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“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could’ve, would’ve happened… or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.”

— (via sarahloveroses)

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“There are a lot of things that seem like the end of the world. Like when the person you like stops talking to you once you sleep together. Or when you have to watch a person you’re supposed to be over date someone else and you realize that sharp pain in your chest probably means you’re not actually over them. But what’s even harder is losing someone without getting to say goodbye and not having anyone to talk to about it. Or having to hurt someone you care about because you know what’s best for them and it’s not you. There are so many times in our lives that our hearts will break. And the bad news is, one of those times will be worse than all the others. But the good news is, it’s probably not what you’re going through right now.”

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Stay out too late with someone you shouldn’t. Tell people things you’ve been holding onto for no reason. Watch a meteor shower in the freezing cold at 2am on a work night because once in a lifetime chances are once in a lifetime chances.

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“Take note: it is good to be a giver. But be careful, because there are far too many who will try to take advantage of a giving nature; takers-for-granted; and refusers of taking no for an answer. There are some things you shouldn’t think twice about taking: take your time, doing things at your pace; take no crap from anyone; take no excuses for why they never give; take pride in your giving heart; and take care of yourself, don’t put yourself last until you have nothing left to give even yourself.”

— Autumn Ray

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We look at people who leave relationships like they’re monsters like how could you just decide you don’t want someone anymore when they treat you well and maybe they gave up a job for you or moved, whatever. But really we’re allowed at any time to decide ‘I don’t want to do this anymore’ no matter what someone has done for us. Why should I have to stay unhappy just because you treat me well? And okay, maybe I have no reason to be unhappy in the first place if you treat me so well, but that’s a separate issue. Because what it comes down to is it doesn’t matter why I feel this way, just that I do. And that’s allowed. And it doesn’t matter how great you are or what you’re willing to do for me because sometimes it’s just not going to be the right path for me no matter how smooth you pave it.

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“This was it.

Your last chance to say something, before we parted forever.

You didn’t…of course you didn’t.

Silly me, to think this time it would be different.”

- now all that’s left to say is goodbye

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“If your heart is in pieces have hope that someday someone will know how to love even the most broken pieces of yourself. You might even learn, that someone can be you.”

— kenzie lawson

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“you’re supposed to be wherever you are - right now, in this moment. don’t fault yourself for not being anywhere other than “here”. focus on right now. focus on today. make the best out of everything you’re already involved with. the future will slowly present itself as you begin to appreciate all that you have and all that you are in this moment. please, don’t rush life. anything that’s meant for you, will always be.. eventually. be patient.”

— Reyna Biddy

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“I used to seek validation through others and let them define my worth. I constantly dated boys because i needed someone to love me since i couldn’t love myself. Unfortunately they never really loved me and I got my heart broken a lot…until I eventually realized that the only person’s opinion that matters is my own and that the person you’re with is supposed to compliment you, work with you and be by your side but never ever complete you.”

— Be my partner in crime, not my knight in shining armour - Jess Amelia

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“Better to let someone walk away from you than all over you”

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“Here’s the secret nobody talks about. The world doesn’t want you to be happy. No matter how hard you try someone will find something to criticize. It’s so easy to get caught up in the hate. But what if you just wait? What if you watch for the brief moment where they hesitate? Look at the way your spine becomes a sword others flinch from. There is nothing wrong with you. People are just afraid of what you could become if they do not try to tame your flame. I’m not sure why it has to be this kind of game. But if you see someone trying to steal your happy, give them a smile, love. Either it will light them up or ruin their day, but either way, you are winning.”

— Happy, V.P.

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“Know your own value as a person. We’re all amazing, unique, gifted individuals, and yet we don’t inherently know that. Your worth isn’t defined by whether or not someone else loves, sees, values, appreciates, or adores you, it’s inherent. You are worthy because you’re alive, regardless of your mistakes or failures.”

— Stephenie Zamora

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Loving yourself is so important, because people leave. It’s sad, but it’s true. At the end of the day, you is all you’ve got. That’s why you need to make yourself a priority and love yourself as much as you can. Because darling, there will be times when nobody’s going to be there for you and you’ll have only yourself. And it has to be enough.

me to all the people who don’t love themselves and do everything for other people - not for them

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“sometimes you have to let people go because they’re toxic for you. you have to let people go because they mean you no good. sometimes you have to sacrifice the temporary happiness that people will give you - in convenience.. and you have to chase an unconditional happiness only you can give you. you have to let them go because you’ve forgotten your worth and you have to regain a sense of self. let them go because they continuously take - always leaving you empty.. always leaving you uncertain. let them go because while you’re learning yourself & seeking fulfillment - they’re unapologetically draining you.”

— Reyna Biddy

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“at some point you have to sit with yourself and learn who you are. you have to take responsibility for the way you’ve been treating yourself and the way you’ve allowed others to break you down. you have to go back to wherever you abandoned your love for self - thinking that someone’s love for you is more important than your own - and pick you back up! you have to ask yourself, “why do I treat others better than I treat my own self?” then you have to accept yourself.. because at the end of the day, the only person who’s forced to deal with the broken pieces of you, is you. don’t fault yourself for any of the past - just accept who you are today. accept your truths, your hurt, and your heart. and finally, you have to love YOU. love every piece of you - and never ever let anyone come in and damage you again. Heal your heart and Protect yourself better.”

— Reyna Biddy