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I think if you as a patient have the capacity to be late, complaining to higher ups that you came late and I should lean over backwards to accommodate your entitled nature is absolute garbage. It’s a lack of respect for others and their time.

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LOL

is your comfort character also a sad pretty boy with trauma and questionable morals or are you normal

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I loved Japan so much.

I remember when I was in my 20s I promised myself I would come back here one day and do everything I never could do back then—it was like this weird complex to show the world that I made it or something. I did it. Heh.

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"Growing Around Grief"

Lois Tonkin, 1996

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me watching jjk these past few episodes; i'm literally in shambles.

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Anaïs Nin, from “The Four-Chambered Heart,” originally published c. 1950

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this piece is so beautiful...

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i love b&w anime panels--some aot scenes that made me literally in tears after.

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nanami getting nitta and nobara to sit down first before kneeling to speak to them is such a subtle but effective character moment.

it conveys his care for his juniors – especially young students, given his past; it tells us that he respects women, unlike haruta; and it shows us that he does not think of himself as any better than them, professional jujutsushi or not

wish we had more of these small moments in the recent chapters.

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You make me feel...

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It's very unproductive to sit around waiting for people to guess what you want from them just to then get upset when they don't guess it.

If you care a lot about your birthday being celebrated, let your friends know that it's happening a couple weeks in advance and make it clear that you would like to plan something fun with them.

If you want your friends to gush about your latest achievement, make sure to let them all know that you did this or that cool thing.

If someone's joke is hurting your feelings, you can and should go "hey, could you please not joke about my appearance? It's a bit hurtful and I'd rather you went at something else."

If you miss someone, don't be afraid to reach out and let them know you'd love to catch up with them when they have the time!

If you're upset about something, try to have a constructive conversation about it instead of holding a grudge in silence.

You will get so much further if you make a serious attempt to exchange hints and grudges with conversation and communication!

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the commodification of friendship is the most annoying thing to come out of the internet in ages. like actually i love to break this to you but you're supposed to help your friends move even if it's hard work. or stay up with them when they're sad even if you're gonna lose sleep. you're supposed to listen to their fears and sorrows even if it means your own mind takes on a little bit of that weight. that's how you know that you care. they will drive you to the airport and then you will make them soup when they're sick. you're supposed to make small sacrifices for them and they are supposed to do that for you. and there's actually gonna be rough patches for both of you where the balance will be uneven and you will still be friends and it will not be unhealthy and they will not be abusive. life is not meant to be an endless prioritization of our own comfort if it was we would literally never get anywhere ever. jesus.

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