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Has anyone figured out what’s so viscerally wrong with this woman yet

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i see band au i draw band au :3 hell yeah

@post-pacific u r a genius

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haikyuu cast if they were mass produced keychains

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still version + deets

(gif version)

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this one has been a wip for a month

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BR quotes haikyuu edition hehe

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no U are not anyones “yandere girlfriend” you are a white girl with cat ear headphones who calls herself mizaki chan

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atsukita my beloved ………………………. FOX SPIRIT ATSUMU WITH HIS FARMER BOYFRIEND KITA MY BELOVED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

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cat lover

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he’s NOT following the score!!!!!!

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"pick a few pictures to describe the furin trio."

"say less."

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Oh, (to be a) white haired anime boy with fox themes  (︶︿︶)

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Fatherhood

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On the subject about parents needing to control their child's reading and invade their privacy in order to "protect" them from "inappropriate material:

Until I was in....college? At least? The vast, vast majority of the books I read were either a) assigned by my school or b) (the vast majority of my reading) provided to me by my mother.

My mom is a librarian. She filled our rooms with books, picked especially for us. She pointed out books on the shelves in our home library (separate from our bedroom shelves) that she thought we would like. She bought us books for birthdays, Christmas, and just stacks of recommendations. She once paid me $10 to read one of the Cirque Du Freak books because she said I needed "to be exposed to bad literature."

She respected my privacy in room, didn't go through my belongings. She explicitly pointed out to us that she wouldn't know if we took a particular book of the shelf, as long as we returned it, if we didn't want her to know we were reading it. She purposely brought us books that she didn't care for herself, because she thought we might find them valuable or enjoyable.

And if we wanted to read something she thought might upset or disturb us, she would explain why. She wouldn't stop us from reading it - just ask us to check in with her, to talk through it.

And so when I read something that upset or disturbed me, I would go to her. She would listen and talk through it with me.

If she said she didn't think I would like something, or that a book might disturb me, or that she thought I should wait until I was older, I listened to her.

She didn't need restrictions or control to protect me. Because she proved I could trust her.

Controlling kids is never about "protecting" them. It's just about control.