objectumlife

[objectumlife]

is this blog still active?

oops yeah kinda i just took a break from Tumblr for a bit

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How are you and Deon getting along?

really well! there's been a couple of minor disagreements but they were resolved quickly (i can't even remember what they were about heh) i think it's just that we can both be pretty stubborn but it's good that we can sort them out! sorry this is worded a bit weirdly i'm tired heh anyway we're both very happy together!

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hhh,,, love

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What kind of objects do you tend towards (what’s your type basically lol)?? I like stuffed animals, action figures, handheld game consoles, arcade cabinets, a particular brand of trading card, spaceships, and guns (I’m a bit picky with all of them tho, the last two especially)

i don't know if i have a type romantically but i tend to lean more towards stuffed animals, toys, and books when it comes to friends/platonic relationships!

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How did you ask out Deon? I imagine you were nervous maybe... how did you get over nerves?

yeah i was heh but it helped that i decided to do it on a specific day, it made it harder to give in to the nerves and i made sure that i was prepared for a no too. then when we were hanging out i just asked him without letting myself think too long about it! it was definitely scary but i knew if i didn't ask then i might never and i decided that not knowing if he felt the same way was scarier!

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Congrats on the ask out!! That’s really exciting :)

thanks!!!

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HE SAID YES

posting so i can't chicken out i'm gonna ask Deon out on Tuesday hh

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Good luck with asking out Deon! Please let us all know how it goes :>

aaaa thanks i will!!

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posting so i can't chicken out i'm gonna ask Deon out on Tuesday hh

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BRO... I LOVE UR BLOG SM??? im finally getting into objectum stuff and ur blog is so helpful and good,,, bro u are epic

afshjfijj thanks i only have like 5 posts but thanks!

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How do you tend to communicate and receive communication (if at all) with objects? I currently use tarot and/or pendulums but I want to learn how to communicate without a middleman tool

i just think what i want to say and then i'll get a response through images or feelings (or sometimes words/sentences depending on the object)

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i don't know how intensely you feel object communication but there have been times for me where i'm very attracted to an object and they were Not Having It and gave me strong rejection vibes. it's probably worth trying to feel it out a little more, but that does mean spending more time with deon! - @ writeofos

thank you this really helps!

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was i picking up flirty vibes from Deon last night or is that what i wanted to pick up - a novel by me

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Shoutout to all the objectum people who don’t have object partners! Whether you haven’t found the right object right, whether you’re prioritizing other relationships in your life, whether you like being single, whether you prefer being friends with objects, you are valid, and you are still objectum! There’s no requirement to be in a relationship for you to be who you are.

Sometimes we’re single! Sometimes we have partners! All relationship models are valid, including choosing not to have them - and no matter what your preference or lived experience with object relationships is, you belong in our community and you are welcome here. :)

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hi!

so i've known i'm objectum for a while now and i finally decided to make a (side)blog for it!

i'm not in a relationship but i do have 3 crushes: a t-shirt named Deon, hanahaki disease (the concept), and... Spaceship Earth/the Epcot ball (y'know that one Vine? yeah i quoted it one too many times and ended up developing actual feelings afjgdejdjd i am,, a Fool)

i'm also friends with a few objects, mostly plushies!

so uh? i'll try to be active here!