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Actually before I do delete this app I noticed some people talking about how I used to identify as a febfem when I was 15-17 and wanted to actually clear something up: no, I did not lie about identifying as a febfem at the time. I am still bisexual and no amount of faith or political opinions can change that about me. I don't believe in conversion therapy. But I've known for a while now that I'll probably never be able to express that part of me openly because of my family and I've come to terms with that now that I'm a little older. I don't want people to think I was a liar on Radblr or that I meant to deceive people about my identity. I'm making this longer than it needs to be, but it does hurt seeing people imply or think that my identity was a lie or a ruse. I can't change that I'm bi and I'm not going to pretend I'm not.
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Lol ok so I totally forgot about this blog but yea I will not be using it anymore and I will be deleting the app off my phone. I won't deactivate (probably? Idk) since I still see some stragglers reblogging stuff soooooo yea! ✌️
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girls when they get overstimulated in the grocery store

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Jesus said: In truth I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me. (Matthew 25:31-40)
Forgiving is one of the most unbelievable, one of the most indispensable Gospel realities for anyone who wants to follow Christ. And a heart overflowing with kindness is sometimes close to a miracle in our lives.
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You're lying. I never said it was "good" to be raped and made pregnant, and that just shows how many pro-choicers are pathological liars! I'll copy paste what I wrote in my last reblog, so that you may know my opinion on this instead of inserting your own words into my mouth!
"I think if a woman is made pregnant by rape, she should be entirely supported throughout it, with financial, physical, and mental support. I think it's a terrible thing to be raped, and worse even to be made pregnant by it. I think nothing about it is easy. But trauma never warrants killing an innocent person. You would not argue that a woman with untreated PPD should be able to kill her born child, because obviously, trauma does no justify infanticide, and doesn't justify abortion."
Where do I believe it's "good" to be raped and made pregnant? Stop being deliberately obtuse and put on your reading cap.
I find it funny that I keep saying that all life has value and all humans deserve the right to life ... and radfems' response to that is to tell me to kill myself. Like, do you think that's working on your part?
#also i didn't use middle age as an insult#i said it bc its true!#im 19 and have women in their 30s telling me to kill myself and that i have no value#it just goes to show how age does not always equal maturity
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I think if a woman is made pregnant by rape, she should be entirely supported throughout it, with financial, physical, and mental support. I think it's a terrible thing to be raped, and worse even to be made pregnant by it. I think nothing about it is easy. But trauma never warrants killing an innocent person. You would not argue that a woman with untreated PPD should be able to kill her born child, because obviously, trauma does no justify infanticide, and doesn't justify abortion.
I find it funny that I keep saying that all life has value and all humans deserve the right to life ... and radfems' response to that is to tell me to kill myself. Like, do you think that's working on your part?
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It doesn't disappear, that's the point. I think if you are aware you are pregnant, you have a moral obligation to not subject that child to harm. You also have a moral obligation to not subject yourself to harm, too. Both of their lives matter, which is why I said I wish for her the smoothest recovery. However that doesn't change the fact that this woman is guilty of child abuse at best, and manslaughter at worst.

Whatever your views, it is clear that poor women, and particularly woc, are always going to suffer most under these anti abortion laws.
And if she’s a rich white woman? Oh, she is totally fine.
In Texas, for example, you think anyone will kick up a fuss if an unhappily pregnant millionaire’s daughter catches a plane to NYC or California for a couple of days?
No. Of course not.
Let’s think about that.
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I'm not sure where this reblog is from (the screenshot), but I'm very sick of people attacking me constantly with this "Why did you even come back?" stuff. I came back to Tumblr because I was bored and this is my personal blog. I can blog about whatever I want, and I deserve the privacy to at least not have my personal life pried open and have personal attacks made on me (people saying my faith is blinding me, that one lady who said she wished I'd get pregnant and abandoned).
The idea that being pro-life is about condemning women to trauma is false; it's about preventing the death of the innocent. I have also experienced trauma as well. I have been sexually assaulted, have had pornography made of me, and have grown up with an abusive man in the household. All of what I've suffered in life has convinced me that life is valuable, ans that regardless of how I was treated and objectified, that my life mattered the second I was conceived. And I maintain this mentality for every other person. I don't think that anyone should have the right to blindly take away life, it must always be absolutely necessary, or else it's not permissible at all.
As for the "you're traumatizing women in their own space", Tumblr is a public space. I can post about whatever I want, and nothing I've written has been an attack on anything or anyone. I have not threatened anyone, I have not harassed anyone, I reblogged a pro-life post ans got bombarded with asks about it. Naturally, I responded to one of these asks, and chaos and harassment ensued. I've been told to kill myself and told that I should be made pregnant against my will. Is this not triggering? Is this not actual harassment? I think you are the ones victimizing yourselves, when I have made no attack on anyone.
So like classic pro-choicers, people are lying about me that I'm some religious fanatic that blindly follows my boyfriend, and that I've lied for years about being a feminist and being bisexual. I'm not even sure why I'm clearing this up, but I don't like having my private life pried-into like this especially when it's false.
1) I have been reading into the pro-life stance for longer than the few months that have recently passed. Only recently, in the last month or so, have I really come to be confident in my pro-life ideas. No, I did not switch up and immediately become pro-life after I left Radblr in September. I was interested in it far longer than that, only when I was off Tumblr did I have the chance to really read through it.
2) I have had a boyfriend for longer than the few months that have recently passed. I did not get a boyfriend immediately after leaving Radblr in the September. And neither did he "convince me" into being religious (which I was before I left Radblr and before I met him) or pro-life (he was mostly neutral on abortion, I brought the topic up to him as I learned more about it)..
3) I still consider myself a feminist because I believe in women's liberation. I am still fervently anti-rape culture, anti-prostitution, anti-pornography, anti-surrogacy, anti-FGM and what not, all for feminist reasons. I have experienced misogyny in my personal life, and I've seen it in the lives of women around me. I do not, however, consider myself a radical feminist anymore, although this change was not immediate after leaving Radblr in September.
4) I never lied about my sexuality. I am still bisexual, I am simply dating a man. I gradually stopped the "febfem" label ages ago and I can't remember the last time I called myself that. However, I know for certain that the last time I called myself a "febfem" was far before I left Radblr in September.
This narrative that I left Radblr in September and became a radically different person is wrong. I was always religious, my being pro-life is not all that sudden, my having a boyfriend is also not all that sudden. I would appreciate if people did not make lies about me especially since they do not know me. I hope this clears things up.
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No and that situation is not at all the same. Refusing to donate an organ is an inaction, you're not doing anything. If a person dies because you refused to donate organs, then that's not at all you're doing or your fault. You may have played a role in refusing them your organ, but you did not kill them. They died from whatever disease they had.
Having an abortion, however, is an action. It kills a person every single time it happens. Regardless of whether the child is in the stage of zygote, embryo, or fetus, it is always a person, always a human being. Abortion is an action that goes out of its way to kill that life.
So like classic pro-choicers, people are lying about me that I'm some religious fanatic that blindly follows my boyfriend, and that I've lied for years about being a feminist and being bisexual. I'm not even sure why I'm clearing this up, but I don't like having my private life pried-into like this especially when it's false.
1) I have been reading into the pro-life stance for longer than the few months that have recently passed. Only recently, in the last month or so, have I really come to be confident in my pro-life ideas. No, I did not switch up and immediately become pro-life after I left Radblr in September. I was interested in it far longer than that, only when I was off Tumblr did I have the chance to really read through it.
2) I have had a boyfriend for longer than the few months that have recently passed. I did not get a boyfriend immediately after leaving Radblr in the September. And neither did he "convince me" into being religious (which I was before I left Radblr and before I met him) or pro-life (he was mostly neutral on abortion, I brought the topic up to him as I learned more about it)..
3) I still consider myself a feminist because I believe in women's liberation. I am still fervently anti-rape culture, anti-prostitution, anti-pornography, anti-surrogacy, anti-FGM and what not, all for feminist reasons. I have experienced misogyny in my personal life, and I've seen it in the lives of women around me. I do not, however, consider myself a radical feminist anymore, although this change was not immediate after leaving Radblr in September.
4) I never lied about my sexuality. I am still bisexual, I am simply dating a man. I gradually stopped the "febfem" label ages ago and I can't remember the last time I called myself that. However, I know for certain that the last time I called myself a "febfem" was far before I left Radblr in September.
This narrative that I left Radblr in September and became a radically different person is wrong. I was always religious, my being pro-life is not all that sudden, my having a boyfriend is also not all that sudden. I would appreciate if people did not make lies about me especially since they do not know me. I hope this clears things up.
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everything should have a female-only option. transport, housing, gyms, whatever, but also apps. imagine google maps but you have an option where you can report locations where you have been harrassed before, and they include criminal statistics, they show you shops that are still open in case someone follows you, where there are lights on your way, etc so you get a proposition for the safest way home. and spotify, youtube, etc should release an option that you can filter for female artists and creators. and so on
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bible verses to help you get through this semester:
"My sadness has worn me out. Give me strength as you have promised." - Psalm 119:28
"But I will sing about your strength. I will rejoice in your love every morning. You have been my place of safety, the place I can run to when troubles come." - Psalm 59:16
"The Lord gives me strength and protects me. He has saved me. He is my God, I will praise him. He is my father’s God, and I will honor him." - Exodus 15:2
"He gives strength to those who are tired. He gives power to those who are weak." - Isaiah 40:29
"Yes, I am glad to have weaknesses if they are for Christ. I am glad to be insulted and have hard times. I am glad when I am persecuted and have problems, because it is when I am weak that I am really strong." - 2 Corinthians 12:10


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a gentle reminder for all the believers out there: don't believe the lie that you are too far gone for God to reach you again. remember where & who you were before God. if he thought you were too much for him, if he thought you had strayed too far, then he wouldn't have reached out and saved you. what makes you believe it is any different this time around? the truth is: if you weren't too far gone without God, you aren't too far gone with God. he still loves you.
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Pride and Prejudice (2005) + tumblr posts (part 1)
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"In the world there has been only one positively beautiful person - Christ. Therefore, the appearance of this wonderful, infinitely beautiful person is in itself an infinite miracle. The entire Gospel of John is devoted to precisely this. In it, St. John declares that the whole miracle is in the incarnation alone, in the very manifestation or emergence of the beautiful."
~Fyodor Dostoyevsky
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A little digging around into this case showed me that Poolaw did not just "miscarry" by accident. She admitted to taking methamphetamine despite her pregnancy. This was a conscious choice which helped lead to the death of her unborn child. Since 2020, the Oklahoma Court of Criminal Appeals has made it clear that women can be charged with abuse, and yes, manslaughter, for taking such drugs.
So no, women are not being convicted simply because of accidental miscarriages. They are being convicted of taking hard drugs while pregnant, and doing so while knowingly subjecting their unborn child to substantial harm.
Despite this, I still wish for her to have a safe recovery from any addiction she may have, and that once released from prison, she can receive any and all help for the future.

Whatever your views, it is clear that poor women, and particularly woc, are always going to suffer most under these anti abortion laws.
And if she’s a rich white woman? Oh, she is totally fine.
In Texas, for example, you think anyone will kick up a fuss if an unhappily pregnant millionaire’s daughter catches a plane to NYC or California for a couple of days?
No. Of course not.
Let’s think about that.
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Love the claim that I'm not a feminist because ... *checks notes* I think unborn humans shouldn't be killed.
Also RE: Your tags, like most pro-choicers, you're being intentionally dishonest.

I have consistently wrote that I value both the life of the mother and child, they are both humans and both deserving of the human right to life. I believe the second the pregnancy becomes complicated so as to risk the mother's life, that she should be able to opt for abortion. I support that right 100% and, seeing what was going on with Kate Cox was very frustrating to me. Even being pro-life, I found that case a disgusting affront on her rights. I will never value either life over the other.
another example of how being popular in feminist online circles does not make someone a feminist by default. once again not much the fault of the community that called her out on her lesbophobia months ago for "driving her away" from feminism, but another symptom of a bigotry rabbit hole she was already slowly falling into
#pro choice radfems on this site cannot stop lying about my beliefs so they can paint some bad picture of me#they think im all 'i think every woman should be pregnant against her will and if you dont like it then youre going to hell!!' or something#they fail to understand that i want for many of the same things#i simply do not believe that killing the unborn is okay unless it is medically necessary#but notice how they will make me out to be some religious fanatic who hates women... bc the only thing they can do is lie and lie
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The amount of reblogs, comments, and DMs (both supportive and otherwise) I've been getting in the last few days is staggering el oh el
#oh well#i hope the pro choice crowd realises every time you insult me or insult unborn children i just get more pro life
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