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I just simply cannot understand the hate that is thrown at Sam and Caitriona.

First of all, none of you know them personally. You only know what they post and let you see. Just like all of us , they choose what they want to share. If you find images or information about them that they DID NOT choose to share, then you are responsible for your own narratives about that information- not them. Just because they don't act in a way that fulfills your personal fantasies doesn't mean they are bad people.

Second, if you don't like them or their work, think they have been lying to you for YEARS, think they don't have much talent ( or arrogantly think you know SOO much more about acting, theatre, and film than they do), and/or believe every rumor you read or hear about them-- THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE?

Think about your own SM behavior. How many of us here have names on SM that are not our true names? How many of you post EVERYTHING about your life-good, bad, and ugly truthfully? Or do you use filters and only post the best images of yourself? We only know the Sam and Caitriona that they have chosen to share. We don't know who they really are. We don't know their true intentions. We don't know what either of them might do anonymously with their money. We don't know the things about their personal lives that they guard very carefully.

Caitriona gets bashed for not sharing more. Please, people, she has a small child. In her position, I would do exactly the same. Her work may be for you-watch her again and again if you choose- but her husband and child are not in this business and they are for her. Period.

Don't get me started on Sam. Geez. Either he's accused of being a closeted gay man, a married man with multiple kids who LIES about them every day, or he's some trashy f$&@ boy who just uses women and moves on to the next one. And he only uses his fans to make money. If you believe any of this shit, then why watch or follow him?? He cannot possibly win with this fandom. If he posts, it's to get $$ or attention for his ego. If he doesn't post, he's ignoring his fans. And then the bullshit about his female fans. Look, if a grown ass woman with her own money and her own mind wants to spend it on Sam, what business is that of yours? Are you just assuming that these women are not intelligent enough to choose how they spend their own $$ or time?

And it's very insulting when people attack EVERY person that Sam trusts and is close friends with. You say they use him- like he's just too stupid to see through them. You do NOT know them or their relationship with Sam. He trusts them for a reason and doesn't need our approval.

There's way too many people in this so- called fandom who are just pissed at Sam because he isn't as perfect as they imagined him to be. He dares to have clay feet, to make mistakes, to enjoy a good joke, to spend time with the people HE chooses to spend time with. Sam the man just isn't JAMMF, the fantasy.

Personally, I think I like Sam better. Sure, I love the fantasy of JAMMF and wish romance could be like it is in the fiction books. But Sam, the ordinary guy, the one who makes mistakes like all of us, the one people who do know him and have worked with him say only good things about him - I like that guy. The guy who admits he has faults and fears. The one who has to know by now that whatever he shares with us will be dissected, over analyzed, judged, made fun of. His motives always questioned. But he still posts and shares. And honestly is one of the only cast members who tries to share with us and keep us in the loop.

Personally, I like Sam and Caitriona. Even after all the years of bullshit and fandom craziness I still see the amazing story they created. I still see way more good in these two than bad. I still cheer for their success and get excited when something good happens for them. I don't know them and never will. I will probably never meet either of them. I also realize that they have a unique bond, a strong trust that has been built over time. One that no one other than the two of them can ever really understand. An ability to be truthful, honest, and vulnerable with each other in a way many people will never experience. And wherever their lives and careers take them after OL ends, they will forever have that bond. That gift.

Thank you #CaitrionaBalfe and #SamHeughan for sharing that gift with us. I wish you both only happiness and success, love and peace in your future.

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Sydney 24th February 2024

Melbourne 25 February 2024

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