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The right person makes consistent deposits into your heart and sees you as a long term investment. The wrong person makes withdrawals and leaves you emotionally and mentally bankrupt.

Unknown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you . And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. TRUST ME. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone who isn’t holding on to you.

Trent Shelton (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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Fall for someone who makes you love yourself a bit more.

Word Porn (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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on to a new year, with new hopes and new chances! let’s grow from 2018 <3

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a lot of people make it seem like recovery is a step by step thing but they never talk about the relapses and the fact that recovery (emotional, mental, any kind) is a roller coaster that doesn’t work that way, some days you’re going to feel like you’re completely well and you’ll feel like you were never hurt in the first place, but other days it’ll seem like you never recovered at all. The point is, recovery isn’t linear, you’re going to fall back and spring forward. It’s okay to not be okay. And one day, you will be. 

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why does depression always sneak its way back in?

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What a terrible thing it is to wound someone you really care for, and to do it so unconsciously.

Haruki Murakami (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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Love yourself enough to take the actions required for your happiness … enough to cut yourself loose from the drama-filled past … enough to set a high standard for relationships …enough to feed your mind and body in a healthy manner … enough to forgive yourself … enough to move on.

Steve Maraboli (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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Hardship often prepares ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.

C.S. Lewis (via recoveryisbeautiful)

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You can quit replaying those moments in your head.

The past is done. Move forward. Have grace for yourself.

– J

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Sensitive people should be treasured. They love deeply and think deeply about life. They are loyal, honest and true. The simple things often mean the most to them. They don’t need to change or harden. Their purity makes them who they are.

Unknown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are built from it.

Michelle K. (via thatkindofwoman)

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Know the difference

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better days are coming…

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Sometimes we need someone to simply be there. Not to fix anything, or to do anything in particular - but just to let us feel that we are cared for and supported.

onlinecounsellingcollege.com (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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You owe yourself the love you so freely give to others.

Unknown (via recoveryisbeautiful)