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At the jeweler - Martin Monnickendam , 1909.

Dutch, 1874-1943

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being in your 20s is all about being angry unpleasant unhelpful disrespectful uncertain guilty horny shameful exroverted depressed manically depressed isolated lonely mournful intolerable confusing and prideful

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i have the opposite of that “everyone is an npc” mentality people have embraced where i’m instead like. the person next to me in line has someone they can’t wait to go home to, the person picking up their mail has felt devastation before, everyone in this grocery store is doing their sunday shopping, maybe the person that just honked at me is having the worst day of their life, my neighbor has doctors appointments and favorite foods and a song they can’t stand to hear anymore… you are all fully realized complex people and that is overwhelming me on a spiritual level…

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Tumblr is currently serving me an ad for "Voda, the LGBTQ mental health app" offering "daily meditations, self-care and AI advice" and as a therapist I am begging you not to download an app where an AI tries to help you with your mental health. Please do not. They tried to have an AI chatbot counsel eating disorder patients and it told them to diet. That shit is not safe. Do not talk to an AI about your mental health please. You don't need to talk to a professional but talk to a PERSON.

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Since it’s the winter solstice here’s a friendly reminder that if you try mix any white supremacist Nazi ideology in with your paganism the old gods will definitely smite you and I will personally fight you and string up your entrails on the Yule tide branches faster than you can say “Sieg heil”, fuckboy!

Do not make me sacrifice your ass to Freya bc I won’t hesitate.

Odin hates you and thinks you are cringe.

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I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.

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i think when some of you say "neurodivergent" you just mean adhd and autism

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You can discover your favourite band when you’re in your late twenties. You can meet your best friend when you’re in your thirties. You can finally accomplish a life goal when you’re in your fifties. Your youth isn’t the only time frame where amazing, life-changing things can happen.

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Seeing men and masc identifying folks practicing paganism and witchcraft is so special to me. As a trans guy, I feel like pagan spirituality is seen as such a feminine thing, and it can make practicing feel dysphoric. Seeing masc folks- especially transmasc folks- practicing is so, so beautiful.

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december???? what next??? 2024?????

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Rule

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paying rent has to be one of the most demonic inventions in human history

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People underestimate how much it fucks you up to be subtly excluded as a kid. I would try to talk to my classmates and be met with disinterest or annoyance. The one friend I had, who I clung to and nodded along to his every word, had other friends he liked just as much or more. And his other friends didn’t care for me at all.

I look back at pictures from the time and see how separated I was from them. I remember knowing I was different. I remember posing questions about the world to the girls playing next to me and realizing that they had never asked the same ones to themselves. That the ways we thought couldn’t be more different.

I kept myself amused with my own fanatical stories and musings in my head. I would wander the playground on a circular path, imagining a friend and being sorely disappointed when it didn’t feel as real as I’d hoped.

There was a bubble separating me from everyone else, thin, and nearly invisible, but with a pearly sheen you could catch under the right conditions. I knew it was there, they knew it was there, and it changed me

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adhd? nah babe, I have ad4K 1080p Widescreen

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"using an adblocker on youtube is just like shoplifting from walmart" it's actually not but im ok with that too :)