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*girl shares her experience of getting sexual harassment on Twitter* 

Men : "kalau boleh elakkan ye share benda gini. aib tu jaga nanti takde sape nak kat awak"

"sape suruh pakai sexy"

"motif share? bangga ke?"

Another girl": "kita ni sebagai perempuan kena la elakkan dari merangsang lelaki"

"tolong tutup aurat pls" 

"idk what happened but ill pray for you" 

"i believe there is two side of story"

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PKP tahun lepas aku bosan sgt smpai main Omegle sebab aku tgk benda ni tgh trending. Chat dengan sorg laki ni tiba2 dia buat lawak lucah. Aku marah la. Lpstu dia boleh ckp "sini tempat org nak horny2" "bukan tempat islamic". Bodo common sense ke laut. 

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I wonder what these guys get from blaming its women fault for not covering their aurat properly or its women fault for teasing them. Satisfaction? revenge? Like are you guys have nothing to do that you keep thinking dirty things 24/7?

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I remember back in Form 1 where the guys would asked us to read together with them "Cikgu Suraya" story. Back then, we didnt know it was a sexual story. We thought it just a normal story. No wonder these guys would giggling in excitement. Man, it makes me feel sick.

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Aku masuk dalam satu course yang majoriti lelaki. Normal lah kan lelaki banyak perempuan sikit dah nama pun course melibatkan technical apa tu. Yang tak bestnya bila satu hari aku dapat tau yang diorang bincang sesama diorang dalam group diorang sendiri rate kitorang yang perempuan ni dari paling didating sampai la paling takde sape nak dating. Pastu cakap pasal badan sedap la, sexy la. Sumpah itu benda paling terkutuk, Dalam hati aku doakan biar sekor2 ni mati. 

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During my school years, I made a mistake that still haunts me until now. I met a guy on Omegle and proceed chatting with him in whatsapp. Day by day we are getting closer and we became lovers. Somehow things escalated things quickly when he started to ask for my nudes. Thinking it as an act of love, I gave it to him but it turns out worse. He threatened to spread my picture on Internet if I didnt give more. Afraid of losing him, I gave it to him. Turned out after that he blocked me. My world feels dark. I avoided searching my name on google and stops using instagram. I afraid that if I do that, I will see my inappropriate pictures. Until now I have trust issues with guys and I tried my best to avoid talking to them. I keep telling myself I am bad girl and I dont deserve happiness. 

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In social media I only experienced a guy asked for a nude picture on my social media. I said no and immediately blocked him.

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Aku tengah scroll2 Facebook macam biasa sebab tu je social media yang aku pakai pun. Tiba-tiba ada lelaki ni entah macam mana kenal aku dia hantar gambar kemaluan dia. Aku terkejut gila la. Datang dengan pakej tambahan pulak dia hantar gambar + video lucah. Boleh pulak mengaku bangga tu dia punya.

Aku terkejut gila la. Boleh pulak mintak gambar aku punya memang tak bagi la. Banyak cantik muka kau. 

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I started using Facebook as one of my way to forget my ex. Adding random people, chatting with them. Usually the chat starts with name, where do you live. Its intro. Then, thats when things start go wrong. 

They will ask weird questions like "awk tido sorang ka mlm ni" or "awk pakai apa ja skunk"  and "noty sikit2 bole?" . I was so naive that time and asked them what kind of naughty . These guys get so excited and starts explaining and sending 18sx videos like asking me to do it. I blocked and unfriend them and since then I never use Facebook anymore.

Stupid guys. What a crazy world we are living in. 

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Tbh, i've never experienced any kind of sexualisation on social media. Most probably because before this I pretended as a guy on social media.

But, i used to post screenshot of my whatsapp conversation. Dunno if my real picture were exposed or not, but I do get kacau by a guy or maybe lesbian idk cant recall that.

Me during that day will immediately fight it back but now if i got some ridiculous message requests i will automatically block them.

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