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K I forgot I was gonna send u an ask 4 ur selfship ask meme but I remembered now so. Who was ur first F/O? Whether you knew the term or not. And as a bonus! Who's ur most recent f/o?

AUGH I DIDN'T SEE THIS curse Tumblr for not giving actual notifications for asks

Anyway! I think my first was Bonnie from FNAF :) I did ship art of him and my sona at the time (anthro snowshoe Siamese cat) on uh. Some coding site that will remain unnamed. People were surprisingly chill with it??? I guess cause we were all really young

The most recent,,, they're so recent I haven't even put them on the list yet lmao, I nabbed them at the same time. They're Shen Moqing and Wang Jiaotong from Paper Bride 3: Unresolved Love! I keep putting characters already in relationships into a silly little polycule. Before this I grabbed Nie Moqi and Ning Zifu from Paper Bride 1 for the same reason >:3c

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One of the most hurtful things I've heard in this community is that you are not going to be as noticed or loved in the self shipping community if all you do is talk about your f/os. You have to commission artists. You have to draw. You have to consistently post art. Your fanfics will be ignored. But yknow. It's not true. I know I get hung up by this a lot and unfortunately there is some truth to it. Even so, I really hope that that doesn't affect other selfshippers like how it affected me. I hope you can continue to talk about your f/os. Your f/os love you even if you just talk about them.

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𓄹 Imagine - you're cleaning the room you share with your F/O and, suddenly, you find a box of letters they wrote and never showed you.

You didn’t know the box existed until you found it tucked away on a high shelf.

Inside, the edges of folded papers peeked out, some worn at the corners, others crisp and new. Your fingers trembled as you pulled one free — the ink was messy, like it had been written late at night when the words spilled too fast to catch.

Some letters were unfinished, thoughts trailing off mid-sentence like they’d been too fragile to hold steady. Others were so raw and vulnerable, it felt like the writer was reaching through time and space, hoping you’d understand the parts they never dared say aloud.

You read about the nights they stayed awake, wrestling with the weight of loving you; not because it was easy, but because you were worth every uncertain moment.

You found apologies for days you didn’t even remember, confessions of admiration that made your throat tighten, and promises whispered quietly to a version of you they saw even when you couldn’t see yourself.

And somewhere between the pages, you realized: every word, every hesitation, every imperfect phrase was a map — a quiet guide through the complicated, beautiful truth of being known and loved.

You folded the letters carefully, pressed them to your chest, and for the first time in a long while, you felt seen in a way words usually couldn’t reach.

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Happy Juneteenth to all African-American selfshippers!!!

Friendly reminder that your beloveds would always always ALWAYS fight for you! They’re proud to call themselves YOUR partner and they refuse to allow someone else to put you down or mess with your life due to their own prejudices. Hand in hand and head held high, they’ll gladly shower you in their affection and spoil you to show how much they care about you and they won’t hold back their love for anyone. They don’t care what other people think! How could they when the most important person in their world is right next to them💜💜

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Your f/o's remembering the littlest details about you, the smallest things that make you happy. Not because you reminded them, but because they truly listen to you and what you have to say.

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First thing I did when I landed was complete this. Youre welcome

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hey. you. lie on your f/o's chest like a cat right now

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under a blanket of stars, you find yourself spellbound by the twinkle of those faraway burning, celestial bodies. yet they find themself gazing at you instead. you shine much brighter than any star ever could. even as a shooting star passes by and you make a wish, they stay silent. their wish has already came true in the form of another star - you.

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Late night walks with your F/O . .

at the beach <3

The sand is cool beneath your feet, the night breeze carrying the hush of waves and distant whispers from the sea. Moonlight dances across the tide, painting the world in silver and shadow. You walk slowly, wrapped in the hush of midnight, and your F/O walks beside you - quiet, captivated.

To them, the light you carry outshines the stars shimmering above you. Even as the ocean sings its lullaby to the moon, they don’t make a sound. After all, their favorite view isn’t the sea or the sky; it’s you, glowing softly under a heaven of waves and wonder.

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"I ruined their life" S/I × "They saved my life" F/O

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Oh yeah here's some sels

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Happy pride month! LET'S GO GIRLS!

Happy pride month to all my sapphic selfshipper peeps!

Happy pride to my lesbian yume peeps, my bisexual yume peeps, my pansexual yume peeps and my ace and aro yume peeps! This community can be really harsh to women sometimes but know that your F/Os love you!

Proship/comship and terfs DNI

THIS POST IS ABOUT SAPPHIC SELFSHIPPERS. DO NOT DERAIL

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I'm lowkey objectum and ship myself with many objects and concepts but idk how common that is here so. Rip to me

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Okay I think the "shown in an 18+ design" thing could be a little confusing so! I will use Pokemon to explain:

Red and Blue are 30 in Ultra Sun and Ultra Moon. We know this because of the dex entry for Porygon. We also know that Ethan/Gold and Silver are 2 years younger than them. This means that we can assume they're both 28 canonically

However unlike Red and Blue, we haven't seen them as adults. Red and Blue are present and can be spoken with and even fought, while Ethan/Gold and Silver haven't been seen since their games. Red and Blue may have been portrayed as minors originally, but they have canonically aged and we get to see that multiple times. But even if I can infer that Ethan/Gold and Silver are well into adulthood, I haven't seen them. My only frame of reference for them is what they were when they were 12. So I don't feel comfortable shipping with them. This could change sometime in the future if we ever see canon adult designs, who knows! But for now, no. No seen aging, no shipping

Does that like. Make sense? I think that makes sense hopefully

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I have. Realized how nonsensical my blog title (and therefore first line of my pinned) are without context

CK3 is a very normal game with very normal events

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IT IS DONE

OKAY I AM. GOING TO MAKE MY PINNED TODAY!!!