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ladies and gentlemen, stop platforming every person you see as "cool" or an "influencer" because you don't know how good or bad of an influence they are

really hate to be posting again about stuff like this, but i got a concerning anon and it wouldn't let me reblog... so, here goes!

"call out of tulsatripswjess / jessicaevgenikos / jessica_evgenikos / actorsunscriptedthepod

I am aware she has been posted by Outsiders social media before, but so have many others that have been called out. That doesn't change anything. I'm here to say that it is absolutely 100% true that this person and her mother are insufferable.

Flies multiple times a month to see the show, even though she is a minor. Sits front row multiple times each trip. Allegedly brags about her ability to steal her mother's money to fund these trips. Also, Jess invites much younger people to go to New York City parties, people around the age of 12-14.

They binge drink around the city and drunk call Outsiders fans and cast members.

She has a podcast where she gives

"exclusive" interviews that are filled with misinformation about NYC. Jess isn't local!

Jess has forced people to spam the comments of Soc Saturday for the cast to notice her. She has messaged multiple fan accounts, and has started copying their ideas, posts, and everything. Literal copy paste of someone else's account. Her and her mother have asked cast members at the stagedoor about who their vocal coaches are in the city, which in hindsight isn't weird to ask; however, asking an actor at their job questions like that? Weird as hell.

Worst of it that I have heard personally is that she was yelling at her mom at the stage door: "Mommy take my picture with Dan!"

"Mommy take my picture with Brody!" And will throw temper-tantrums at the stage door if certain actors don't come out. She is also in the crowd of people who publicly make stage door and the fandom look unsate and unhinged, I.E. her tiktoks of her crying at the theatre when certain cast members are on / not on. Someone even called her out in the comments and the reply was "The cast knows us." They don't know you bro. They know you from your stupid shit, your whiny attitude, and your cringe antics, which really isn't cute or funny.

BIG RED FLAG PLEASE READ:

Her and some of her friends have been sending around doctored and fake screenshots of their "messages" with cast members, who she alleges she is insanely close with. She has also claimed she has connections related to Josh Strobl. Jess is not regularly texting adult aged cast members. I would hope that the cast wouldn't message minors on the regular.

She also says that some actors flirt with her / know her on a deeper level, which is WILDLY concerning if true because she is a minor.

Jess acts like she owns the fandom, and I am genuinely concerned that if we don't stop platforming, we will see another issue with parasocial fans stalking, harassing, and scaring cast members and making the fandom a scary and unwelcoming place."

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oh hi, how are we recovering from the news?

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guys this is all just a really bad dream... pinch me please

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Burn The Ships... and don't you look back... 🔥⛵🌅

The big message behind "Burn The Ships" focuses on taking the burden of your past, whatever it may be, and leaving it behind.

It makes me remember a legend about Spanish conquistador Hernán Cortés. On the shores of Mexico, Cortés issued a rather interesting order to his men as they began their conquest of the Aztec empire in 1519. "Burn the ships." Cortés wanted his men to know that they couldn't retreat to their past, and that winning was even more important now.

In The Outsiders, Ponyboy had to "burn his ships" to reconcile with himself, and to become able to accept reality, and to acknowledge that his trauma didn't have to define him. Johnny's letter further shows this, only that he uses the motif of "gold" instead. Ponyboy's act of leaving his trauma's in the rear view mirror and taking time to write about his story was his way of staying gold.

When I originally made this for @anhedoniamayhavelived's story "Cut On The Crease" on AO3, the message was simple. The scars of the past can only define you for so long. Once you burn the past away to conquer your future, they only define your past.

This weekend, I encourage you to take some time to focus on burning your ships, and stepping into a bright, bold, beautiful, brand new day. To stay gold.

Watch the original video: https://youtu.be/Oxd6Pa4wrXw

Note: If you listen to the TikTok edit, and then the YouTube video, you'll notice the music sounds different. This is because the video uses recorded audio from the more recent Unsung Hero Tour in the US, where as the edit uses audio from the Homecoming Tour, in Brisbane, Australia.

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The editing grind is real.

This one is a little less work because it's one of my videos on YouTube that I'm shortening to a reel/short/whatever you want to call them. Usually they take a bit more to put together but I'm intending to have this one out by this Saturday. 🔥⛵🌅

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gonna make my existence on Tumblr official soon to all other platforms

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so... the bald drama guy on tt is spreading more Brody rumors.

what more can people do to show hate than to indoctrinate their thousands of followers into also hating that said person.

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Soc Saturday Stuff

it's a linky thing, click it!

(the mayonnaise is waiting)

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If you have anything you think would be cool for me to yap about, use asks!

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New blog exclusively about the appreciation posts from OutsiderIn, check it out!

Unsung Hero II

The newest appreciation post from OutsiderIn, Unsung Hero II, will be posted on April 11th. Mark your calendars, and use the link below to learn more.

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hi (pt. 2)

Welp I'm back. I have clips of recast on my YouTube, and hey, I'm a web developer so maybe a way to stream it while also supporting BCEFA (with approval)

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outsiderin invasion

so this is an outsiderinvasion, hiii! find more cool stuff i have with the link card!