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ancient greek word of the day: κακοθερής (kakotherēs), unfitted to endure summer heat

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This Pride I hope that all of you never ever forget that no amount of sanitizing your sex life or sanding down of your LGBT edges will make bigots accept you. So, don’t debase yourself by capitulating an inch to them, especially in ways that throw your fellow community members under the bus.

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I see you’re trapped in my gay and stupid maze again

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*emerges from the other room covered in blood* you should see the word document

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sorry i cant hang out i forgot how to mimic human like behaviour

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This has to be satire right???? Right??!?!? Are you proposing I murder my flatmate?????? Benjicat please explain??

TW: SA!!!

Chat how do I cope with multiple people in my life (some I do/ will live with) getting outed as physical/sexual assaulters?????

Like why can’t I go a single month without someone I know being outed as a fucking abhorrent person???

And why is it every single man ever .. like not to be like “all men” but it is all men. Even the ones that aren’t rapists always find a way to keep rapists around

Killing myself (not rlly)

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Guys my friend accidentally wrote slam poetry and he’s too scared to share it himself 🥺🥺🥺

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TW: SA!!!

Chat how do I cope with multiple people in my life (some I do/ will live with) getting outed as physical/sexual assaulters?????

Like why can’t I go a single month without someone I know being outed as a fucking abhorrent person???

And why is it every single man ever .. like not to be like “all men” but it is all men. Even the ones that aren’t rapists always find a way to keep rapists around

Killing myself (not rlly)

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*dancing queen by ABBA plays in the distance while I bleed out on the bathroom floor from 17 stab wounds*

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this post is exclusively for people with dirty rooms

this post is specifically for people who know their room is a mess, but their brain won't let them clean it. this post is for you. I love you and I see you

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“I know I’ve told this story before, but my abusive ex refused to let me take birth control. I was on the pill until he found them in my purse. I went to the Student Health Center—they were completely unhelpful, choosing to lecture me about the importance of safe sex (recommending condoms) instead of actually listening to my problem. Then I went to Planned Parenthood. The Nurse Practitioner took one look at my fading bruises and stopped the exam. She called in the doctor. The doctor came in and simply asked me: “Are you ready to leave him?” When I denied that I was being abused, she didn’t argue with me. She just asked me what I needed. I said I need a birth control method that my boyfriend couldn’t detect. She recommended a few options and we decided on Depo. When I told her that my boyfriend read my emails and listened to my phone messages and was known to follow me, she suggested to do the Depo injections at off hours when the clinic was normally closed. She made a note in my chart and instructed the front desk never to leave messages for me—instead, she programmed her personal cell phone number into my phone under the name “Nora”. She told me she would call me to schedule my appointments; she wouldn’t leave a message, but I should call her back when I was able to. And that was it. No judgment. No lecture. She walked me to the door and told me to call her day or night if I needed anything. That she lived 5 blocks from campus and would come get me. That I wasn’t alone. That she just wanted me to be safe. I never called her to come to my rescue. But I have no doubt that she would have come if I had called. She kept me on Depo for a year, giving me those monthly injections in secret, helping me prevent a desperately unwanted pregnancy. I cannot thank Planned Parenthood enough for the work they do.”

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Curious Georgiana (via grrrlstudies)

I know I’ve reblogged this before, but it bears re-reblogging (?).  This is how you respond to abuse, this is how you give people control over their bodies/uteruses, this is how you act as a generally non-judgmental and compassionate person.  I love this story so fucking much.

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its decmbre ... the gronch

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mr. strange are you an h. harris bomberguy fan?

Yeah. Haven’t seen the new video yet though! Thank you all for filling my inbox with fragmentary and confusing spoilers in the meantime.