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nobossladyshit-blog · 7 years ago

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HONESTY BRINGS PEACE

The last few days was crazy and i want to share some of my thoughts with y’all!

I was wondering why is so hard for people to be honest???? The deeper i go into the sudject of lying, the more i see how much pain and stress it cause to everyone involved. Sadly, all of us have been effected by lying, whether our own or someone else’s, but the truth is thatb HONESTY BRINGS PEACE! Lying is extremely stressful; it causes you to be constatly looking over your shoulder and wondering who might be finding you out. You are always running through the lies you have told in you head, trying to keep track of what you have told to whitch person and whats the next lie you have to tell for make the game go on. When you are honest you dont have those worries, or the negative consequences of your lies. If you resist the temptation to lie, you increase your capacity to built lasting relationships of trust, whather is dating, family, friends or at work, none wants a lying ass in his/ her life.

Why people lie? In general we try to protect ourself, we lying often to avoid suffering painful consequences, shame, embarassment or conflict. We try to protect our interests, we lie to get what we want. We lie to get material goods (like money) and non material goods (like attention). We try to protect our image; we all want others to think well of us so when we doing things that we know are not respectable we cover it up. But none of this reason is enough for justify the hurt we cause to the people victims of our insecurities.

There are to different liars, the compulsive/pathological one and sociopath, the outcome is typically the same: deal with a compulsive or pathological liar is difficult to do and unfortunately sociopaths cannot be change. A compulsive liar will telling lies regatdless of the situation; everyone lies from time to time but for a compulsive liar telling lies is routine. For this kind of person ut becames an habit, a way of life, lying becomes second nature. Lying can became addictive and hard to stop, for him/her lying feels safe. For a sociopath the situation is different, they have an antisocial personality disorder, a narcissistic personality disorder, a borderline personality disorder or they are just PSYCHOPATICS.

In the end usually people that are effected byt this people need years to realize with what they dealing for, sometimes just bc for nature we try to trust ppl that we love, sometimes just bc we dont see reasons that could justify it but the truth is that even if we consider it as pathology i believe that evry human been is able to understand what is right from wheat is not, what is good from what is bad, so no amounth of theories and books and psicologist can convince me that these are just poor ppl that need help!!!!! I am a woman that hAve been effected from liars, they finish to change your vision of the world, the vision that u had before of relationships will change completly ( not in a good way), you start to doubt about yourself, all your convinctions disapperar and you open your eyes on something that until that moment was completly inexistent.

Dear readers just remember one thing, none have the right to change you, no love, no friendship, NOTHING and NOBODY have the right to effect your values, your desires, your necessity expecially if for do it he/she uses lies and games. Be smart and fuck his/her life up before he/she fucked up your lol

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nobossladyshit-blog · 7 years ago

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NON ESSERE KLOE

Ho pensato molto a cosa scrivere senza offendere la sensibilità di voi che mi leggete, ma la verità è che non c’è un modo giusto per dire quello che sto per dire lol :” DONNE, DOVE’ FINITA LA DIGNITÀ?!?!?!?”

Ero lì, annoiata come sempre, e vedo su Instagram la notizia di un famoso giocatore di basket che tradisce ripetutamente la sua fidanzata super milionaria(incinta) e lei se lo riprende!?!? Cioè,precisamente che problema hai??? Adesso non è il momento di parlare di lui,(lo farò un’altra volta) ma tu donna, cosa ti è scattato nella testa per poter anche solo pensare che la mossa giusta da fare sia quella di tornare insieme ad un maschio del genere? Davanti a me ho avuto le risposte a tutte le domande di una vita, queste “donne” sono il motivo primario perché NOI donne sane di mente e con un minimo di amor proprio siamo single! Tutti non fanno altro che chiedermi perché non hai un uomo?!?! Sei bella, sei intelligente, sei sexy, sei divertente, sai perfino cucinare lol, allora perché sei single!?!!Bhe’ la risposta me l ha data Kloe Kardashian, non sono un idiota senza DIGNITÀ.

Ebbene sì, la competizione più si va avanti con gli anni e più diventa impari, ma non si potrà mai vincere se davanti a te hai donne che accettano tradimenti, bugie, prese per c...,figli con altre donne, insulti etc etc. Gli uomini si sa’, sono esseri molto semplici, siamo noi che vediamo retro pensieri dove in realtà non c’era neanche il pensiero lol, nessuno uomo al mondo si farà carico di tutta la mucca quando può avere tranquillamente il latte, e per questo dobbiamo ringraziare alle Kloe di turno. Non molti anni fa, mi è capitato di avere a che fare con la regina del #teamnodignity, questa donna, negli anni si era convinta di essere l’amata di quest’uomo che nel frattempo aveva vere e proprie relazioni, costantemente lei contattava tutte queste donne per avere risposte e queste non si facevano attendere con foto, video, messaggi in cui lui addirittura ammetteva di usarla come bancomat personale, ma lei nonostante tutto era sempre lì, a difendere questo AMORE lol; adesso, io non sono nessuno per giudicare ma fino a che punto una può essere tanto stupida!?!?! Purtroppo questo è solo uno dei tanti esempi che posso farvi, ma il punto è sempre lo stesso, nessuna donna può elevarsi se ci sono donne che continuano ad umiliarsi.

Il tradimento è tradimento, non c’è nulla che possa giustificarlo; certo uno può fare una distinzione tra un tradimento seriale ed uno occasionale, ma resta sempre il fatto che è stato fatto, in quel momento quella persona non ha minimamente considerato la tua sensibilità, il tuo dolore, tutto quello che hai investito per lui/lei, se n’è sbattutto completamente e ha fatto quello che voleva e se lo fa più di una volta è solo perché sa che ti ritroverà sempre lì a stirargli le camice e a preparargli la cena! Ancora più ridicole sono quelle che mettono i manifesti della loro indignazione ma poi dopo poche settimane o mesi sono lì a litigare con la one night stand perché loro sono solo sesso invece loro sono L’ AMORE ahahah. DONNE DONNE DONNE, ma davvero le vostre mamma vi hanno portato in grembo per 9 mesi per poi vedervi essere la bambola del tizio di turno?!?! Tutte abbiamo amato quasi ossessivamente qualcuno e io non sto qui a dire che il tradimento non va perdonato, ma tutta questa accondiscendenza, tutto questo timore di restare sole, tutta questa necessità che negli anni avete trasmesso a questi uomini non hanno fatto altro che renderli forti e soprattutto ha reso noi deboli, deboli di non poter scegliere ciò che davvero vogliamo per noi stesse, ciò che ci fa stare davvero bene, non siamo più in grado di vederci felici da sole, ci sentiamo incomplete ed è per questo che assecondiamo certi atteggiamenti non giusti. La rovina delle relazioni moderne siamo noi donne, perché l’uomo ha due istinti principali,mangiare e scopare e, passa la sua vita alla ricerca della soddisfazione di questi, ma se noi donne, TUTTE NOI iniziassimo a ribellarci e a non accondiscendere a certe cose (es: parla con altre donne?!?vabbe’sta solo parlando; dorme con altre donne!?vabbe’ ma poi torna sempre qui; ti mente!?! Vabbè quello è fatto così; ti manca di rispetto!? È solo un momento non è cattivo; etc etc) loro smetterebbero di farlo, perché non avrebbero alternativa. Noi abbiamo dato loro l’idea che hanno sempre una alternativa, perché se io lo caccio di casa ci sarà sempre la disperata di turno che lo accoglierà e quindi per quale motivo GLI UOMINI dovrebbero comportarsi come tali!?!?

Impariamo a volerci bene signore, impariamo a scegliere e non a essere scelte, impariamo a dire no se una cosa non sembra giusta, impariamo a non confondere la dolcezza con stupidità, impariamo che se un uomo preferisce un altra a noi solo perché non abbiamo accettato qualcosa allora va bene così, non è una lotta a chi diventa più tappetino! Il cane va educato non assecondato!

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nobossladyshit-blog · 9 years ago

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Insecure rhymes with cure...

Who has never happened in the life of being accused by their lovers,husbands, boyfriends or other women of being INSECURE ?! It seems that when a woman expresses a concept, a concern or simply slams you in the face the truth the only thing left to do to your partner is to accuse you of insecurity;WHY? It has been many months since my last blog, I have experienced several important things in this period and also I have been the victim of insecurity according to some people; So I took long moments for myself (as I often do) and I tried to analyze the situation and I wondered if these people were right and I came to the conclusion that I am not insecure,I am just too smart !!! Please ask to yourself on what occasions your man or woman, or friend of your man LOL have called you in this way, when you asked about a person in particular, when you asked why he / she is so friendly with strangers, when you read some ambiguous messages,when he/she recive calls and he/she didnt answer, when you asked to see his/her phone etc,at 99% of these questions after a long discussion sure you were appealed like Insecure! So what makes me insecure?! Is that in realizing that my man play with my ass and lie to me instead of pretending that nothing happen (like many people do) I face the situation ?! I am insecure because I demand the same respect that you do ?! I am insecure because I do not want you to entertain other bitches on the various social media ?! I am insecure because I make sure not to be derided ?! No my friends, I'm not insecure, I just guessed and found that something was done without my knowledge, and now that I'm pissed off like a hyena you tries to turn the tables. Because thats the point people; when people find themselves with their backs to the wall and know they have done something wrong and they can not motivate you in any way the only thing left to do is try to discredit you and try to leverage the trust that you should have put into this perfect person in front of you LOL, trying to divert the attention from the fact that they were doing inappropriate things and what could be better if do not accuse you of being jealous and insecure about yourself ?! Human psychology is not so diffcult to understand, people are well aware that none like to be called insecure,because it would mean that we are not perfect, means that there is someone out there better than me, it would mean that i am replaceable, because each of us has things that would love to improve in her/himself, everyone has that physical and character flaws that embarass us, each of us has something that brings us back to mind a few not nice things about ourselves and then the only thing to do when you are in trouble is remind it at that person and everything takes a completely different way!

Before when i used to heard this word I became completely insane, I confess that a couple of times I risked going to jail, but more I got angry, cursed and screamed and more in the eyes of my interlocutors saw victory;YES, while I was struggling with my whole being to free myself from that epithet in the eyes of the person in front of me I was reading just one thing: BINGO! I was playing their game, I was so committed to list my virtues, how much I was satisfied with myself, I consider myself super sexy and how close to perfection consider myself that I was giving him/her on a golden platter his/her next move:” SO WHY YOU WORRY SO MUCH ABOUT THE OTHER" ?! Hell yes, because the point is there! The people that call you insecure they actually do nothing but activate the” wonder woman” who is in you and then you rather than admit your jealousy or discomfort you feel in not feel respected, you convince yourself that no one can compete with you, and then those bitches may well have their chats and messages because you are better than them and you do not bring yourself down to their level! THIS IS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE! Now I've learned,YES i am insecure and you know why ?! Because you're not man enough to make me feel special; because you are not friend enough to make me understand my mistakes! We are all insecure or we were, we should stop with these masks of super heroes, we all fear of losing the person you love for a younger and fresh girl, we all fear of not fully satisfy our partners,we all see ourself ugly at least 2 times a week, we all know to have a temper sometimes, we are all possessive with those we love, and we stalk soon as we can and there is nothing wrong with that and do you know why? Because if we were with the right person every our question would be dampened and all our doubts cleared up!!

No man or woman who loves us will make us in competition with other people, no man or woman who respects us take off time to us for give to someone else, no man or woman who does not want to lose you would risk so much. So the question is: "who is the real insecure" ?! Certainly not you who are at home to make plans about yall future, do not you who finalize your every move to yall well-being, not you that entertain only people who respect your relationship, not you that leave your phone on the table rather than hide it, NO, the insecure is the one who has to feed his ego heedless of your pain, which has to feed his desires heedless of what this cause to you, that's where the uncertainty is my dear friends !! So next time someone accuses you of it do like me, LAUGH, take your things and go away, because you have all the answers you were looking for a long time and do not worry because no one is stupid enough to give up to someone who knows will not find nowhere else! Be happy and satisfied with all your flaws and make those the reason that someone loves you, because everybody can appreciate a pretty face, a beautiful body and a mild character, but when someone likes your fire and is not afraid of get burn then you WON and if despite this he/she is still there flirting around then do the same, nothing is better than practical demonstration to make children understand their mistakes ;)

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nobossladyshit-blog · 9 years ago

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DO GOOD AND WILL GET BETTER

It is approaching the day of my birthday, which now I live as a time of mourning rather than as something to celebrate, and more come to my mind questions and thoughts that until few years ago it never would have crossed my mind. I wonder about spirituality, how much it has influenced my choices and how sometimes I would have preferred to have had a stronger influence in my life as a young girl. Apparently I look like a very confident, aggressive, arrogant and very cynical woman, many of these adjectives belong to me since always but many others are a hard mask that always accompanies me, so I do not know actually what is real and what is not; one thing I know for sure is that I am a very sensitive and very spiritual woman. Often we makes the mistake of confusing religion with spirituality, and there is no more egregious blunder. I consider myself a Christian, this is the religion of my family, the religion with which I grew up and compared, I fully share the message of love, of charity, of faith that it preaches but unfortunately I do not depicted in today's image of the Catholic Church . I believe that God knows what is in my heart and I do not rely to confess for atone my earhtly sins , but I feel obliged to apologize to God when I do something wrong.

Is not in my power to judge how everyone approaches to God's love and to his judgment, but I often stop to look at people and it is amazing how their actions are totally opposed to what they preach or what they may deep feel in their spirituality. There are many people who for example before each meal thank God for what he give to them, maybe they go to church every Sunday or whenever they have a chance, but then you see them betray their spouses, their girlfriends or boyfriends, they jump from a bed to another one for boredom or desire, you hear them lie about anything, you see them let them life controlled from material goods, accumulate assets without ever give to those who maybe really has nothing, you hear them judge others life because they are not dedicated to their life as according to them it would be the right way, they spend their lives at the mercy of trivial things, but than thank God for what they eat ?! Well, I am not an expert in religion, but I think that any God who governments us or belongs to us would love see his children who respect each other, they are faithful to their loved ones, do not lie and then hurt the people close to them, who do not abuse pleasures just because they do not reflect on the consequences, that give people without expecting anything in return, rather than say "thank you for make me eat today." We need the right balance in everythings, it is right to thank God for what He offers us but also offer, it's fair to expect unconditional love from people but also love unconditionally, it is right to desire fidelity and loyalty but also be an example of this, if we want to have around us good people we have to be one first, if you can not want to be victims of lies dont lie, if you do not want anyone to judge your choices and how you live your lives, we can not point fingers at other people's, if we do not want be loved for our money or goods we can not live flaunting wealth, people love us for what we are and show at first. It makes no sense to go to church if we do not make feel good and peaceful people who rely on us. We have to take a step back and go back to the time when it was building something to become a better person and sleep in peace and not to be better than others, where you wanted to achieve the goals to share with loved ones and not to get in a position of superiority and then use and abuse of people, command them. Back to when be selfish wasnt a thing to be proud of, but rather to be ashamed of and make amends.

Each of us carries within him/her the values, handed down or assimilated, some are right others are just wrong, but the more you become older and more we are able to distinguish what is right from what is wrong, then as the example we have had, the experience we had, the people that surround us have a strong impact on what we are or we will become often we use this as an excuse to simply to do what we want also if that mean hurting those around us, expecting to be justified and forgiven. One of the gifts that God has give to us is the”free will”, and He did it to actually see how many of us in front of easy choices but wrong, choise to live in the right way even if sometime is the most complicated. Unless you're a child we all know when we doing bad, just that sometimes the circumstances and superficiality takes over and we forget the simplest rule, that our good should never be at the expense of that of another.

I wrote all this to say that sometimes religion, spirituality or any energy that is inside us is peddled and used only to get something but never to give somehting. Does not make you better than others doing the acts imposed by our culture and tradition, if this then contradict the unique concept of which all peoples are agree with and is the LOVE and the EQUALITY between people.It is right that we express ourself as we want but the base should be the common desire not to hurt others, otherwise there is no Chuchr or prayer that can save you.

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nobossladyshit-blog · 9 years ago

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ACKNOWLEDGE A FUCKBOY

I am sure you heard a lot time the term “FUCKBOY” and i can guarantee you that is never in a positive way,no word that include “fuck”and”boy” togheter can be consider positive lol. Finally we have a word that describes so many boys that they think they are the shit but they ain’t shit.

So who is the fuckboy?!?! A tipical fuckboy is a boy that show so much interest in you but never makes appropriate effords to have you. Before it was really easy recognize them because they bag for your time but never in public or in properly dates, the keywords was “chill”; a real fuckboy want to chill all the time.The questions that he will repeat with insistence are: “when i will see you”, “when you will come over” “when I will come over” “when are we gonna chill”?!?! But in the last years something change, they have evolved, there is a branch of them category that they finally realize that all women want is some effords even if you just trying to smash,they have became so adept that talk to you daily, make you feel like they are really interested in you, they bring you out, dinners, movies, clubs and they pay for it (thats is important to underline, because the original fuckboy dont pay, he split or let you pay) but dont get confused babes, thats tactics, the truth is he only wanna fuck. A fuckboy is the type of n+++a that will text you up(they dont call) for going out and make you spent most of your night in the car, so you are there with your tight very short dress, hight heesl, make up on fleek sitting in a car probably by his boys while they are getting drunk.YES, most of the time he take you around his boys, but is not because he wants you be part of his “life” but just because he really dont care about your presence, otherwise he will never put you where a bunch of fuckboys discuss about how they gang banged that “thot” or how they would love try to smash you if you werent with X, NOW, if you try to let him notice how indelicate is that situation he will even turn against you because he was trying to treat you like part of his squad lol.

A fuckboy is the type of boy that just because you two have been talking for awhile and went on few dates make you fell like you owe him some pussy, after you refuse he will be so hurt that will make you feel like a total “bitch” that doesnt appreciate nothing!!! Let me break it down real quick, since when its an obligation please a fuckboy?! Its my decision not your and if you are not okay with it its whatever because a real fuckboy have more BOO than Casanova. I owe you nothing, you are not guaranteed any part of me, not my time,not my energy, not my hallo, not my body, NOTHING, if you want some from me than ACT LIKE A MAN!

Fuckboy is ain’t shit type of n+++a that will pursue you like you are the only one for him but as soon as you decide to let him hit, he’s going to tell to whole world about it. ‘Fuck with them real niggas who don’t tell niggas what they up to’-Nicki Minaj. YES ladies and gentlmen, you call yourself “real n+++a” but feel the need to tell around all your business huh?! Lets be this clear boys, a real man doent need to gossip around for feel relevant, this guys will smash you and have the audacity to call you “whore”, when they are the ones that living with the idea that “pussy is pussy not matter what”! They have the insolence to talk shit about you after give you mediocre sex and dont even make you have an orgasm. I reveal you a mistery, you know why women of your age dont want fuck with you?! Because we dont have time to chill smh, we looking for a man with maturity even if is just for have fun. Thats the reason why you can recognize a real fuckboy because most of the time fucks with baby girls that have 5/10 years less than them. They are the new bitches.

Me personally I no longer have the energy to tolerate such bullshit no more. There is a huge difference between a man and a boy and since i dont have no more time for entertain someone else ego, I would rather be friends with an intelligent, respectful and educated man that know what he wants and where is life going, than be with someone that is only focus on pussies, party, show off and be in competition with other boys like him. Boys can go to play with their girls. I believe in the power of association, do I want be associate with a fuckboy?!?! HELL NO! I want around me people who make me grow and learn, people who teach me some, improve my present for a better future and you dear FUCKBOYS are really far from it! And like Trina said “ A hoe gonna be a hoe and a lame gonna be a lame FUCK-BOY” (Trina)

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nobossladyshit-blog · 10 years ago

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LOVE IS JUST LOVE

I know that you miss me, just I've been around looking for some inspiration and more we approaching Christmas and more the only thing that comes in my mind is LOVE!

Everybody always try to give an universal and specific definition to the word LOVE, but if I understand something in my life is that there isnt a rule that can be shared by all when we treat this topic. The scientists have concluded that it is all about hormones that chemically recognize each other and give life to an action that triggers a reaction like a panic attack but that actually makes us feel good. In this way we can explain why often just the smell of a person or even the touch of another one can makes us completely lose our mind for no reason! But things are more complicated than that actually; if there has never been a people in all eras who made efforts to understand this mechanism were the Greeks; yes, our Greek ancestors had already differentiated the various types of love and had given each of them a word that describe it; there was parental lovel enclosed with the word STORGE,the one between friends PHILIA, sexual or physical desire EROS, and then there is the AGAPE the only soul’love!!! In this way they were sure not to confuse the ideas of the "friends", you know today with a simple "I love you" you can do a lot of damage lol; the Greeks had made sure that things like that never happen!

The concept of love changes a lot depending on the culture in which we grew up, our religious and also according to the examples around us! For us Christians there is a passage in the first letter of the Corinthians that full incorporates our vision when we talk about love “The love is patient, it is benevolent; the love doesn't envy; the love doesn't boast him, he doesn't inflate, it doesn't behave in inconvenient way, it doesn't look for his/her own interest, he doesn't embitter, it doesn't debit the evil, it doesn't enjoy any injustice, but it rejoyces with the truth; it suffers every thing, he/she believes every thing, it hopes for every thing, it bears every thing”; written in the Koran there is " who dont feels love will not receive love", for Hindus there is KAMA the sensual pleasure as wider representation of love while for Buddhists loves is want others to be happy and then commit to make those like that! Actually I think that the combination of all these truths, over the years has influenced us into believing that there is a right way and a wrong way to love and receive love!

There is a book that recently opened my eyes on many points, indeed before I was almost ashamed to point out that if a man does not behave in a certain way I do not feel fully realized in the relation, now I understand that Actually it is this lack of honesty that creates misunderstandings that often lead to the end of relationships, this book is "The 5 love languages." Basically it says that there are five different ways to receive love and then automatically give it back:

1)Words of affirmation: this language uses words to affirm other people.

2)Acts of service: for these people actions speak louder than words.

3) Receiving gifts; for some people, what makes them feel most loved is to receive a gift (thats me lol).

4)Quality time: This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention (me again lol)-

5)Physical touch: To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch.

All this just to say that everyone loves and wants to be loved in a certain way,and that the best way to know each other is to talk about what we like and do not think that what is right for us it is also for our partners. There are people who think that kissing the partner every second make them feel loved but maybe they only get on them nerves and he\she would prefer just a bunch of flowers! Often when people talk to each other tend to judge the relationships of others based on stereotypes, example,” my boyfriend goes every minute of his free time with me so he loves me, if your dont then he does not care for you enought, Actually maybe that boy prefers to prove his love with gifts or making love with you every day!So never make the mistake of judging your relationship based on those of others !Today indeed there is almost ashamed to speak of love, men prefer to pretend to be gay that admit to loving a woman and be pious, show any form of weakness and commintment makes them feel unmanly, while those who feel more generous distribute " love "to anyone and then automatically make this word completely sterile, there are those who have created their perfect woman to the computer, and then if it does not reflect certain fees is not even considering, those who have no time to love or hide behind the excuse of not being able to do it, and justify everything with "I know what I want" leads us to regret magical moments that we never lived because we are too busy looking for a perfection that does not exist! It would not be much simpler if we let go of that thrill, if we send that message because we want to do it, if we say that "I love you" because it comes from the depths of the stomach, if we took that plane because that's where we want to be, if we gave up the one that is right for what we really want ?!

Me, in my stupid romance I have learned to live in the warmth of my desires and instincts even if I say things I should not or do things that make me seem crazy, but I assure you it feels so good to be yourself. Love is just love, cant never take off anything to your life if you lived it in purity and according to what is right for you and your loved one and if you really think that love is only what makes you shake your legs then get ready to be in love often but never LOVE!!!!

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nobossladyshit-blog · 10 years ago

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ESCORT OR NOT ESCORT,THAT IS THE QUESTION?

Lately it happened to me to spend a few days in Milan and unfortunately I found a reality of which I had already noticed for years in Miami and it’s the ESCORTS! What were once called trivially prostitutes now they are appealed like escorts, dont call them sluts cause they get emotional!!!

Some of these girls are cute, others really unwatchable who entertain men and boys sexually in exchange for money or gifts. Actually now things have changed a little bit, because these “young” ladies, who often present themselves as image girls for clubs, if they consider the man attractive they don’t ask for money but they have sex for free, otherwise if he is not handsome or famous they charge.

Now, the prostitute is the world's oldest job so I'm not surprised or upset for it, the problem is that in today's world these women are compared and desired like they were famous actresses! Yes, many boys besides spending a capital to make them happy are proud to be accompanied with them and even get engaged to these girls that sell the pussy for a living! There are many examples, there are those who take part in orgies with old and influential politicians, those who make ass and tits job and moved to America, those who stay natural and go everywhere they are looking for them, there are ugly ones who accept anything, there are strippers (they call themselves dancers) that in addition to dance then work overtime, there are vixens that participate in music videos more or less importanrti and then conclude the work in the singers’ hotel rooms, but in the end they are always prostitutes!

When you talk about this topic unfortunately both women and men who either do or attend this kind of women they accuse you of being a hater or jealous of their standard of living, but the thing that you have not considered is that any woman (we all have a vagina) is able to do this! No matter how you are, beautiful or ugly, what matters is how far you are willing to push yourself and compromise your dignity, just for money or popularity. The sad reality of the world today is that it doesnt matter anymore that a woman is devoted to her family, can speak well, cooks a good meal, be lovable and pleasant, NO, what matters today is how big your ass is, How many Chanel bags you have and how many followers on various social media, and how they got it, it’s irrelevant!! There is not a man who admits to maintain them economically or otherwise prefer this kind of women to the once who working in a shop,so I wondering how do these girls can have everything they have without working and without men who take care of them?! I swear I tried to go out every nights, post photos indecent, have no work and yet no one has ever sent me money for it lol, so at least yall should have the decency to go to exhibitions of what you do and you males to admit you pay for sex!

It is true, everyone is free to do whatever he\she wants of his\her own body and their own lives, and above all no one should judge the choices and circumstances of others, but it is also true that once, a woman that doing certain things had to walk in the dark and hide for the shame and the men who attended with them were considered neglected that they could not have a woman that satisfied them, but today they are a symbol of independence and model to be admired and men are even envied! None of these women ever admits that her lifestyle is for how often opens her legs and with whom, and none of these men admit that pays to get what they wants and who they likes,so, can you explained me why be offended when someone points out to you that you are whores and that you men are losers?!

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nobossladyshit-blog · 10 years ago

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MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL WHO IS THE MOST INNOCENT OF THEM ALL?!?!

For years, a question plagues me,why do men judge the seriousness of a woman according to her appearance ?! It is useless to try to convince me otherwise, 95% of men when they faces a beautiful and flashy woman automatically tend to think she is “easy” but if he got in front of him the girl next door for instinct he tends to consider her a good girl ?!?!!!! If I am so sure of this,its because I have millions of examples that made me come to this conclusion, like this group of girls (actually I should consider them women if you consider their 'age) who I think they can make their own personal sticker album if you consider the number of athletes with whom they entertained but, being unattractive or looking innocent makes guys considered them "cool and nice girls"! In contrast, there are extremely sexy girls, girls who can not go unnoticed even if you turn on the other side when you see them that are considered "hoes" just for the simple fact that they are desirable.

I do not want to be here to do the classic lecture on male immaturity when it is about women, but really you should open your eyes a little more and trust your instincts and your friends a little less lol. Indeed this is the big problem of men of any race, age, class and religion: FRIENDS! Basically men tend to boast only the beautiful women with whom they entertain and tend not to mention and sometimes even deny the ugly or the insignificant, thats why then, the result is that those who are beautiful are crook while those who are grey little nobodies are cool. Gentlemen please do not be so stupid, as you deny to your friends your "mistakes" they will deny you theirs and, as you show off those that are sexy they would do the same if they had the opportunity!So it seems obvious that you are the cause of the fact that some women are implicated as “easy” just because they have the fault of being beautiful and others are saved only because they are ugly! Guys, only because a woman hides behind fake innocence and act a little shy it doesnt make her an angel.... she just learned how to play you. This topic bothers me a lot because in the past I’ve been personally accused of sleeping with men who I do not even know and then when I see these”things” going from one bed to another and be considered good I want to scream to the world how obtuse you are!!

Obviously, as in all things there are exceptions but I think that the ugly girls that are really good they are simply because they dont have the opportunity to be bad and I think that the sexy girls who say NO should be more appreciated than the non-attractive ones whose “no” is not chosen but imposed by nature!

Dear gentlemen, I do not think that your yardstick is accurate, especially not truthful on the reliability of a woman rather than another one, so if I were you I'd try with the ones I like the most and hope that she is as BAD as she looks, then in any case if you are tasting the best piece of cake,would you still continue to eat it even if a few people tell you its disgusting and they dont like it?! EXACTLY,finish it and watch out from haterz that are waiting for you to go away for licking the plate...

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nobossladyshit-blog · 10 years ago

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GROOM OR KING?!

The fact that I think that most of the problems of our generation is to be attributed to the change (negative) of women, does not mean that you guys are the victims! Oh NO !!! Actually I think that women having to adapt to your behavior and have lost the control of it, then the patient zero are YOU dear men!

Lets take stock of the situation; if a man really wants you to be part of his life I can guarantee you that will do anything to put you there, there is no motivation, distance, rumors that keep his ass away from your, so if he hesitates and continually looking for excuses then he is simply taking time! If a man sends contradictory signals for example one day adores you, the day later ignores you or he is bipolar or simply he does not have an interest that strong that makes him control his natural impulse of running away from risky situations! Every man on this earth, even the one more in love, he would give up willingly to the marriage if he had the guarantee that his woman would continue to give him the benefits it brings. Ladies, is true that a man who just tell us “you're my woman” make us to give him whatever he wants. He betrays us ?! oh well, I am his woman! He does not come home to sleep ?! oh well, I am his woman! He have 20 side chicks ?! oh well, I am his woman! With the time they have become smarter by giving us what we want to be happy (securities n titles), and us, for fear that the fierce competition take us away that little stability, we have learned to be happy with the crumbs.

I will never understand why men to cling to a woman have to feel that they can not have it completely; if there is one thing worse than cheating for us women is the competition, but not for you men,for you plus a woman playing cat and mouse with you plus increases your interest! More a woman is desired and distant, more you need to have her! Now, I understand the instinct of the hunter but then do not complain to be played! Than there is the category of men who can do anything because they are not commit, but try a little bit to pay them back with the same coin, you will see scenes that will not make you sleep at night. Let us be clear on some point, if you're single and you hang out with a single woman, as you are free to do your own thing she is too, so if you see other women and she sees other men,as she is not a bitch so 'as you are not a lame! Then there is the collector, the kind of man that although he has in front of him a toilet with feet he must have her, he will never tell anybody (men only brag of beautiful women) but must have it! Now what is the real reason that pushes you to that, as well as a total lack of taste, I think is your constant desire to feel masculine, in addition to empty his testicles! But gentlemen do you really think it's the amount of women tha make you stallions ?!?! Gentlemen, what makes you a real casanova is not the number of women who you seduce but the way you do it !!! For women there is nothing sexiest of a man who could have everyone but is so confident with himself to say NO!

Men I understand that sometimes we will load too many expectations on you and thats because many of us who are grown by great men, we have as example an ideal man who unfortunately almost no longer exists. But as we strive to understand your wishes and needs sometimes it suffices very little to improve yourself. If each of you before any reaction or decision thought to his mother, daughter, or any important woman in your life and you would put the question, what I would do if I saw another man treat them like that ?! I guarantee you that it will avoid a lot of pain and a lot of breakages. The world is full of women with whom you can just have fun, some costing only a little money, others are a little more expensive, some even free, but the world is full of women who would do anything to make you happy, to love , to support you, to remain alongside even when you make mistakes, but unfortunately you still need to learn how to recognize these women.

Is true that better than a good pu$$I there is only a new pu$$y, but it is also true that better than a life as a groom's there is a life as a KING ! To you the choice....

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nobossladyshit-blog · 10 years ago

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La consapevolezza ci renderà liberi!

Oggi voglio parlare di una malattia; ebbene si,c’è una strana malattia che colpisce uomini e donne, ma soprattutto la fascia di donne che va dai 25 ai 40 anni e in particolar modo quelle single, si chiama INCONSAPEVOLEZZA!!! Come avrete capito dai miei blog precedenti, oltre a parlare di esperienze personali , prendo spunto da ciò che vedo qui e lì sui vari social media specialmente instagram. Molte delle donne che andrò ad analizzare oggi insieme a voi sono persone che conoscevo, che purtroppo conosco direttamente o indirettamente, o che semplicemente ho imparato a conoscere tramite questo cyber mondo.

Per inconsapevoli intendo tutti coloro che non hanno piena coscienza di quello che sono e cercano in tutti i modi di mostrarsi agli altri diversamente, ma hanno anche la sfacciataggine di criticare atteggiamenti o situazioni altrui simili se non identiche alle loro. Faccio un esempio;essendo una donna abbastanza piacente mi capita spesso di essere corteggiata o comunque suscito spesso l ‘interesse di svariati maschietti, essendo io una persona abbastanza scontrosa spesso ignoro del tutto tali avances ma a volte un pò per noia un pò per divertimento un pò per curiosità mi apro a tali conoscenze, il più delle volte solamente telematiche. Adesso voi vi chiederete cosa ha a che fare questo con l’inconsapevolezza?! Bhè a questo punto subentrano tutte le donne appartenenti a tale categoria che sentitesi minacciate da tale sacrilegio si scagliano contro di me come se gli avessi ucciso un parente prossimo o come se mi avessero trovato a letto con il loro padre! L’inconsapevolezza dove sta dunque???!!! Sta nel fatto che non c’è una di queste gentili e aggraziate signorine che non parli, chatti, faccia sesso, flirti, bombardi di messaggi etc decine e decine di maschi, appartenente ad una specifica categoria o anche tipi puramente random. Signore mie care, prima di tutto non si dovrebbe mai essere gelosa di qualcuno o qualcosa che non si appartiene,poi se ognuna di voi parla con decine di uomini è ovvio che prima o poi capiti che ci si incroci con un’ altra donna, il fatto che ci parlate da più tempo, ci avete fatto sesso dopo il club non fa di voi la prescelta alla quale ogni altra donna deve soccombere e soprattutto se aveste la CONSAPEVOLEZZA di quello che siete non accusereste altre donne che si trovano in quella situazione di essere poco leali, facili, stronze etc etc !!!!

Spesso queste signore si riconoscono da tratti distintivi ben precisi, si descrivono agli altri come le nuove Santa Maria Goretti, tendono a mentire sul numero di amanti che hanno avuto o hanno, si considerano le wonder women dell’era moderna perchè lavorano e si mantengono da sole, spesso pur di tenersi un uomo si lasciano andare a grandi regali o comunque tendono a dare soldi a questi uomini perchè sperano che così facendo loro abbiano un motivo per restare con loro, tendono ad avere fidanzati immaginari che a volte non hanno neanche mai visto o in casi più fortunati vedono ogni tanto quando il loro fidanzato non è impegnato con la moglie o la fidanzata, sulle loro pagine instagram, twitter o facebook puoi leggere un numero assurdo di post su quando siano donne leali, fedeli, diverse dalla massa e che se si mettono nude per foto è solo perchè hanno il dovere di mostrare il loro corpo al mondo intero ma in realtà loro sono delle GOOD WOMEN. Eccola la vera parola che le contraddistingue, perchè ogni donna che è inconsapevole di quello che è si definirà sempre una good woman!!!

Donne,donne, ma perchè?!?! Perchè questo totale rifiuto di quelle che si è?!?! Capisco che il giudizio altrui fa paura a tutti ma voi siete le prime a giudicare e criticare gli altri, forse se ogni tanto faceste ammenda grazie a qualche esperienza e la smetteste di puntare il dito verso gli altri magari anche gli altri non lo punteranno verso di voi. Se siete delle libertine, vi piace divertirvi perchè accusate altre donne che sono come voi?! Se siete sleali perchè vi arrabbiate con chi vi ricambia allo stesso modo?! Se sparlate e fate le gradasse in giro perchè vi aspettate che gli altri non lo facciano con voi?! Signore quando vi guardate allo specchio dietro tutto lo strato del quale vi siete ricoperte anno dopo anno in realtà ci sta questa piccola ed insulsa personcina che non ha avuto modo di crescere. Se aveste lasciato alla consapevolezza di voi stesse agire in svariate situazioni vi sareste rese conto che non avevate nessun diritto di guardare male quella ragazza al club, oppure criticare le scelte di quell’altra; vi sareste accorte che tutte le brutte definizioni delle quali avete dipinto tante ragazze non erano altro che l’elenco delle vostre qualità e il risultato che avete ottenuto qual’è stato?!?! NESSUNO

Signore, quello che avviene nella camera di un hotel o di casa vostra, dietro un account falso, quello che succede quando nessuno vi guarda anche se non è provabile è avvenuto ugualmente; potete negarlo a me, agli altri, ma non a voi stesse!!! Quindi prima di sentenziare e condannare qualcuno per la vita che ha scelto accertatevi che gli scheletri dei vostri armadi siano murati!!!

Non so se esiste una medicina in grado di curare questa malattia, ma fino ad allora io continuerò a godere degli spettacoli che questo virus mi regala ogni giorno, ed ogni volta che scriverete hashtag del tipo #goodgirl #bosslady #loyalty #wifeymaterial etc ricordatevi che il mondo è pieno di persone che possono testimoniare che state dicendo delle grandissime cazzate ...

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nobossladyshit-blog · 10 years ago

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MY FRIEND WHO?

Lets talk about friends !!! who never woke up wondering if the people around us are real friends?! What is true definition of friends ?! I'll tell you what I understood about it ...... I always considered myself a good friend, I am not surround myself with many people because Im easily to get bored and when this happens I seem even more unpleasant than i already am by nature, so by the time I made mine the motto “few but good”. Being an human like everyone else I made mistakes (in fact only one) that made me wonder in the past if i am really friend material. For years I have been afflicted to have hurt a friend etc etc but the truth is that is a natural selection, you cut people off and people cut you off for a reason!

In Italy we have a motto saying"chi si somiglia si piglia”that mean similar stay with similar and it applies to relationships or friendships, we analyze various situations.... The most common form of friendship is that occasionally, there are people who seek only when they are alone, they do not have better things to do, have an argue with the friends who usually fuck with. Then there are the opportunists and those are around you only when they need something or if it somehow your presence it suits them for their return. We go to that category of people who do their best to be near you because they actually want to know about your business or maybe if you have a specific lifestyle they want shine under your light!

Not only for personal experiences but also through social medias constantly I see things that always leave me speechless, people who have thrown tons of shit to each other that eat happy sitting at the same table, others that had sex with bf\gf or ex bf\gf but they are besties, people who helped to discredit the name of other people but go on vacation together, people who live in the same house but that would kill if only they could.There are those who are sisters but are the first who criticize each other . Then there are those friends for common interests, same men, same places, same job etc etc and then my favorite ones who join because they are disgusting, filthy and false in the same way and so they are trying to create a clan!

I am convinced that everyone is free to act in this world as prefer but to do this you must first abandon any kind of criticism or complaint concerning any person even the worse that exists; because if you really want to be free to act as you want with the people you can not judge how others acting!This often, almost always, is not the case, because it is known that it is precisely those who have done the worst things to others to point fingers and shout to the witch !!! Over the years I have tried to find a reason to justify these attitudes and although I have not found any plausible and totally acceptable reason I agreed that people are trying to destroy the people who scared em, they try to break down their name, their reputation because is the easy thing to do! They create friendships just because they hate the same people and more they are more looks real and justifiable!

Friendship is a serious business people, you should choose friends as you choose husbands or wives, you should cultivate that garden even when you are personally satisfy and not only when you are alone and bored, too many people disappear as soon as they got in relationship or get married because they no longer feels the need to share and then I wonder what relationship is that ??? In this generation we confused the friendship with the psychologist, we take refuge in the friends only when we are sad or we need to talk but when the wind changes then goodbye! Now I ask you a question,when is the last time you gave up something that you really wanted just because someone else needed you? oh well maybe I think too much as usual and I just shoot meaningless words, but ......

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nobossladyshit-blog · 10 years ago

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WHO IS THE REAL MAN?

It is few days that I reflect on relationships and really can not understand some things that really should be simple but turn out to be formidable obstacles. When women begin to hang out with someone we need very little to see if he can be our boyfriend or not and we always stop any extra flirtation immediately because we feel obliged to show total devotion; for men is not the same, especially not for men these days! They need from 1 to 3 years to decide if you can have the great honor of being the only one with whom they fuck and talk to and 90% of the time even when they take this decision they end up to equally betray you because they are men! Ladies no matter how good you are, how great the sex is, loyal,honest, reputable and attentive to the needs of your man, if he is not a man of substance every fat asses that passes under his nose will be reason for him to not settle down! In today's world there is another problem that our ancestors did not have and this is social medias !!!!!! How many times have you heard the phrase "it's just ig", "is only fb" etc?!?! We try our best to believe it but we know that this is a big bullshit !!! Just as there are men who slide in your DMs your man slides into others bitches’ , and for sure its not to talk about the words peace!!!

Another big problem is the generation of sluts that is growing behind these social media shit, these little girls are more or less attractive, all with big asses and little brain, with so little respect for themselves to be ready to do anything to increase media popularity , which now also pays off in economic terms, that makes em feel better than all morality. Well yes, those who were once victims of men hungry for easy pussy today are actually the perpetrators !!!! You see em fly with the frequency of a sailed hostess from one city to another for a couple of nights with the the man of the moment, you never really know what they do for living, usually in biographies there is always the word "model" but I've worked in the fashion industry and the models are very different, they spend their days in the gym, clubs, basketball or football games and sometimes they post some family photos just to give an appearance of being good girls! Well these are the reasons why men today do not have the courage to settle down !!!A lot of you will tell me, the blame is not to be given to other single women looking for a man;they doin what u do,look for a relationship or, in certain cases easy money, but the fault is "your" man for giving em the opportunity to get in. This is true in part, because as well as he should respect your relationship (even though if you're not the girlfriend I still havent found a man who is okay to see the girls they are dating having sex with other men), women should learn that tring to steal someone else ‘man does not make em superior or better but only a perfect target for KARMA That sooner or later will fuck em up.

YES , I'm one of those women who think that the fault of our generation without morals can be attributed to women. Since women have decided to be men we have transformed the man in pussy and then the only way they have to restore their virility is to use as much as they can what they have in their pants, the only tangible thing that has remained which separates them from us women of the future !!!Lets take our feelings and values back LADIES and fuck this boss lady shit ....

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