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Can’t properly explain it, but “I like this character”, “I like how this character is written” and “I care about this character” are 3 very different things which may or may not overlap.

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the only reason i ever miss high school is because it produced genuinely hellish photos such as this one

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maybe if i imagine the character all my problems will be solved

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how it feels to use an adblocker

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The Eternal Wait  - © Sasha Vinci

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fire itself is not evil. it can't choose what it devours.

happy 2nd birthday darkest dungeon 2!

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at the end of a world, the pebbles sing a song for their smallest sibling.

(part of a hnk zine i'm making with @neile for AX!!)

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hey man me and my wife saw you from across the manor and really liked your vibe

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Trying to get in the habit of doing quick environment photo studies, here are a few from these past couple weeks!

Check out their timelapses here

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tiffany robinson art inspired by brutus... the song, its so good

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new game plan called shield yourself at all times and never let anyone in . this will have no repercussions

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I think one of the things that has brought me the most peace in my life was the decision to stop responding to anything not clearly stated to me.

Anxiety: Oh no your friend hates you!

Me: Well they didn't say that. So either they need to fortify and tell me themselves, or I will continue to be their friend exactly as I am.

Not just that though. When people hint drop that they want a thing from you, I act as if I have not noticed at all. Either you directly ask me for that thing, or you are not getting that thing from me.

I actually decided to start doing this because I got diagnosed as autistic and I realised how much stress and unhappiness I put on myself trying to figure out everyone's motives and wants and needs all the time. So I decided I'd just... Stop.

And I tell people that. I tell people "I don't notice or respond to hints or passive aggressive behaviour. Either you need to be straight with me or I will continue as I am." And you know the only person that has had a problem with it?

My former abuser (who I am vvvvv low contact with). Because they relied on me feeling obligated to respond to their unspoken moods and wants to keep me in line.

Everyone else has been immediately on board and my relationships have gotten SO much stronger. Because I am asked directly for things, and I will give a direct reason for my response, regardless of what that response is. (e.g. "Hey, can you call me, I want company on the drive home!" "No, sorry, I'm in the middle of [task], but I will be done in twenty minutes so if you still want my company then, I'll be happy to.")

So I put this out as a suggestion for all people, ND and NT.

Stop responding to hints, passive aggression and other 'unspoken' things. Use, model and encourage clear communication with everyone, you'd be surprised how much easier it makes EVERYTHING!

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01/05/25 (📷 Visa Cash App RB)

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Reblogging your old posts creates what is know as a "leitmotif"

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