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i’m pretty much the same in how i physically present myself. i look like a cis women and queer people often assume i’m straight. i’m not like the most open about being nonbinary, but i’ll also tell people with no issue. i just don’t really advertise it. in my experience, other nonbinary people and trans people are the most understanding of it. i’ve had some cis queer people kind of just look at me like they don’t get it and can’t understand how someone who looks gender conforming can be nonbinary. with lesbians, i often say my gender is lesbian, and it seems it clicks at least somewhat. cishet people always look confused and don’t understand the idea of pronouns seemingly “contrasting” with how someone presents themselves (although i’ve had cis queer people have this same reaction)

overall, i’ve found these to be the most consistent reactions amongst various groups of people. gender truly is a very personal and intimate thing, and it’s very hard to conceptualize it to yourself let alone other people

i highly recommend finding at least one nonbinary/trans person irl and seeing if they’re open to having a discussion about gender. i’ve found it to be incredibly validating and it’s just nice to be able to talk with someone likeminded and aware of themselves like that. nonbinary/trans people are also able to kind of give predictions of how people will react in your area through their own experiences too

i want to come out as nonbinary but i’m still figuring out what that means for me and i just know ppl would think im making it up since i still dress pretty feminine on occasion and im the curviest creature to walk the earth

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about a week ago i found this in a goodwill, one of those “grow in water” toys but

there’s no pictures of what might be inside besides the awful baby clipart, and i am insanely curious about whats actually in the egg 

15 hour adventure starting now

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hm not what i was looking for

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OP found a Kacheek in the pound named 13uttcheeks80085 (already over 500 days old) and almost immediately received a warning on their account before the Kacheek was removed by TNT.

People in the comments are rightfully pointing out how ass backwards it is for YOU to get warned for adopting a pet you didn't even name, while somehow these pets live to be YEARS old before they're found

Regardless "palliative care for neopets" did in fact send me to another plane. Bye

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saying “hi! :3” to the mutual like they’re the neighbors cat.

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A cockatoo broke our rocket. :(

Gonna need a tiny bit more context here bud

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this is, as the kids say, frying me (a glasses wearer)

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Some reptiles shed their outer layer in one full piece.

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Arugula is some crap they found on the ground for real

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saw a car dragging a labubu facedown through the street

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“The Last Supper"  ☢️ (Details) by Adam Skovran

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where’s that article by james frankie thomas where he says like “prior to my transition there was only one kind of sex i wanted to have. and i thought i could never have it” because i am about to blow these people’s minds

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No but this is like. UNPRECEDENTED insane.

Over 1000 fics for a noncanon femslash poly ship, for a movie that a) already has a canon het romance and b) has only existed for A MONTH.

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sponsored ???????

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there are two competing sects on this website - one that uses the word "spicy" to mean "neurodivergent" and one that uses the word "spicy" to mean "sexual content." i do not like either of them