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white people love inventing racial slurs that they're Allowed to say about some imagined subhuman category of people and are so eager to latch onto this opportunity that they swing around to just saying actual real life racial slurs with a few letters changed like come on man

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if you voted, please remember to share this post

My friend Mosab's daughter, Lama, has been injured in a bombing in Gaza and is in need of donations to help save her life.

His family doesn't have money for food or medicine and there is no cooling system to shield them from the scotching heat.

Please help this family meet their basic needs so they can escape this genocide. They have survived through hell the past nearly 2 years. Please don't let them die now just because of hunger.

Vetted by GazaVetters #520 and shared by @/90-ghost.

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Team Hussain is another grassroot initiative that I didn't see being shared much around Tumblr. Like other grassroot orgs in Gaza, they're also helping multiple displaced families at the same time.

Their X account is here: Hussein_Team

Your contribution is greatly appreciated

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Hello my dear friends

Now now now urgent urgent urgent and very

important appeal

Now we are in the Gaza Strip. We are experiencing

a real famine. The situation is so dangerous and

catastrophic that no aid or anything is entering

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Goods enter through the Jewish crossings only

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I hope everyone will participate and donate. You can donate even a little money or the price of a cup of coffee. Your donation will save lives. And protect my children from the fierce war

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I’m a minor who reads your work from time to time, and I think I would consider myself “kinky”, but this is all hypothetical. I read and watch and consume various kinky media, and write erotica and draw fun art, but I’m not actually *doing* anything with other people. I guess I want some sort of reassurance about the time I have left to wait? I still have a couple of years before I could ever come into the scene appropriately and IRL, and I don’t plan on deceiving people to start early. But I yearn to fuck and play! I want cool gear and fun friends and to watch crazy shit in dungeons! I want to not live at home so nobody would be suspicious in later years when I leave the house to go pretend to be a dog! I also sometimes wonder if, because I don’t have practical experience, my attraction may be less to the actual kinks themselves and more to the reassurance of consent and negotiation and safety that comes with them. For context, I’m a queer autistic transmasc. I don’t really know what I’m looking for you to say. It’s just so frustrating to have to create and consume alone, but without any of the autonomy or connection that come with adulthood and play partners and events. All i want to do is dive into the sea of sexy people and be their dog or slut or friend or trainee. I want to be free.

oh I am so delighted to receive your message! thank you so much for writing in, and I just want to say it's fantastic that you have so much of yourself figured out already, in terms of your identity and interests -- none of this is a static thing and will continue to evolve, of course, and you may in fact find that certain kinks that interest you in the abstract you don't actually want to do in person, but as someone who couldn't admit to myself at your age that I was autistic or trans or kinky, I hope it can give you a little bit of solace that you are starting out ahead of a great many people. I didn't get started exploring the stuff until I was over 30; in a lot of the vintage leather books that I read, most of the king practitioners didn't figure out they were gay until getting divorced in their 50s and beyond.

at the same time, the lack of freedom for so-called minors is absolutely unjust and wrong, and it's right for you to be shaking at the bars of that cage and to feel frustrated as fuck. in a just world, you would be able to explore things with other people your age, and have supportive mentors in a community there for you along the way. and I'm sorry that that is really difficult to accomplish even a taste of at present.

but I think you can have a taste. there is a lot that you can do in roleplay with other people of around your age, online or in writing fiction and trading art. I would certainly not recommend that you go out and have a physical sexual encounter with an adult, and it's good that you're not looking to deceive people, but I do think creating kinky art of some kind and interacting with people of all ages who make that stuff can be done in a way that is both safe and positively enriching for you. even if it means overlooking some 18+ tags.

I would also strongly encourage you to lurk in kink spaces online that will teach you some of the interpersonal skills and troubleshooting aspects of kink that are normally things a person has to master through a lot of trial and error in person as an adult. so, perhaps you want to join local FetLife groups or just read about kink practices that you are interested in on subreddits, just to hear the discourse that different people are having, and see how people talk about the problems they run into and how they solve them. I don't see this as any different from reading a ton of romantic relationship advice columns as a kid and bringing that knowledge into your romantic relationships at any age. I think moving relatively quietly and stealthily through certain digital kink communities can lead to you learning a lot.

I think it's also not out of the question to get for yourself some really basic kink items of the sort that anyone can purchase online, and can be mistaken for mundane household items, if that is something that you want to experiment with. a great many pups start out with the basic hood off of Amazon, for instance, and even easier than that to get is a collar or a lead chain or some kind of spoon that is nice and thuddy and useful for impact. It is okay to experiment on yourself, or to just try and get into these headspaces for yourself and play around with some dog toys or sit in your closet and pretend you're in a cage. That is useful practice for getting in and out of headspace and figuring out what your kinky alternate selves are like.

It also may be possible that you will encounter peers who are interested in exploring some of this stuff in a relatively rudimentary way. if you know other queer people from school or that you have close friendships with, I don't think it's out of the question to potentially ask them about playing at being puppies together. I think you should probably steer clear of any intensive BDSM practices until you are able to be embedded within a community, but in the meantime you can look at rope tying tutorials on YouTube and practice them on yourself, a stuffed animal, or a friend, do light role playing, experiment with sensations on your own body, and so on.

It might not feel like the same thing as taking the plunge into the wide world of partnered kink, but a lot of what's necessary early on is learning fundamental skills and better coming to understand yourself, and you can do that now. you might even benefit from trying things like improv or acting classes right now, or something like dance; the skills that you master in those kinds of arts really transfer over to kink very well.

in short, You do not have to put all of your desires and fantasies completely on the back burner. finding excellent kinky partners is actually a ton of work, and it's never going to come immediately as soon as you're free to pursue it. The time will pass anyways, as they say, so you might as well spend this time while you're still waiting to become an adult working on skills that'll make it easier for you to integrate into the kink world and to have a positive experience with it. and that time will not be wasted.

write in with questions anytime.

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Keep Gaza in your timeline. 🇵🇸

These innocent beautiful children are starving because not enough of us are demading Israel end their ethnic cleansing and genocide of Palestine.

Their children are our children. They way you treat children is becoming an obvious indicator of how you embrace authoritarianism.

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my high school used to start at 7:30 and I lowkey think that was child abuse

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