill defence is always "these women are anti-feminists that defend men!" and "these women hate separatist and celibate women!"

No we don't. We hate the sexual harassment, we hate the misogyny and we hate the creep of incel-esque and "NoFap" manosphere ideology creeping into what's supposed to be the movement for women's liberation.

I personally agree with separatists and all power to celibate straight women. Good for them. It's angering when these blackpills deliberately lie and manipulate what's been going on to try and make themselves the victims.

Aside from that - what does anyone think the women who are circling TRA spheres and who are curious about feminism thinking about this?

What they're going to see is that there are "feminists" who will rip you apart, be huge hypocrites, throw out slurs and are falling into such a deep cult so quickly that they're even anti-masturbation. Then they'll see a bunch of other feminists turning a blind eye and ignoring that behaviour. And then they'll see the hypocrisy of the very same feminists who cry, "Why won't those TRAs disavow and call out those other TRAs for the misogynistic slurs!" and then turn away from actual support from feminists.

Congratulations. Now there are a ton of receipts that TRAs can use and say "this is what radical feminists are really like."

STOP GIVING BLACK-PILL ‘FEMINISTS’ ATTENTION. I CANT believe it’s gotten to a point that I have to damn rant about. I see a bunch of radfems go on and on about these women and it’s actually so stupid.

Don’t make memes about them. Don’t reblog them. Don’t even acknowledge them.

Who needs to hear this the most? The bisexual/het ones who get so damn pressed when you remind them about things like the fact that their jakey ain’t special.

Just stop it. I’m tired of seeing shit arguing about these damn people. Grow your ass up and learn to block and move on.

Don’t like their extremism? Fucking block them. Don’t like their views? Block them. It’s not that deep. It’s not that hard. You’re grown adults. Start acting like the age you claim you are.

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