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Almost done moving over, so any messages after today won't be seen so remember to get in while you can.

Also no I'm not a Discourse blog, I'm not a pro-shipper, I barely know what an anti-anti even is because I don't do shipping stuff, I don't even DO Fandom stuff anymore and haven't in a long time. I'm not 30 years old. I don't even post pictures of Eva, I did a year or two ago like, twice and that was it. I had her as my icon for a solid 2 days. I don't know what anyone is talking about with anything. I also don't send anons to people. And I'm not blaming any specific people at all for what's happening, but there are people who have been involved and done horrible things and excusing that behavior is wrong.

All I know is that I told someone not to call my friend a slur and next thing I know everyone thinks it's funny to say they want to kill my daughter and traumatize me. I don't know who's doing it or why. But defending this puts you in the wrong above all else.

Unfortunately because of this, if you haven't been following me or mutuals with me for more than 5 months, I probably won't give my new blog out to new people just because I'm afraid there's a stalker hate following me and I'm trying to do what's best and safe.

Again, after today I will not be returning to this blog.

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I'm worried about messaging people telling them my new url in case they don't want to be associated with me anymore and don't want me talking to them so just a reminder that if you want to keep up with me just message me but I'm gonna be careful of who I give my url to.

I changed my messages over so people can ask for my new url when it's made. BRB I'm remaking now.

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I changed my messages over so people can ask for my new url when it's made. BRB I'm remaking now.

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I'm going to leave this blog. I'm not going to delete it, I'm just going to never come back to it. I'm going to just... I guess remake a whole new blog. If you want my new blog name message me (you'll know whether or not I want you to know the url. If I don't answer, I don't want you to know).

I haven't set it up yet obviously, I'm going to have to do that today.

I'm sorry everyone. Having a blog of happy memories with my friends is not more important than the love of my daughter. She is first and foremost before everything else.

And as I'm typing this I actively got messages from people with pictures of my daughter harassing me including sexual harassment. So this is why I'm not coming back after I remake.

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So prefacing this with: I'm not really involved in this conversation or anyone who has been participating in it, IDK you or the people involved but I did look through that one blog, somethingsomething against hate. My question is like, tumblr is clearly not as important to you than your toddler. I would think that if these people (which, it looks like it's mostly just one person making alt accounts, if I'm being honest) are making threats towards you... why not just like, block them? Or remake your blog? Like I understand that it's not your fault that people are acting this way towards you, but I don't really see a situation in which my kid was in danger and it was more important for me to continue running a blog where I felt my child was seriously endangered- even if I had built a following or community, wouldn't it be easier to just make a new blog and give your close muts the new username?

I've been blocking these side blogs but I can't block the source person if I don't know who the source person is.

I'm gonna be honest this made me feel like shit reading because I've had this blog for a long time, this is a remake of an even older one that I lost the log in info for.

It's not your fault that I felt shit reading this, you make a good point, I just have a weird attachment to non-human things I have weird hyper empathy to things that have a lot of sentimental value.

If that's what needs to be done in order for these people to leave me alone... I'm gonna have to like remake 4 different side blogs. I'm gonna have to bail on my shop so that they can't trace back to me as well as I need to stop hosting my art on here because they'll find me through that too.

This is going to be hard but that's the only option I have left.

I don't like the way this is worded because to me at least it feels like you're saying I don't really care about my daughter, but I'm not mad at you because you're right about me having to just abandon everything and start over. I have to essentially go into Tumblr witness protection program.

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Why do you have ereri on your account

?? I genuinely have no clue what you're talking about Is that a person? Are they like not a good person Because I can delete whatever post they're on, I don't know everyone on this site so if I ever reblog something that an asshole is on you can let me know without being accusatory because I can guarantee you it wasn't intentional. If it's not a person then I have no idea what's going on. I searched my stuff and can't find anything that even mentions that except for a post about a trans woman defending herself against transphobes. And even that doesn't even mention it it just comes up under that?

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Yeah they've found pictures of my daughter and are using them as account pictures to harass me and joking about her dying and call me homophobic slurs that's, really scary, I can't take it anymore, what do I do? I can't do this anymore I just want to be left alone. I just want these people to go away.

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their aesthetic difference is so funny though like sometimes a family is one giant flapper and three little juggalos

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I'm not mad at you BTW! I'm just stressed by all this.

tyler is halodites name they goes by (not exclus jus informin)

Ohhhh okay

But I'm still confused about that one anon. I never "spread lies" about him/them(?) I made a comment on one post saying "man what if he was someone who bothered me while he had the chance of not being blocked on his new account or maybe I'm just paranoid and it was one of these other people who have a track record of being a piece of shit" because uhhh he literally has a track record for saying nasty horrible shit and has said shit about me. Me saying "the people who have been harassing me might be continuing harassing me, but I don't know who it could be" isn't a lie, it's the truth. So whoever that anon was needs to shut the fuck up.

Don't know why these people can't just leave me the fuck alone I don't give two shits who's who. Once I find out who's behind all this that's all that matters.

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tyler is halodites name they goes by (not exclus jus informin)

Ohhhh okay

But I'm still confused about that one anon. I never "spread lies" about him/them(?) I made a comment on one post saying "man what if he was someone who bothered me while he had the chance of not being blocked on his new account or maybe I'm just paranoid and it was one of these other people who have a track record of being a piece of shit" because uhhh he literally has a track record for saying nasty horrible shit and has said shit about me. Me saying "the people who have been harassing me might be continuing harassing me, but I don't know who it could be" isn't a lie, it's the truth. So whoever that anon was needs to shut the fuck up.

Don't know why these people can't just leave me the fuck alone I don't give two shits who's who. Once I find out who's behind all this that's all that matters.

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Back at it with the bayfox comms

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Boys trip to go kill benny

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Can you do me a favor and stop spreading lies about Tyler. Like it’s genuinely disgusting that you’re slandering someone with no basis to fuel petty drama that many people have already gotten over

I don't even know who Tyler is who is that what even is going on?

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Where did that come from??

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Corrupted Opal: shattered iridescence flashes blue & green & occasionally pink, offset by encroaching darkness. Unpolished, unfinished, uninked, inedible.

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there is not a single role chris pratt does that jack black couldn’t do better