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Lake Garda, Italy

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Good dayz. ☀️

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Highly Valuable Woman Affirmations

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How do you know the difference between actual concern vs a women being jealous of you and your relationship

Hey Sissy Pooh💋

Honestly. Don’t discuss your relationship with anyone bc most women are jealous. If you ever have a concern, find an honorable woman in your life who has happily been married for at least 20 years to talk to. But someone whose relationship you would like to emulate. For example, my close girlfriends know the barebones of my marriage. They know his name, who he is and that their sissy Pooh is happy. Sometimes I’ll mention if we’re going on a trip or how much I love that he supports me in all my endeavors, but when you’re in a happy relationship, if you keep talking about it, it’ll sound like bragging, especially if you are the only one in your social circle that is in a serious relationship. But I have one older friend, more like a mother-figure that literally gives “me” in about 25 years. I met her and her husband in church and they were the first people I introduced my husband to bc I felt like it was important for us to see a healthy black couple who had been married for almost 30 years who live a lifestyle similar to what we would like to in the future. But she’s like a second mother, not a girlfriend. So I don’t tell her a lot of stuff either. I will say that they told us two things after God help a marriage, privacy and wanting it to work. Don’t blabber too much. Exclusivity and mystery is always best.

With love 💋

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What are some of your dealbreakers in a relationship? Have you ever taken someone back after breaking them ? What is some advice you would give young women while dating what are some red flags to look for

Hey Sissy Pooh 💕

I’m going break your question down into parts to make sure I answer it in its entirety.

Dealbreakers: Personally, that depends on what’s important to you. I wanted someone who was a Christian, someone who believes in traditional roles between a wife and husband, someone who is kind and generous, amongst other things. But you have to find out what is valuable and important to you to figure out what is a dealbreaker.

Getting back together?: I did that with one ex. But I knew it was wrong. So the final time I broke it off - I went cold turkey. No calls, no sleep overs, no texts, etc. And I’m glad I did, bc when I broke up with him the first time, it was for legitimate reasons. He wasn’t changing but my heart couldn’t let him go at first - or at least I thought it couldn’t. But I feel like we’re grown and no one should have to say more than once that they’re done. If you’re done, be done and move on.

Advice for dating: Even if you like someone after a first date - don’t have sex with someone who is not officially your boyfriend. Casual sex is not real - it makes you look easy and you’ll just feel like a hooker afterwards bc he will leave. No real man wants a woman who isn’t exclusive. Also, again, even if you like someone, don’t picture that man as your husband after a first date - even if it’s good. I think a lot of girls end up in relationships they’re not suppose to be in bc the guy seems “great” or “husband-material”, then get love bombed into relationships where they completely dismissed red flags bc they were in lala land.

Red flags: Again, it’s important to really sit down and think about your “likes” and “dislikes”. For me, it was someone who was unsure, someone who couldn’t make clear decisions, someone who was cheap or didn’t like the fact that I like nice things.

Hope this helps my love 💋

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Ladies protect your peace and listen to your soul 💗🪴

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More Feminine Abundance Affirmations

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Adulting is dropping off your winter comforter to the dry cleaners on a Wednesday morning. 

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