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(repost) [the astrology of pedro pascal] - soft sun aspects (major) | sun trine neptune

hey y’all! in this series we’ll be covering major soft/positive aspects (conjunctions, sextiles, and trines) to pedro’s sun. minor positive aspects to his sun (quintiles/biquintiles and septiles) will be covered in an upcoming series, as well as the rest of the major and minor aspects to the rest of his planets and asteroids in his chart! i also want to note that when it comes to these aspects, they have to be examined through the lens of the entire chart, as they’re influenced by a myriad of factors within it.

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sun trine neptune (0°35’)

in this aspect, the planetary bodies are harmonious and their energies are naturally and positively expressed. the sun is representative of the self. it represents how we show up in the world, our ego, and our self esteem, happiness, and our vitality. neptune is the co-ruler of pisces in modern astrology, and can be best identified by its elusive energy. it represents spirituality and the realms beyond us, dreams, the arts, and creativity. it is also indicative of illusions, deception, addictions, and mysticism. it’s also a generational planet, and stays in the same sign for about 14 years, therefore everyone born within that time frame will share the same placement.

this can grant the native with an inspirational, imaginative, and otherworldly personality. they can be caring and sensitive, with good morals and ideals. they’re extremely charismatic and tend to have a dreamy yet mysterious allure about them. they recognize that there is more to this world than what meets the eye, and tend to be spiritually-inclined. this placement can be indicative of fame. those around them will hold them in high regard due to their honesty and natural inclination to help and nurture others. they may be reserved and hide their drive or ambition, but still have the capacity to manifest and turn their dreams into reality with great ease.

this aspect can also manifest as creativity and artistic talents, and tends to show up in the charts of writers, artists, and musicians. neptune’s archetype expresses itself very literally in terms of film, as the audience is gifted beautiful images that can be perceived as real, but are merely artifacts of staged production. this can definitely be something in pedro’s chart that manifests positively in his abilities as an actor, as well as his appreciation of film, music, and other arts as well. this aspect could also result in strong intuition, psychic abilities, and lucid dreams. the native may be drawn to religious or spiritual practices, or have great comprehension of occult studies such as astrology or tarot.

they have the capacity to become a source of guidance for others, and raise the bar by setting a good example through their actions. they’re sensitive to the feelings and wellbeing of others, and therefore can become great advocates for the most vulnerable among us. although they are sacrificing, they also need to recognize the importance of putting themselves first at times, so that their success can enable them to help others. pedro references his desire to be an advocate in his Wired 2023 interview: “my entire heart is set on, you know, the marginalized underdog. it’s not a choice. like, how dare anyone not support the people that are deserving of support, and are deserving of protection and need more of it than you do. do you know what i mean?”

they must also put in the physical, real-world effort to attain their goals, as they’re inclined to idealize the internal world they live in over the external. they must be honest with themselves to understand the true motivation behind their actions and desires, otherwise they can become susceptible to their own delusion. while these natives have to put in conscious effort to set boundaries, those with this aspect tend to not be as susceptible to manipulation as those with hard aspects to neptune, or hard sun to moon aspects (like sun square moon, an aspect pedro also has in his chart). they should ask many questions about themselves and those around them, as this disillusionment will grant them clarity, help them evolve spiritually, and allow their hearts and minds to work together in service for others.

as always, if anyone has any of the placements or aspects mentioned in this post i’d love to hear how it personally manifests in your own life and how it impacts your personality, or if anyone has anything to add in general feel free to reach out and let me know!

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SUN TRINE NEPTUNE

These types act on a high sense of morality. Their ideals are grand and slightly unrealistic, they know this, but enjoy the process of daydreaming an imagined future. They have the potential to turn their dreams into reality, which makes this process all the more important. A sense of peace follows them as they throw themselves into their own world. They have a mysterious allure and an ethereal vibe. Other people hold them in high regard without much thought. Their honesty and eagerness to help makes them well liked. These go-with-the-flow types are not prone to acting out on anxiety and aggression. They lack boundaries and are sensitive when it comes to matters of the ego.

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Astrology Observations No.26

(Just based on my opinions, only take what resonates)

-Aquarius mars can denote a career around trends, tech, and social media. It can also denote your career taking off during times of social progress or spearheading social progress. (John Boyega’s career took off when he became the face of a much more diverse Star Wars, and a lot of his most celebrated roles have a social consciousness to them, pretty great if I do say so myself)

-Virgo venus gets the reputation of being picky in relationships (and they are) but I feel like Sagittarius Venus can be more fickle. Virgo Venus natives have a set of standards and attributes they’re looking for, but Sagittarius Venus natives will put you on a pedestal then knock you off of it when you do something they don’t like.

-Underdeveloped Gemini Venus will ghost you in the middle of a crisis (man Pisces Venus too, but they may feel bad about it lol)

-When it comes to a sense of justice, I feel as though (developed) Scorpio moons give everyone a run for their money

-I feel like Aquarius in big 3 (sun, moon, rising) can often find themselves being forced to be humanitarian/being made to work toward the greater good in some situations (to lend others money, to take care of friends/family, to befriend someone lonely, etc.) I feel like these placements often can be forced to give more of themselves than they are comfortable with (developed ones will often find a great sense of joy in connecting with others through care though)

-On the other hand I feel like Leo in the big 3 can find themselves being forced to pay attention to themselves/become the center of attention (elevated at a job for their hard work, given unexpected attention for a talent, etc.) With Leo placements I notice that in their home life or childhood they may not receive the attention they need, but early on they get attention from outsiders. So they end up going through this arch of getting more comfortable with their sense of self and being in the spotlight.

-Aries placements can often be the first in their family to do something (go to college, start a business, etc) without more long term oriented placements things like businesses may not last though

-Virgo/Gemini/3rd/6th house placements and having an absolute weakness for stationary lol (I have a 3rd house Stellium and I have to force myself not to buy a sketchbook or notebook every time I’m out, with a 40% success rate lol)

-I always expect Libra placements (especially sun/Asc/Venus/mars) to have a very blonde/fair/delicate features naturally but a lot of Libras have this gothic look, like raven hair ivory skin classic beauty (and a lot of PoC I follow with Libra placements can be much darker skinned, which is also a beautifully classic look)

-I think Jupiter and Saturn count towards your personality, but since they’re slower moving planets I view them as the bridge between the asc/sun/moon/mercury/Venus/mars placements that really directly define your personality and the generational planets that show up in traits across people in your age range (but effect everyone differently because of house placements and aspects)

-Do a lot of people get sick during Scorpio season? Or is it just me ?? (During the last week of Scorpio season like 6 people I knew got sick at the same time and I had a medical thing, wtf it’s uncanny)

-I think Neptune in Capricorn is a big reason that depression became such a focal point for younger millennials and elder gen z- well that and late stage capitalism but yknow. (Capricorns being prone to depression, and Neptune ruling over mental illness)

-You may show more of the traits of the sign in your 12th house when inebriated (like sun in 12th may be more outgoing when they drink, moon in 12th may be more introverted/emotional, mercury in 12th may be more chatty and inquisitive, Venus in 12th may be more charming/romantic, mars in 12th may be more aggressive/antagonistic/s*xual)

-Mars in 12th/Pisces mars may find that unresolved tension sits on their subconscious and makes it hard for them to do other tasks

-Cancer over the houses can show where you feel at home (cancer in the 4th is super loyal to their family/mother, cancer in the 7th means you feel at home with a nurturing partner, cancer in the 9th means you feel at home abroad and traveling and with other communities or with religion, cancer in 11th means you feel super at home with your friends.)

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Astrology Observations No.27:

*just based on my observations, pleas only take what resonates

(Trying to write more posts and answer more asks lately, everything has been so busy omg- hope you all enjoy what I can put out there tho! c:)

-A perspective but I think Libra placements (big 6 but especially Venus and mars) are attracted to harmonious/balanced appearances, like I think having that glow from confidence in your aesthetic and it fitting you and things like that can make you just as attractive to Libra placements as conventional measurements of beauty

-Sun Conjunct Venus makes you really charismatic and you probably attract a lot of people by being yourself, and sometimes these natives can be people pleasers especially if they’re trying to impress others

-Quietly I associate your mars sign and your MC the most with the work you’ll do. Mars because you can’t divorce your passion from your work (says the Capricorn). And MC because it’s what you’re known for and that’s often tied to some sort of work/action. North node is tied in there too but it plays out so long term it can be harder to summarize. (I can do a post about the general fields that placements tend to go towards if folks are interested?)

-Aries and Sagittarius Mercury tied for most likely to accidentally blurt out your secrets

-Chiron Venus aspects (especially square, opposition, and conjunction) may find themselves undoing a lot of pressure around their looks or being especially hard on themselves over their perceived flaws/imperfections

-The sign over your 5th house may denote if you have many or few casual romantic connections (Saturn/Capricorn pointing to fewer one end of the scale and Jupiter/Sagittarius pointing to many at the other end of the scale, depends on Venus and mars too)

-You may find yourself accidentally pouring your heart out to water moons (especially cancer over how emotionally in-tune they are and scorpio over traaaaumaaa oml)

-I feel like Sagittarius can feel less mutable because Jupiter makes some of the forms of expression so big (ex. A Sagittarius Mars can get so mad at you and blow up, Sagittarius Mars/Venus typically date many partners, Sagittarius moons can express their emotions in a big way- I probably feel this way bc I’m Sag Pluto, the extremes lol)

-I’ve noticed that Venus dominants can seek more attention compared to like Leo/sun doms

-Fixed Venus can become codependent on their partner, putting heavy exceptions on their person for them to be their everything if underdeveloped— but if developed they can be very loyal to their person

-Mutable Venus aren’t quite commitment-phobic but they tend to be looking for a really special combination of traits to actually settle down with (when they’re monogamous), otherwise they get distracted very easily (or they treat their romantic options, and sometimes friends, like very temporary things- for better or for worse)

-Cardinal Venus are most likely to really go after what they want romantically, I think out of all the Venus modalities they have the most accurate idea of what they want at heart, from the start. But on the shadow side of this, they may be manipulative or try to conform their partner into what they want. (may play out differently for moon opposition/square Venus)

-I feel like where ever Venus is heavy in your chart may be how people assume you’re gracious but in a somewhat shallow way (ex. Venus conjunct mercury, people may find your voice and expression charming but assume you’re not that smart)

-Venus/Saturn aspects/ Capricorn Venus tend to have a lot of unrequited love interests and crushes that don’t reciprocate their affections when they’re younger but as they get older they tend to get the most affection from suitors that are older than them (be careful out here! Sometimes these old folks don’t know anything and they have bad intentions- girl when I say I had to take my own advice)

-Leos (big 3, especially sun & Asc) often know the right thing to say to charm you, it’s like when they want to they hit that sweetspot dead on. So do Libra’s (big 3) but they tend to approach things less directly, like compliments that really sit with you and come onto you in quieter, sometimes less serious way (if they have both in their big 3 then they’re just -a charmer- and idk I take that at face value 80% of the time lol but I’m a skeptic)

-I find that Pisces and Sagittarius placements (big 6 but especially sun for identity and moon for emotionality) often get VERY into spirituality at some point in their lives

-People with Jupiter in Virgo tend to work very diligently, almost too hard sometimes and they can be prone to burning themselves out from this behavior (something something don’t burn the candle at both ends- hypocritical from a Jupiter in Capricorn person lol but still)

-We talk about how Scorpio placements observe every detail about you, but I like Pisces placements (big 6 but especially sun, moon, Venus, and mars) have told me things about myself and habits I have that I’ve never noticed about myself. They’re super observant they notice a lot. I think they have this in common with their sister sign, Virgo. But I noticed Pisces will use their intuition in their observations instead of just analyzing. (I.e. you do x when you’re angry, is it because you feel defensive? Or I noticed you light up when you talked about him, you must really like him)- can also apply to Neptune Conjunct your big 3 (especially moon), and big 3 in 12th but it’s a bit more second nature to them than Pisces

-The season of your Venus sign is the time you’re most likely to indulge in self care and purchases for yourself (Sag season started and all of a sudden I was like I need makeup now, even though I hardly wear it in the winter lol)

-The season of your mars is the time you’re most like to take major actions (starting a business, going on solo adventures, etc)

-The season of your sun is when you’re most likely going to receive the most public recognition (also when the sun is transiting your MC/10th house)

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Birthday Observations (Capricorn Placements)

*Just based on my observations, only take what resonates

(Today’s my birthday -woo- so I thought I’d put together some observations I’ve noticed about Capricorn placements)

-Capricorn in the big 6 (especially moon) are forced to grow up so fast. Usually, because they’re born to a family with some sort of immaturity in the adults. Because of this these placements usually have to reparent themselves at some point, and this can be why Capricorn placements tend to have more fun in their lives after 25-30

-Sometimes I feel like we forget that in old astrology Aquarius and Capricorn have the same ruler, Saturn. I believe this is why Capricorns can find themselves innovating or even find themselves being stand out loners

-Speaking of Saturn, Capricorn heavy people tend to have to break generational curses or they’ll end up victim to the same circumstances (but they can fall into the same patterns easily)

-Capricorns tend to have such a dry sense of humor because humor is how we cope with all the stress and madness. When things get more lighthearted (and when developed) Capricorns can be much less serious and heavy individuals

-Capricorn mercuries may struggle with expressing themselves in their youth, and even as they get older they may have a hard time opening up and sharing details about their thoughts.

-I think the constant theme with Capricorn placements is taking time and being very deliberate in their processes. Capricorn Asc tend to be a bit slow paced in how they act and react (not in a lacking way, just very deliberate). Capricorn suns grow into their identity and how to express it often after their early 20s, Capricorn moons need time an space to understand and process the emotions they’re feeling, Capricorn mercuries need time to respond and often carefully consider what they’ll say next, Capricorn venuses often don’t fully embrace their beauty until after their mid 20s and they tend to have better luck in love and relationships after this point as well, Capricorn marses tend to need time to achieve their goals, even when they move toward them with consistency, etc

-Underdeveloped Capricorn placements can be super competitive and try to out pace you in everything that you do better than them. (Capricorn suns will try to undermine your achievements and attention, Capricorn venus will try to make you feel ugly and try to throw shade on your style/friendships/romantic options, etc)

-Capricorns don’t enjoy inefficient behavior, they may complain about a process that doesn’t seem to be logical in all steps and may streamline the process if they can.

-The biggest lesson I’m trying to learn as a Capricorn is when to rest. There’s always more work that can be done and it’s hard to mentally step away without feeling guilty or unproductive.

-I always felt some kinda way about The Devil tarot card being for Capricorns— but I will say it is a sign that is commonly tempted to chase after means (like Capricorn venus dating someone for money). Capricorns love respect and security so they can sell out their soul for this if they’re not self aware.

-I just barely started reading Alice Sparkly Kat’s Post Colonial Astrology book, but there and on her blog she makes a great point that “Capricorns have never been corporate”. I have a theory that conformity can be a great detriment to Capricorn placements (even if just on a spiritual level). But Saturn repeated his father’s ruthless attitude around power and was cut down by his sons. Capricorns can find themselves succeeding down these conventional paths and then they end up suffering personally. Or, as was my experience, these conventional paths never quite open up to you and you face more and more challenges in this route and can never quite match their progress to their ambitions. Capricorns tend to benefit much more when they create their own path (I’ve found that this true for business as well as other areas of life).

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Mars Sign Opinions -Part 1 (18+ Only)

*minors please dni, this is for adults only

*only based on my experiences, just take what resonates

Aries Mars: Feisty, fiery go getters. Mars is definitely in domicile here with how much energy these people tend to have. They’re the type to do what they say they will. Can easily become someone people tend to look up to because they usually take on leadership roles as well. Can have a tendency to constantly be chasing after the next big challenge. They can also be a bit argumentative (they would rather fight you than hold a grudge usually- depending on their moon sign). They tend to talk a big game, which isn’t uncommon for Aries placements, but they’re the most likely to put their money where their mouth is. Or at least put their all into trying to. In my opinion this mars sign is all about the build up in bed. When they’re into you (and acting from their masc energy) they’re all about the chase. The thrill of winning someone over and showing that they can pull whoever they have their eye on. They’ll want to build up to the s*x itself, to be made to work for it. They’ll show off their foreplay skills and will be chasing that high throughout the act, showing off and winning dominance over their partner. Likely to finish *pretty* fast ngl. Usually, if they’re as skilled as they‘ve hyped themselves up to be, they can recover just as quickly and go multiple rounds. If they take the timing of their endurance as a bruise to their ego (somehow) then they’re outta there lol. Still these natives tend to have a great deal of appeal and they tend to know that and show it off. (Side note: also likely to be mad competitive.)

Taurus Mars: Slow and steady to a fault, these natives define patience in their approach and actions. Their patience tends to pay off in the long run. Others may miss the progress they make in achieving their goals until the natives are near the end of their journeys. They tend to really work well when their environment is comfortable and when they’re allowed to have their little luxuries (good food, clean and cozy home, etc). It tends to take a lot to actually upset them, but when they’re really angry they can be really hard to deal with. I’ve actually noticed that (as a tendency with most earth mars imo) they don’t really talk themselves up that much, they tend to try to charm others through a more Venusian approach (raw charisma and like social affableness) and showing rather than telling. They tend to play it cool and go for the long game overall. To court and charm someone with gifts and compliments. In bed, they’re very sensual. They love indulging in all of the physicality of s*x. The most into touching their partner all over. They tend to last a long time. They do tend to have a set of go to moves. Imo, by far the most passionate cuddlers. They’ll hold on all night if they’re sleeping over.

Gemini Mars: Witty and hard to pin down. I don’t have as much personal experience here. Intelligent types that like to show off with their writing/debate skills. They move pretty quickly and impulsively. They tend to work well when they’re given a lot of breathing room to throw stuff at the wall and seeing what sticks. Need to catch up with their own thoughts sometimes, but they’re definitely whip smart types. When they argue with you they tend to debate from an intellectual standpoint-choose your words wisely. Like a lot of air mars (and Venus) signs, it’s hard to tell what makes them stick around. I’d say a combination of wit and a taste for variety would get them to at least go out with you (or at least sleep with you lol, air mars gang). Will try to charm you by knowing more than you, but will find you super charming if you know more than them (an opinion on Gemini placements lol). They will like to switch up positions a lot and to indulge in giving and receiving a lot of oral. They would also go rounds (less from finishing early, and more from how fast they recoup their energy). Oh and they’d love dirty talk as foreplay and in the heat of s*x.

Cancer Mars: Mars is in determent here. The natives are pretty likely to have low energy levels imo. They will get something done once they put their mind to it, but they’ll need a lot of rest/downtime to recharge their energy. I’ve noticed that these natives tend to get very emotionally invested/attached to their projects/goals. I think that’s another reason they tend to need rest a lot, they can get very energetically tied to their own progress, and find themselves drained from their work. They can accomplish a lot, but they tend to have to learn to use this energetic flow differently than exalted/domicile mars signs. Homebodies, tend to work and rest in the same space if they can. Arguing with them can be super intense, they don’t just get angry they feel their anger. That feelings can be overwhelming for all involved. Most likely to cry during a heated argument, and may use this to manipulate whoever they’re arguing with. Because mars is in determent here, I find that if someone is in their masc energy you have to make them feel at ease before they’d approach you. These natives need to feel like a warmth from you before they come onto you (even if they don’t reciprocate that warmth but that’s a post for another day lol). They tend to be shy and deeply afraid of rejection, the more they like you the more this spurns them. I think they can be pretty in their heads about s*x itself (my experience has been with air heavy people with this placement so grain of salt). They tend to go off of their instincts and to be passionate. They may not be as vanilla as they seem, but bc of that fear of rejection they’re usually too shy to ask about exploring anything kinky early on. So the deeper the relationship, the kinkier they can get. They can also be really into b**bs and curves and are pretty likely to have a kink for unprotected s*x and finishing inside their partner (another breeding kink post about cancer placemeeents lol). Also this is the only mars sign that I’ve had tried to explicitly manipulate me into a relationship from a casual connection lol, so that’s something I had to add lmao (it was bold af lol)

Leo Mars: Again not the most experience here. The natives tend to enjoy the positive attention they can gain from reaching their goals. They tend to catch attention when they take action as well. They tend to light up under the spotlight (certain aspects may affect this), and they like to embrace attention from people they’re interested in. They stay fixated and dedicated to pursuing their goals. Tend to be great leaders as well. It can be intense arguing with them as well, they tend to take conflict personally and fight back pretty hard. If you flatter their ego and make them feel special they’re more likely to go all the way with you. They love being praised and adored in bed, they want you to make them feel like they’re the best you’ve ever had. They can work really hard to earn your positive feedback (in fact, sometimes they can be a bit too fiery imo). Praise makes them h*rny and may help them finish harder. They can indulge in role-play and kinks that give them all the attention. If you don’t make them feel like a prize to have in bed, then they may not stick around.

Virgo Mars: Virgo mars are very diligent folks, they work very hard and take their goals seriously. They are very purposeful types as well, they consider all factors and usually aren’t very impulsive. They know how to read all sides of a situation and how analyze it well. They can be kind of standoffish before you get to know them. They like to be of service when they express their affections, so if they’re always making time for you and doing you favors they may like you. They can be some of my least favorite people to argue with (and I hate arguing oml) bc of how critical they get and how they perceive mistakes and right & wrong. As far as s*x goes, they’re usually impressive at least in the beginning. They get labeled as virginal and conservative, but they tend to be into pleasing their lover in order to pleasure themselves. With their mutable nature, they can be as kinky as you’d want them to be. They can be repetitive though, they may fall into a particular routine with intimacy. And with they really give as good as they get, they perform a good mix of passion and like technique. but their almost procedural approach may not be for everyone lol, but I like how they tend see pleasing you as a challenge they want to rise to the occasion for. Also I think they’re the least submissive of all the mutable mars signs tbh, they know how to steer the boat so they won’t let anyone else drive for too long lol.

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Synastry aspects with my unforgettable and beloved ex (Personal Experience) *Part-1* 💝👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻

I’ve been feeling quite nostalgic about the memories I had with my first ex in these days. I normally don’t reveal my feelings this because I’m worried that I wouldn’t be able to control myself and things would go worse as I tend to be impulsive when I really want something. However, I checked our synastry chart last night as I couldn’t sleep and I saw some lovey-dovey aspects as well as heartbreak aspects so let’s dive into it!🤿

His sun conjuncts my moon

💗This is a traditional soulmate aspect and I also think he’s my soulmate. We broke up because we were too young and our parents forced us to. Also, it was because he was moving to another city. If it had not been like that, I’m pretty sure that we would still be together to this day. He has also told me that he felt that we’re soulmates. I felt very comfortable with him most of the times and he just got me. He understood my feelings and I also could tell his feelings just by looking at him. Our energies also sometimes were mixed up. If he was sad, I was sad too and we were not even in the same place at those times. It was like magic. He was like the Ying to my Yang and Romeo to my Juliet. Even though we don’t have mercury aspects, our conversations were always going with the flow and there was not a single time when we had nothing to say. We were friends and also lovers.👫🏻

His moon conjuncts my Venus

💗This is also very warm and sweet, especially in Cancer. We both were romantic but needless to say, as I have a Venus in 12th house, I made more romantic gestures for him than he did for me. Whenever we were together, we stared at each other while holding hands and we smiled and giggled. It was like a scene from a typical high school romance movie. I loved to hold his hands so much. I felt very safe when I held his hands. I used to hug him from behind and from the front and at those times, I just felt like I was at home even though I was at school where I hated the most. I used to rub his cheeks while holding his hands from the other hand when he cried. I felt appreciated with him and we loved each other’s presence. Lovey-dovey for sure!👀

My moon conjuncts his mars

💗This is known as a “baby making” aspect in synastry from my knowledge. And even though we didn’t have sex and he didn’t even touch my private parts and neither did I, I always felt this electric connection flowing in my body whenever he touched my arms and thighs. My blood boiled suddenly and it was special. I felt like he could be the father of my children lmao😭😂. And I also loved staring at him and brushing off his hair when he slept. He was like a cheerleader for me too. He supported me emotionally and I supported him to take actions to achieve his goals. I was prone to anxiety attacks so I had difficulties in studying but he uplifted me and I also helped him learn by studying with him together. The connection between us felt so traditional though. Most of the time, I loved switching gender roles (not in bed). For instance, I didn’t want to become a housewife who stays at home and takes care of children. But with him, I just wanted to marry him, stay at home, nurture him and our children, cook for them and do typical housewife duties.👰🏻‍♀️

His venus trines my mars

💗That also indicates a sexual attraction but his Venus was in Leo and I am allergic to guys with Venus in Leo. I just don’t get along with them normally because they irritate me. They want someone who they can show off to public and I don’t know his intentions towards me but urgh idk I don’t like Venus Leo men (I love girls though). At this point, I think I played as a masculine role and he was in feminine mood because I kissed him first. Yes you saw it. He wasn’t making any moves so I wasn’t patient anymore and I just kissed him and he was soo surprised because in our country, girls don’t normally kiss first. He told me that it turned him on more but in a romantic way and not sexually.😃

My moon conjuncts his Jupiter

💗We were bubbly together. I laughed with him a lot and our relationship was teemed with giggles and crazy laughs. I enjoyed his company and he enjoyed mine too. I felt expanded intellectually when I was with him and I was willing to do everything together with him such as traveling and trying out adventurous activities. I provided him to open up his feelings but he never fully did.🤷🏻‍♀️

My sun squares his mars

💗We rarely fought during our relationship but there was one fight that I can never forget. At that time, he teased me about a trivial matter and I was so serious about it because I was on a period and I lashed out my anger at him. He didn’t get it and he never retreated and went on teasing me so I didn’t talk to him for 3 days even though he was sitting beside me in the class for all those days. He tried so hard to make me talk to him but I kinda insulted his mom and his exes and then, he fought me back (he was a momma boy, he still is). Our argument was intense and explosive. My mars Aries shot his ass off with non-stop cursing words and he also said that I was selfish and etc. The fight ended with the help of mutual friends but during the argument, it was like two tigers fighting for a piece of beef.🐯

His sun sextiles my Venus

💗I have to admit it. I liked him first and I kind of flirted with him. He flirted me back and we got together. From the first time I saw him, I had this lil crush on him like he was my type even though he didn’t meet my expectations. I adored him the way he was. I just felt so positive about him and he told me he felt it too.

My north node squares his moon

💗I have seen in a post on tumblr (I don’t remember the original author sorry) that those people whose personal planets make square aspect to your north node may drag you down or delay you in some way. In other words, they may be the reason for delays and restrictions to get to your life purpose. His moon squares my north node and I had to process our break up for about a year because of his feelings and mine. I don’t know how to explain this but I felt emotionally stuck with him like I could not escape from my own emotions and I felt that he was the one responsible for it.

My Lilith conjuncts his Venus

💗It’s really interesting to see this pattern going on with me because there are 3 guys that I can never forget in my life and two of them have their Venus conjunct my Lilith. I’ve read countless posts about Lilith contacts and I still don’t clearly get who is more obsessed with who but I’m pretty sure I was the one more obsessed with both of them. I couldn’t let go of them even after a long time. This guy and I broke up 3 years ago and look at me, I’m still here, writing a post about the synastry between him and I😭😂. Plus, I felt that I could show my Lilith side to him without worrying about being judged. So if any of you have experiences with Lilith conjunct venus, please share yours freely because I’m so curious!!😩

His Lilith conjuncts my mercury

💗He was obsessed with the way I talked. He told me to talk more with him about various topics because he felt good hearing my voice. I find this funny because my word usages are not even attractive and my voice is also not hot but he said he loved it. He didn’t like it too when I talked to other people, even to my older cousin brother. Pretty bit of a tiny red flag but I was so in love with him so I was blind at that time.😪

My Chiron opposes his Venus

💗This is also a same pattern because I was always heartbroken by guys who had their Venus in aspect with my chiron (not only opposition). People say that Venus conjunction chiron is a marriage aspect and it’s very healing but I got major traumas from a guy whose Venus conjunct my chiron so hmm umm excuse me!? Back to my ex, his Venus is in opposition with my chiron and it was not healing at all. AT ALL. He traumatized me. His parents traumatized me. His friends traumatized me. Honestly, it’s very complicated to explain but the reason why I got bullied and slut-shamed at school is because of him. But those experiences made me stronger and more mature. It brought me to where I am right now and that’s why I don’t regret it. It hurt me so much though. Like a sword in my heart.😔

His Saturn conjuncts my ascendant

💗So, I don’t have much to say about this aspect but I felt insecure with him at some times. Especially when it came to my daily activities and my appearance. I felt that I wasn’t pretty enough and I felt ashamed to mention what I did in my daily life. But this is not very personal because most guys from my class had their Saturn conjunct my ascendant as Saturn moves not so fast and those guys were at the same age with me. In a way, I felt insecure about my appearance with people who were at the same age with me.

His moon conjuncts my ascendant

💗I’m not very sure about this because I don’t know his birth time and the moon can differ from 1-10 degrees forward or backward depending on the birth time. But his moon is at 15 degrees (without birth time) and my ascendant is at 21 degrees, so it conjuncts as of now. I felt at ease with him as I mentioned earlier but I’m going to talk more about this aspect in my later post because his moon is in my 12th house and I have a lot to say about that. Even creepy and paranormal stuffs.🥶

His chiron conjuncts my descendant

💗I searched it up on Google and I saw that the chiron person is destined to give the descendant person a lesson in whatever ways and that is absolutely true. He brought lessons into my life and I’m really grateful for those and interestingly, back in those days, most guys in my class also had their chiron conjunct my descendant and they also brought me lessons and lessons and lessons. The whole class didn’t speak to me FYI. And also the whole school. That’s okay now because I realized that being alone doesn’t mean feeling lonely and you can feel lonely even though you’re going out with friends if you’re not in the right circle.

Anyways, I had to write this out because my heart was crying out for him so much and the only thing I can do at this time is writing this and recalling some sweet memories we shared. I have a love-hate relationship with him and currently, I miss him so much and wanna talk to him but I can’t. I wanna g we back with him kinda but as my friend said, there was a reason why I broke up with him and why I blocked him on social media so I shouldn’t go back.

This is the end of this post and remember these are not facts. These are just my personal experiences so take them with a pinch of salt!! Thank you for reading to the end and have a nice day!❤️

•There is gonna be a part-2 for the synastry with this ex and I will be mentioning about house overlays in that post but mainly about moon in 12th house so stay tuned!✨

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💋(18+) natal astrology observations part 2

✫ I think that your descendant can indicate whether you attract submissive or dominant partners if you partake in those dynamics. (ex: a capricorn descendant would attract more dominant people, libra descendant may attract more submissive people) the planets that are in your 7th house can indicate this as well.

✫ 5th house moons and their breeding kinks lmfao i-

✫ scorpio/8th house venus and venus conjunct/sextile pluto can like the idea of ownership. there is something about giving themselves completely or having someone else give themselves completely that feels intensely gratifying. it comes from the desire for intimate and vulnerable sharing.

✫ moon conjunct venus and moon in 2H/7H/cancer could probably finish by their nipples being sucked or played with.

✫ leo/5th house venus can love collars. however, the emphasis is mainly on the PUBLIC indicator. they would like an OBVIOUS collar, the type to wear the big, bulky ones that have all the bells and lace and whatnot attached. they do not want it to be subtle.

✫ libra/taurus/2H/7H venus/lilith are the masters of sensual, purifying vanilla sex. these people know how to go back to the basics and just expand each fractal of the senses. they will make you feel like you are your most beautiful without any toys, spicy lingerie/outfit, or any play equipment.

✫ mars conjunct moon fuck like animals.

✫ virgo/6th house venus/lilith/mars are extremely resourceful in the bedroom. they can get things to feel like a damn fanfiction by their ability to piece together anything that is around them. is there a glass of iced water next to you? they will use an ice cube like 50 shades of grey. is there just a loose bedsheet on your bed? they will tie your hands with it. able to make something out of nothing.

✫ neptune/venus in 12th house/pisces are bulit for sensory deprevation i swear 💀

✫ we all know aquarius/11th house venus loves their public sex, I mean come on. it's a cliche but it's a cliche for a reason. they love the experimentation and unconventionality of it. they are the ones that will try everything at least once, along with sagittarius venus.

✫ saturn conjunct/trine/sextile venus would love to be on money/have money thrown onto them while being fucked. they would also be hellaaa expensive strippers.

✫ super random but gemini venus would be most likely to fuck on a trampoline 💀

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Astrology Observations 9

-Neptune conjunct midheaven people tend to idealize their public image & the world around them

-Mercury conjunct Saturn people may feel like they can never speak their minds, I feel like this placement makes for good writers because they’d be more likely to really think about what they’re saying

-Jupiter square Neptune can make a person impulsive/erratic

-Saturn square Neptune can signify a struggle with depression

-Venus conjunct Moon people give me big mommy energy

-People with multiple conjunct placements that follow a degree pattern (7, 8, 10) may be more prone to impulsive behavior during transits to these planets because so much energy is being activated at once

-Uranus square ascendant natives may be unconventional in appearance

-Sun opposite natal Sun transits can make a native question their entire personality/ego

-Moon conjunct Mercury natives understand their emotions and may feel the need to categorize their emotions, similar to Saturn conjunct Moon natives

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Synastry aspects with my unforgettable and beloved ex (Personal Experience) *Part-1* 💝👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻

His sun conjuncts my moon

His moon conjuncts my Venus

My moon conjuncts his mars

His venus trines my mars

My moon conjuncts his Jupiter

My sun squares his mars

His sun sextiles my Venus

My north node squares his moon

My Lilith conjuncts his Venus

His Lilith conjuncts my mercury

My Chiron opposes his Venus

His Saturn conjuncts my ascendant

His moon conjuncts my ascendant

His chiron conjuncts my descendant

This is the end of this post and remember these are not facts. These are just my personal experiences so take them with a pinch of salt!! Thank you for reading to the end and have a nice day!❤️

•There is gonna be a part-2 for the synastry with this ex and I will be mentioning about house overlays in that post but mainly about moon in 12th house so stay tuned!✨

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Astro Observations No. 21

*just based off of my personal experiences, only take what resonates

-Capricorn Moon/Moon conjunct/opposition/square Saturn could point to parents trying to control the native for financial gain

-Asc square mars can make the native appear intimidating and aggressive

-I feel like Virgo placements tend to have a lot of secret admirers… and I don’t have a why lol just a gut feeling (maybe it’s because of how they always seem on top of things, but this can make them kinda unapproachable for some people ? Idk)

-Are Sagittarius placements (especially in the big 6) usually late to appointments and dates or is it just me…

-Mercury square/opposition Jupiter could point to a lot of people thinking you never say enough/always say too much in convertation

-Venus square/opposition to Saturn may point to a lot of unrequited love interests, especially before the native is 25

-Is anything more double Capricorn (sun & moon) than both of your parents being cold, distant, and disappointing lol :0 (yeah I’m fine lol)

-Sagittarius placements make a joke out of everything lol, that’s why gen z jokes about death and depression so much lol Pluto in sag bby

-Aquarius can show where you tend to want really unique things (7th could want a really stand out partner to settle down with, 4th could aspire to have unique families dynamics, 11th could point to wanting unique friends, etc)

-My ex had Aquarius in 6th and he always wanted a unique looking pet lol (Every time he saw a hairless cat or a dog with 3 legs he was like let’s adopt them lol) -also totally didn’t expect it for a Virgo rising lol

-Your planets in 12th can show where things become murky and unclear (Mercury in 12th you make have trouble hearing and understanding the words people are saying, Mars in 12th you may have trouble understanding your anger/perceiving your intimate compatibility with people, Moon in 12th you may have difficulty with naming your emotions and understanding them and trouble knowing what you’re sensitive to, Venus in 12th could mean that you tend to unknowingly catch crushes and people have unrequited crushes on you, Sun in 12th really impacts your sense of self and how you perceive yourself.)

-Cancer placements in guys manifest as either their mother’s opinion meaning everything or like less than nothing I noticed (especially in dating, a cancer Venus/mars will either fall for someone because they’re just like their mother or bc they’re the complete opposite of their mother. It’s never accidental lol)

-Libra MC may be an advocate for social justice and could use any attention on them to further push these causes (turns out Malcolm X was a Libra MC, which is interesting bc he was so big on like standing up for the community and returning violence with justice).

-Another civil rights leader placement I noticed? Moon conjunct Venus (Martin Luther King Jr & Fred Hampton both had this, in water signs I think) which imo points to being emotionally invested in harmony and harmonious relationships.

- They also both had Taurus north node which made them empathetic and determined to be committed to advocating for peace but the Scorpio south node obviously made people (especially people in power) very vengeful towards them

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Synastry Overlays Series Mars (🍇)

Mars in the 1st house overlay: The Hungry lovers

💋Jacques Greene - afterglow💋.

•Now this pairing from the very start will feel like gravity navigating the two of you on a crash course straight towards one another at blinding speed. Mars in this case takes on the energy of Aries-they have an almost insatiable desire for the house person but one of a very blunt and surface level enigma. They find the house person erotic in a very Arian sense and even in a platonic relationship this does add quite a bit of a physical undertone to their interactions. Mars can be more forethought and straightforward when it comes to the house person than they would any other person. They can find themselves craving more raw touch from the house person than they normally would anyone else. And similarly to the 8th house influence due to the nature of mars and Aries the mars persons libido tends to sky rocket here when around the house person. The house person takes on the energy of mars-becoming more in-tune with their own physical attributes their own physical body so to speak. Everything becomes skin to skin and full on for the house person. A desire to seduce and or devour the mars person becomes present. Sex here is very aggressive and abrasive as if both have been strapped down with iron chains unable to act on their desires. Usually for better or worse their is an magnified sexual influence in the partnership.

Mars in the 2nd house overlay: Insatiably stable

🧣Little dragon - only you🧣

“Ooh, ooh, ooh

It was spring

That look, that look you gave

Ooh, ooh, ooh

Rivet us far

Would you let ‘em slumber

Whisper the name

Sunrise call

If there’s no tomorrow

Just wait all the same”

•I often would see much of the old archetype of planets falling in someone’s 2nd house having to do with how you affect them in terms of their finances and how you better increase or deplete what ever ability they have to gain in this area. Albeit this is true, the second house is also responsible for our self worth, it’s responsible for our desire for touch and our own value in security and what makes us feel this security. Mars here is EXTREMELY profound and places an immense intensity on these matters. The mars person in a sense gains very Tauren attributes when dealing with the house person. They’re both patient and sturdy often more than they’d be with anyone else. They are far more cautious and deeply sentimental towards the house person. I’m a sense they treat the house person as if the house person belonged to them and no one else. Mars can be extremely sexually aroused and attracted to the house persons physical body but not in the way of the 1st house-this is more in a deeply emotional sense. The way the house person is and the way they act is extremely comforting to the mars person and the mars person as a result is often touching and seeking deep intimacy of a sensual nature with the house person as a means to feel secure and to please the house person since this is a earth house. The house person acts as Venus here and despite the inclination they actually tend to take on the more masculine role here be it female or male. The house person is often unconsciously protective of the mars person—refusing to let any harm come their way. The house person is also fiercely loyal as well as easily possessive of the mars person physically and emotionally and can even adopt bull like tendencies when it comes to outsiders coming around mars. The house person craves mars touch and often lures mars in as an attempt to get this sensual touch. The house person takes sex with mars very seriously and since this is the house of Taurus sex often happens constantly and in deep long sessions. Touch and pacing is often the theme. The house person tends to hold off on touching mars back until they feel comfortable as often the house person feels the touch VERY intensely.

Mars in the 3rd house overlay: Are we flirting or fighting?

🐞Frank gamble - J’adore ft abra cabera🐞

“I used to think

Know what you see before you understand

You know in your heart before you know in your head

I used to think

No reason to keep it hidden anymore”

•This overlay generates a high level of friction. The third house and mars together breeds a lot of mischievous energy. The mars person can develop a very gemini like way of pursuing the house person even if they have a mars in a more “feel things” type of sigh like Pisces. Mars tends to have a more blunt and even at times nervous energy towards the house person. The house person in a sense “intimidates” them but in a cute/endearing way! Mars finds the house person both delicate and mysterious like a puzzle without the pieces. The house person stimulates the mars person with practically anything—they just have a very electric effect on the mars person for better or worse. The mars person in most cases especially in the beginning can sense this and tends to do all in their power to maintain a detached persona towards the house person to control the pace in a sense. The house person can be very curious in a mercurial like way about the mars person-often wanting to know it all. The house person usually is since this is a mars overlay we’re talking about here is often aroused by mars mind and how they process the world around them. The mars person can be a bit intense and aggressive when speaking the the house person and the house person can be rather sensitive to this. That being said mars is often very careful with the house person and is constantly adapting for them-while as time progresses the house person gains more courage to speak their mind. Sex here is very “hands on” the mars person can find themselves craving oral sex a lot more than they normally would and both partners will be very energetic sexually constantly moving from position to position. Talking and or dirty taking and speaking in different languages whilst having sex is another manifestation.

Mars in the 4th house overlay: The defensive tango

🐌Mansionair - speak easy🐌

“Can we keep the dialogue

We are falling out of touch

Can we keep the dialogue

For now”

•This overlay similarly to if Pluto was here is more on the overwhelming side of things. The mars person can take on very cancerian qualities, often becoming more undercut and indirect when it comes to the house person. They can feel caged in and seemingly emotionally flustered when it comes to the house person. Their emotions seem to come out sporadically and their desire for the house person fluctuates between sexual and emotional constantly with the emotional desire outweighing the other. Mars can and is very proactive of the house person often taking whatever action necessary to be an emotional wall for the house person whenever need be. The house person is often very lunar with the mars person! Usually nurturing and allowing a safe heaven for the mars person to express their deepest feelings. A lot of the energy for both parties is poured into cuddling and making things comfy. That being said arguments can be heated due to their emotional tendency and old defense mechanisms rooted towards the sign on the house persons 4th house tend to color the relationship for better or worse and both parties will find themselves acting out old patterns from previous episodes in their lives seemingly without their knowing. Sex here is often very intimate and a very private act-you’ll never know when these two are going at it and they love it that way.

Mars in the 5th house overlay: The glass castle ego

🐅Glass animals - life itself🐅

“Come back down to my knees

Gotta get back, gotta get free

Come back down to my knees

Be like them, lean back and breathe…”

•This overlay is normally a very physical overlay. And if it’s not wanted it can be a bit of a nuance for the people involved. Mars usually becomes like a Leo, seeking admiration and praise from the house person no matter how shy the Person. They start to crave the sole attention of the house person wether they realize it or not something in them starts to crave that excitement and fire from the house person. They often become more flamboyant and extravagant in the presence of the house person—seeking to live a bit reckless and make more bold and at times silly decisions in regards to the house person. The house person is often a flattered school boy/girl by mars and often either finds them childish or obnoxiously sweet. The house person often feels a strong desire for the mars person finding them “their type” in a sexual sense. In some cases the house person can even find that their ego is more prevalent when dealing with the mars person. The mars persons drive and sexuality is both alluring and sexy to them and the often find themselves deeply drawn to mars because of this. Mars tends to be more “me me me” during sex with the house person but only because the house person turns them on in such a way-whilst the house person becomes themselves through sex with the mars person! I’ll tell you now sex between these two is loud. Possessive tendencies in true fixed house fashion run very deeply here.

Mars in the 6th house overlay: Submission or Prolonged courting

🌾Tender - Nadir🌾

“With all I’ve done and all I say

I’ve been loving you in a different way

Tried to explain, you wash away the pain

Things were never gonna stay the same”

•ah the 6th house! The house of our daily persona-the respective day to day! The office and the guy you see everyday when you’re walking down the street for your morning jogs. The mars person here in a sense becomes a Virgo-far more observant than a action taker. Far more cat and mouse than outright pursuing the object of their desires. The mars person can be more somber around the house person-often seeing them as someone they have to live up to in a way. The mars person can become easily embarrassed and flustered by the house person! Often it knowing what actions to take to win them over but also in a sense feeling awkward about expressing their more intimate desires! Mars will often be better at speaking through actions than words to the house person. The house person will see through mars plenty of times! They tend to find mars a bit of the shy type and depending on the interaction in most cases the house person finds this very comforting! Due to how genuine and grounded the mars persons approach to romance is! They can find themselves opening up and even relaxing easier around mars and finding it relatively easy to leave things in mars hands! The house person fosters a very deep but slow burning desire for the mars person. The mars person tends to seek to please the house person at all cost sexually while the house person seeks to be pleased in totality. A give in take in sex that’s very as they say “earthy” this can show two people who have a natural sexual chemistry. Also not to be vulgar but this is an anal house both literally and metaphorically so do with that what you will.

Mars in the 7th house overlay: Nostalgia with you

👥SG Lewis - Times we had👥

“What if I never came around the bend

And walked straight into you

Like the stars

Nothin’ like a play to shut that down”

•the overlay here produces some veg romantic and warm nature’s sexual attraction between two people. Mars often takes on libra traits towards the house person! Often taking a calmer more flirty approach when it comes to their interactions. Mars often becomes

Far more diplomatic and even more compromising towards the desires of the house person often wanting to do and be anything possible to please the house person best they can. A huge level of romance plays here and mars often finds themselves shooting for the perfect atmosphere when with the house person often finding them both charming and someone that arouses their more hopeless Romantic side. The house person who becomes the higher waves of venus is immensely found of the mars person! Often finding their energies easy to blend with and even sexually alluring. Both enjoy spending time together in a peaceful manner and may even prefer more gentle sex when with one another! Both can be deeply into pleasing one another! And since this is libras house stimulation of the pelvic - butt region is often a theme.

Mars in the 8th house overlay: The angel v demon dynamo

🕷The Neighborhood - Heaven🕷

“There’s something 'bout you baby

There’s something 'bout the way

Ya got me shaking like a seizure

No mistaking that I need ya”

•ah the 8th house, to say that having this mars overlay is overwhelming would be a understatement! Be it platonic or sexual this can create a very intense undertone to the interactions. The mars person no matter how airy or how earthy their mars gets dropped into a dark pit that is the 8th house. Energies that lie deep and hidden beneath the nook and crannies of the mars person get dragged out to the surface and since this is mars a vast slew of intense sexual desires can be on the forefront and for some this can be both invasive and overwhelming. Mars often(unconsciously) finds themselves drawn to the house person, constantly observing and intensely infatuated and even caught up in the house person and what they do. Mars often expresses this intense need to touch and physically be around the house person via burst of anger or random aggression. The mars person can take on a very intense energy around the house person that others will pick up on but the sheer depth is something that’ll always only exists between the house person and mars. The house person often is the person receiving mars in a heavy way but often holds the level of restraint since they embody Pluto. The house person often feels like the damsel- endlessly caught by mars and his/her strong energy. The house person feels sexy and even in a sense mesmerized by mars and its raw desire. The house person in a sense becomes the moth while mars becomes the blazing flame. Sex between these two if ever allowed is a frighting sight something that can easily become addictive and something that can easily freeze hell over. Mars often takes on a very aggressive and passionate role sexually whilst the house person can in a sense become very wild, like the maiden finally free of her vail. Since this is the house of taboo having a mars overlay here often can show an attraction that’s wrong in some way or like the two of you shouldn’t feel the way you should for one another.

Mars in the 9th house overlay: The optimistic train

🦆Kimbra - sweet relief 🦆

“Gonna need to relax

Take a load off your back

Loosen up your mind

You don’t have to try

Feel it up in your spine

We can wait for the… oooh”

•oh boy now this is a friendly and bubbly place for mars! These two often have an easy going chemistry with a bit of the wild and jump the gun sort of tendency! Mars usually takes on more sagittarian traits than they normally would! They become far more straight forward than they would when not around the house person. They want a good time and see it in the house person! The house person almost becomes their version of a bountiful experience in the form of a human being. They can be quite insatiable for the house persons energy and even find the wild and more blunt style of the house person to be sexy so to speak! They can find themselves easily drawn and spiritually connected to the house person! The house person often takes on Jupiter’s energy and loves the more optimistic and childish nature of Mars! Theirs a tendency for both to be slightly arrogant and yes believe it or not despite Jupiter and sag influence their is a tendency for both to be ignorant towards one another as well! That being said they have a lot of energy and are deeply connected both physically and spiritually! Mars tends to crave sex with the house person anywhere they can get it but the fun of it is that it’s always on a whim rather than something thought out! The house person usually has a happy go lucky approach about sex with mars! Lubricants and oils! With a touch of outdoors and office scenes.

Mars in the 10th house overlay: Grouchy foreplay

🐜Alexandra savior - Frankie 🐜

“Babe, you got your villains’ car

You got your sleeves rolled up

Anatomical heart”

• its a more cold and detached sort of chemistry here. A meeting between to equally unfocused souls who don’t readily know they want anything at all from one another. This is the 10th house of status after all. Their is a huge focus on security here being that this is an earth house and even more on the slow build up. Being the opposite of the 4th house their is still a focus on the emotional/stability spectrum as far as intimacy is concerned! Mars takes on Capricorn traits often having a more rigid and somber approach to the house person. Mars can seem a bit uninterested and unbothered by the house person to an untrained eye but if one were to really look into mars they would see that the seriousness emitting from mars isn’t discontent it’s merely admiration and care. Mars wants to impress the house person-to captivate them, to earn them. Mars isn’t looking for quickies with the house person and sure as hell isn’t looking to waste time. Mars is earnestly bent on savoring every moment quiet, loud, every second. The house person sees mars as a mature and sincere lover and often finds themselves leaving their walls up around mars more than they would anyone else. They crave mars stability but fear it as well. Their can be a tug of war of openly expressed v. held completely out of sight. The two can seem very intense around one another to outsiders but they had a very earthy and deeply passionate sexual chemistry and one that is hard earned. Mars often holds off on sex with the house person but can be quite the gregarious beast once they get the-chance. The house person often keeps mars at bay but once they do decide to give it up they can play around with the control and restriction theme sexually and both tend to last long periods sexually with one another.

Mars in the 11th house overlay: Friends without the friends part

🕸FARR - Blades 🕸

“I think this bridge is burning down

I think my heart has just been bleedin’ slowly

It’s first I’m all you’re thinking 'bout

And then you try to act like you don’t know me”

•the final fixed house operates a bit strangely in a mars overly! Despite this being an air house we are dealing with a sexual planet and at that we are dealing with Aquarius and Uranus! This for starters is a very turbulent chemistry produced between two people! Mars takes on very Aquarian traits often being more detached in how they pursue the house person! They can think things out whilst simultaneously stepping out of their normal comfort zone! They often find themselves aroused by the house persons inaccessibility! It can seem like the house person is always slightly out of their reach. But that being said the mars person flys between off and on attraction when it comes to the house person! Some moments being all over them while others they treat them like a buddy! This is often a friends with benefits position because of the hot and cold vibes! The house person is often intrigued by mars rebel nature! But the house person often embodies the Uranian energy which often causes them to disappear and reappear at odd times in the pairing! They can desire to experiment with mars but also find themselves drawn to the more friendlier and easy flow aspect of their dealings with the mars person. Both love the freedom presented with one another and how it always feels like they’re not tied down. Sex here is often full of spark and can have a very star struck quality to it! Mars usually despite their detached nature wants a long term connection with the house person and vice versa! One thing I noticed is this is usually a couple that started out as friends!

Mars in the 12th house overlay: The worst case of Deja vu

🦎Clark - peak magnetic🦎

•mars in the 12th house overlay can feel extremely cosmic when you let it! But it can also feel so uncomfortable if you’re not ready to let someone in on such a level. Much like venus in the 12th mars in this house can point to a sexually intimate and or in the case of platonic/familial bonds a connection in which both parties fought together and in some cases even were involved in a close bond be it one forged in violence or one formed from having to protect one another from the worldly circumstances of your past life. Mars can take on Pisces like traits and often finds themselves reacting to things in unrecognizable ways. This is the house of kismet after all so mars in a sense can act out patterns seemingly from another time. They can have a odd fear of the house person yet find themselves drawn to mars in some cases it’s in a sexual manner whilst others it’s in a more spiritually disconnected way. Mars seeks union with the house person but also seeks sanctum away from the intense energy of the house person! Mars often feels easily drained and even more submissive to the house person often easily detecting the motives of the house person before even they do. The house person often finds themselves wanting to protect mars, seeing the more fragile and weaker aspect of mars threw energy alone. The house person can act out their 12th house more around the mars person but can be unsettled by this. Their is a huge sensitivity and receptivity presented here but it’s something that requires a lot of time to get the hang of and is not for the front of heart! From what I’ve noticed these two much like with venus normally don’t get involved in one another’s lives permanently unless it’s familial! But in the case of romance sex is often out of reach in some way or delayed! If it does take place I’ve seen that the two are inseparable after the act and you can always tell! Their eyes change and it’s the most ominous thing but I’ll say this sex here is often a blur. Something felt but not seen.

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