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u know the trans movement is fucked bc it would be so so easy for them to disown chris chan, he's admitted he only transitioned to creep on lesbians, he's a terrible person and no one respects his identity anyway, it would be SO easy to go "yeah he's a liar and we don't associate with him." instead they're doubling down and insisting that everyone has call him a her and pretend this is an instance of 'lesbian domestic violence' bc if they admit that chris chan isn't really trans they'd also have to admit that 90% of them aren't 'really trans' and the whole thing would crumble. it's fucked from the inside out there is no saving this shitshow

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Sometimes tiktok is good. (130K likes!!!)

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This is out of the blue! I am Afghan and I am currently living in Afghanistan. Today (15 Aug 2021) the Taliban entered the capital city of Afghanistan which is Kabul. The government is going to change to an Islamic Emirate of Afghanistan. They ruled in Afghanistan for 5 years, 20 years ago. I've heard stories about them since I'm 19 and luckily was not yet born. And let me tell you the stories were terrifying, but they were just horror stories to me and I never thought that I'd be living under their regime, but here we are.

Let me tell you something shocking: girls can only study up to 6th grade. The future of female students in universities hasn't been decided yet. According to what I've heard they go from house to house and ask for girls and women (12 to 45 year olds) for marriage.

As they are just pieces of crap, I don't really believe that they'd let us have mobiles or use the internet. I really hope this isn't my last post in here! But if it is I want to let the world know of what they've done and what they're doing.

Don't forget us!

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the amount of reddit comments ive seen of men saying we shouldn't focus so much on the sexism aspect of britney's case, as if they're not specifically using her being a woman against her, like through reproductive coercion.

im not really surprised, popheads is popheads but its just funny seeing people act like we talk too much about sexism and we need to take a break from it or something.

every single time a woman experiences sexism in the public eye they do this, misogyny is never worth focusing on on its own, its always secondary to a more 'valid' form of oppression.

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you tell them you absolute fucking legend

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men be like the absolute most important aspect of feminism is giving 18 year old girls the freedom to sell porn online 

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So according to you, any description of white men applies equally to black women? That's really fucking weird.

No. I would like u to read this slowly.

Historical racist descriptions of black woman, tend to parallel the insults thrown at trans women by terfs. This makes those insults inherently racist.

If u are a terf-fuck off- but also maybe take a closer look at the language u use and how that language relates to the women u claim to care about

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a good reason to be an ex radfem is that radfems don't actually want to liberate women around the planet. they want to create little pockets for themselves to die peacefully in. separatist spaces do not turn in to societies of their own. they last one generation. radfems have no plan to fight patriarchy, no strategy to take armed militant power or control of male owned spaces and actually liberate women from male power structures through force. they only have a plan to create a hospice service for themselves. they are useless.

i’m going to tell you a story, anon.

i used to live in lebanon. you wouldn’t exactly think of it as the capital of feminism. there’s some feminist presence, but at the end of the day, most people had decided there were bigger problems to worry about.

i was raped. i don’t want to go into detail. but after that, i was completely traumatized. i had to quit my job because whenever i was near a man i’d start shaking and eventually go into a panic attack.

i had no income, i was soon to be homeless, and i couldn’t do anything about it. i had taken to asking friends to loan me money. i told only one woman about what had really happened, and she told me to go to a certain address and ask ‘her’ for help. she wouldn’t tell me more, just go and ask her for help.

and i went.

this was a group specifically for women who, for some reason or another, had found their way here. after i joined, there were 7 people - two of them had been kicked out because they were pregnant, one woman was hiding from her violent husband, one woman had ran away from an arranged marriage, one of them was an ex prostitute who couldn’t find work anywhere else, and one was a rape victim like me.

it was ran by a woman who had a large inheritance and had become infamous about 30 years ago because her politician husband was convicted for domestic violence. she paid for and ran everything.

i stayed in that place for a little over a month. i saw a man twice - both times a delivery guy who just gave us the food and left. the place runs by word of mouth entirely.

‘separatist spaces do not turn in to societies of their own. they last one generation… they only have a plan to create a hospice service for themselves. they are useless.’

did you know that place has been running for over 30 years now? i am still in contact with the woman who runs it, and she mentioned to me that she thinks about 1200 women have been in there at some point.

here’s another question: do you know how entitled you are? do you know how fucking entitled you are to go around calling these spaces ‘useless’? have you ever used one? i doubt it. have you ever met someone who runs one? i doubt it.

you sound exactly like a man. like a misogynistic man who is angry that women can do what they want, and you can’t stop them :)

so i hope that your blood boils thinking about how useless these places are. i hope that you get indescribably angry thinking about all these entitled women using these spaces that should be given to the poor males.

choke <3

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I tell you learning so many men don't wash their asses changed my life. It was like the clouds parted and I became Enlightened. Women are out here waxing our arm pits our arms our legs our pubic hair, we're getting our assholes bleached in case men wanna get in there, we're barely eating to maintain an "attractive" weight, we're wearing uncomfortable clothing and footware to be feminine, we're constantly aware of the Public Eye and the Voyeur In Our Minds, and for what? For a group of people that can't be bothered to literally clean their dirty asses??? Men Don't Wash Their Asses is like a divine revelation in a holy text, it is a sentence so horrid it sets you free, it clears the haze of patriarchal thinking. A man may deride me, demean me, claim my entire sex beneath his, and I need only remember the Holy Words: Men Don't Wash Their Asses, and suddenly his words are the meaningless babble of a lowly beast. Ladies, when in doubt, remember: He Who Does Not Wash His Ass has nothing of value to say to you.

Awomen 🙏

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oh…

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Living with Folk Art: Ethnic Styles from Around the World, 1991

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It wasn't bait, I seriously despise women that date men, especially after knowing how men are. How can you be a radfem and date men? It's anti feminist.

"anti feminist" dating would be willingly dating a misogynistic man. people can't help their attraction, and dating lives aren't political. you sound like a tra

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I was bored on a long train journey and so I have created:

The Gender Spectrum

Depending on where you feel you are on it, you get a fun little colour patch: (this is mine)

But not everyone’s would look like that - people with a more fluid gender might feel like a spectrum within the spectrum, or some people might not feel like such a clear cut shape, or maybe people without a gender don’t feel like they’re on there at all:

Anyway, feel free to have fun with it

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My dad identifies as a trans woman.

He came out at the age of 65.

He was able to receive hormones immediately and SRS less than a year later.

So what does being a woman mean to my dad?

To my dad, being a woman doesn’t mean:

- caring for his wife and only child (me) selflessly

- working hard to provide a good life for his only child as a mother would

- doing stereotypical motherly things like feeding his spouse and child, cleaning, gardening, running the household.

- standing up for other women, listening to women, and supporting other women in reproductive rights and human rights.

To my dad, being a woman means:

- wearing leopard print leggings

-wearing makeup

-wearing corsets

-wearing impractical shoes

- loosing tons of weight and muscle to look more “feminine” (my mother and I are both plus size and very muscular so I guess to my dad, we aren’t thin or dainty enough to be women)

- having blond hair.

I align myself with radical feminism because I know what being a woman means to trans-women.

Women have such a hard time receiving prompt and proper healthcare, and trans women like my father can get hormones and SRS within a year of coming out, even when they are in a volatile age demographic. If that doesn’t tell you something, I don’t know what to say.

Edit: it was actually 2 years of hormones before he was able to get SRS. I just thought it was 1 year because his therapist didn’t require him to tell me or my mother what he was doing until 1 year into HRT.