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Are you taken? Tag your daddy! Does he know about your post? What does he think of your kinks? Is he kinky, how did you both meet? Only curious 🥺

Wow alot in one ask lol. Not tagging him, yes he’s aware of my page, we have similar kinks and met on a sidewalk.

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My Dom won’t spank me! How to get him to do it?

1. Just ask him about it. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

2. I’m not a fan of trying to “get people to do” anything. Communicate your needs/wants clearly, leave it up to them to execute it. If it never gets done, figure out if it’s a dealbreaker.

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Show us your face sweetie. Following you for over three years and don’t know what you look like beautiful.

“Don’t know what you look like beautiful” such a lovely contradiction. Nonetheless, here’s a gif of me relaxing.

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Sometimes I don’t feel submissive. What’s the best method to regain mysubmissive mindset when i’m not in the mood.

Sometimes I sit in front of the mirror and go through different submissive poses. Other times I start to “ask for permission” more frequently for random things. Also watching a kinky movie, my favorite being “The Secretary” sometimes helps.

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Wine or Beer?

Mhm Champagne and Liquor ✨

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I want a Daddy but can’t find one. Help me find one! Where did you meet yours? Did you meet on tumblr?

No we didn’t meet on tumblr, I’d advise you to not meet men from tumblr, that’s hella sketch.

We actually met in real life, on the street. I was waiting for my Uber and he was standing outside as well and we just started chatting.

I’d suggest attending local kink community munches or download a dating app!

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What kinda love language are you?

90% Quality Time & 10% Physical Touch

90% I enjoy spending time with my partner regardless of the activity. I love being in their presence, and having the attention.

10% I loveeeee PDA (public display of affection) Hold my hand, kiss my forehead, give me hugs, makeout with me, slap my ass lol

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I think my Dom has a kink he wants to explore with me. How do I go about it? Why won’t he bring it up?

1.How do you go about it?

Super simple...communication. Use your words.

2.Why won’t he bring it up?

Why don’t you bring it up and just ask him.....what’s the worst that can happen?

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My Boyfriend is dominat and wants to try things with me in the bdsm community. I’ve agreed to this and told him it would take time but I am fully committed to try stuff out. He wants to take me shopping and buy us a toy. I’ve used toys personally in the past but am unsure about whats a nice “couples” toy. As a beginner, what are some good recommendations as a starting off point?

Lovesense 2! It’s a Bluetooth vibrator! You put it inside, and let him have control. It’s great if you’re into discrete public play too! The hands free mode is also fun to use on your own . ☺️

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Why another page for ask?

Tumblr won’t let me use my ask due to my page being marked as explicit. So I found a workaround!

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Can I fly you out to meet me?

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What's some of your kink

On a high level....If it’s on my blog it’s something I want to do, or have done. I’d say 95% of my post are things I’ve done.

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You got a Daddy?

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You got a Daddy?

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You a girl or guy? You post a whole lot about submissives. You a submissive or Dominant

1. A girl.

2. Take a wild guess. If i’m in pain and it brings you pleasure, what does that make me?

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I’ve been following you since last year. About time you did this. Congratulations on the following number. Do we get to see a picture of you?

Thanks. Mhmm no you don’t get to see me. My blog should be sufficient enough.