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Bitch Why Are You Like This: meeting Miss & Daddy (Jan 22)

A picture of me looking at me during the entire evening.

Starring: Daddy, Miss and a bitch (that's me!)

i've been thinking about my meeting with Miss and Daddy. Before that very moment, i have never felt young. Truly young - innocent, energetic, inexperienced, requiring guidance, in-over-my-head. Ever. Welcome to childhood, bitch.

Miss is fucking amazing. Although intense, she embodies the person i want to be. There's a quiet strength about her, a self-assurance, and she's beautiful. When the hostess pointed her out, i was quite sure i'd die before ever reaching the table. But here i am. Still living. While sitting at the table i marveled at how blessed i felt. Do i know what the fuck i'm doing? No. Do i know what i'm getting myself into? Hell no. But i trust in the experience Miss has, her thorough questioning, and deliberate actions.

For a moment, i wondered about sex trafficking. Atlanta is the sex trafficking hub of the nation, and to get women, sex traffickers often recruit other women. Because girls/women feel safer with and trust women more than men. With reason. But i requested to see and talk to her and Daddy was kind enough to let that happen.

And then in comes Daddy. i doubted He was real but He sure as fuck is, and boy do i feel little. It's not something i've ever experienced in my life. And i like it a lot (question mark?). i was pretty sure i was going to fuck some shit up and fuck some shit up i did. He told me to ask Him a question. i didn't feel i deserved to ask a question and quite frankly i was suffering from slight sensory overload and i didn't have a question to ask. Every question i had left my mind the moment He asked. Somehow, i found one - something about my age. i don't remember what i asked or His answer. i do remember getting comfortable and asking another question. He leans forward and says, "What part of one question do you not understand?" and i respond, "the one part." 🤦🏽‍♂️ Internally, i was yelling at myself to shut the fuck up.

And then He looked at me.

He looked *into* me

and i fell

When i was 4 or 5 or 6 (who the fuck knows honestly) my mother took me and my sister (who was 2 or 3 or 4) to a pool. i could somewhat swim but knew i should never cross 4 feet deep. Keeping this in mind, i jumped in the pool. And then i started drowning; the '4 feet' pool marker was missing and i thought i was jumping into 3 feet water. As i drowned, there was no panic. i felt no discomfort. i remember being surrounded by light blue waves. Looking up to see the sun shining through the water. i was at peace. There was no sound, there was no disturbance. And then i closed my eyes.

And when i opened them i was staring into Daddy's.

*still*

There's a common descriptor phrase - looking like a deer in headlights - and i have had the terribly unfortunate opportunity to witness this in reality in the passenger seat of my grandfather's jeep speeding toward a deer at 50 miles per hour.

and i am the deer

and the deer is me

drowning in water

over four feet deep

with eyes staring into Daddy's

Eventually i look away. And to mask my terror - that i could feel the depth of those experiences, i do the worst possible thing i could do in the moment: i look back at him defiantly & *i get smug*. And when i return my attention to Miss, i am smiling. Daddy asks Miss if i have signed the waiver yet and he says to get that done *as soon as possible*

A bitch is in trouble .

Should i be terrified for my life? Should i try to suck His ****? Who knows 🤷🏾‍♂️ (lxlzkzkzjkzjzb why am i like this! 😳🤣). Fuck Twilight AND ESPECIALLY fuck its fanfic 50 Shades, but Bella. Sweetie. If this is how you felt when Eddy-boy stared at you, i understand and im sorry for ever doubting you.

The night goes on. Daddy pours his coffee in a very particular manner. i am very thankful for Miss. They work well together. A perfect balance. She asks about me staring down Daddy and asks if i wanted to or felt like i should look away. Hell yeah i wanted to look away. i felt like i should look away. i wanted desperately to look away. i couldn't. And then it felt like maybe i shouldn't look away? Like what was this Man thinking i wondered. And when i caught myself looking i realized i kinda didn't want to stop? A bitch is a brat. Why do i poke the Lion? i don't knoooww 😭. Miss says she can't imagine me being submissive and that hurts a lot.

And of course in typical fashion of one who emotes (?) dramatically, i begin to cry. Because being smug is a defense mechanism. Bucking authority is another. i have had to puff myself up and build up walls and be hard for so long to *survive* and i don't want to be like that anymore. It's not me. i didn't have a childhood. i've always felt impossibly old. At 10, i raised my siblings for four years while momma went to college. because making 6k a year aint shit with 4 kids. At 14 when she finished, she wanted her role and her power back, but the children didn't recognize her as momma. And she hated it. It was a constant power struggle. To me she was irrational, led by the heart and prone to overreaction. Her favorite punishment aside from capital punishment was to take away everything i cared about at any moment *because she could*. So i became smug. *Because fuck you.*

Fast forward 4 years when i finally get to college and shit aint much better. i'm in an environment i wasn't ready for academically. The learning curve was exponential with a slope asymptote to infinity (undefined). That joint is a straight line lol. People are mad racist, dudes are mad sexist, the black people super rich and i'm slipping into depression. When i took a break from school last semester, i learned the traits i picked up - the way i operate in groups/the constant fight - don't work in other environments. It's dangerous to myself and it hurts others. And i don't want to be like that anymore. this is what i've had to do to survive all my life and it's ugly and it's not me.

i'm done with surviving. i want to thrive. i want to *live*. i want to submit desperately, i just don't know how. i'm tired of being defiant and smug and provoking because it's not me. i care so deeply for people, and i struggle because my face, my words, and my attitude are incongruent. When shit is bad, and i mean real bad, i smile and laugh. Not because something is funny or amusing - i smile because it isn't. i guess i started smiling cuz that's much simpler than bursting into tears. And these behaviors are habits i desperately want to break. my life has been fight after fight and resistance and war. i've made it so i would not submit to the negative forces in my life, but now i don't know how to accept the good. and that's why it hurts me so much when i smile at Miss or stare down Daddy when i would truly love not to be.

i was sure after that fiasco i'd never hear from them again. i failed so epically at something i know myself to be. regardless of the tears (because i definitely cried more last night), i am so thankful for that one opportunity to be in the presence of Miss and Daddy. The experience allowed me to gaze intently at those very ugly behaviors that i didnt truly recognize until last night. i left feeling like i failed a lot. But that failure was good because it was necessary. i'm now one step closer to knowing the person i am and transforming into the person i want to be.

Miss told me to look up what submission means and give ten examples of when i have ever done that in my life. For a moment i was quite terrified because i don't think i have ever submitted to someone or something without resistance first.

Submission - the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person; an act of surrendering to a hold by one's opponent; humility; meekness

Okay the '10 examples' activity is super hard because i see now i've been the bitch reluctant to listen and follow. people must loved me to put up with this shit. Jesus take the wheel.

i still don't think i'm off the hook. i live on the hook. i am the worm 😂. i'm super disappointed in myself, but my love for myself has not changed. i'm really proud of myself for taking the chance and putting myself out there and meeting people who i fantasize about binding me, dragging keys down my back until i bleed, whipping my *****, leaving marks/bruises and other normal shit like calling me hideous degrading names and looking at me in ways that make my entire being quiver. If we're being 300,000% truthful, though i didn't intend to fuck up, the intensity of those moments, the acute embarrassment i felt, the topic of conversation in that public environment is something i truly enjoyed and if given the chance to experience it again i definitely would. ☺️

Eventually i'll ask Miss about her role because she's Daddy's sub but i have to pass her first to get to Daddy. Does that mean one day she's going to hand me off and i don't get to have her as Miss anymore 😢? i'm going to enjoy things as they are and take them as they come. Because i like Daddy & Miss a lot 🤷🏾‍♂️

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A change

This blog ain't gone be just sugar shit anymore. Welcome to my world.

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How do you phone reverse?

It’s easy-First you want to google the number using quotations as in “444-44-4444” - That will allow searches of all the variations of that number.The searches should provide you with all the results were the number appears or is registered .Spokeo is a golden mine. The service costs 0.99 the search or 7$ the month - it will allow you to reverse any number and find the name, address, criminal charges, property records ect.The free option of Spokeo only gives you the carrier it is registered to, and the location of the user (which is sometimes all you need to back up someone’s story)But if you want to go free - They are far better options- White Pages : my favorite - it is a people and public record search. It allows a phone reverse search or simply a name search. It provides you with name , criminal records (as little as traffic ticket), employers, education, address (city-state), and relatives (if registered)- Anywho: another alternative to White Pages with weekly updated database - same information provided.-Www.addresses.com offers similar services- Spydialer: one of my personal favorites. It allows reverse with cellphone names and even emails (you can use that option to see which other site the emails was linked with and find linkedin facebook ect) - Spydialer will also provide available pictures (another fact-check)-ReversePhoneLookUp.com : it does not always come up with accurate results and in that case it will provide general location - call complaints and phone service.While it works better with landlines than cells - it offers : name, location of number registration, email and owner’s address.

If none of these work - Social media is your best bet- Facebook: simply type the number in the facebook search bar. If it associated to an account, the latter will pop up regardless of privacy settings or friends status (you don’t need to send them a friend request to view the profile to which the number is linked to)

Hope this helps.If you have any other questions please feel free to ask me !

Capitol xoxo

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Anyone have tax tips for hookers? I want to buy a house one day so I think I should probably start reporting my income now that I’m a real functioning escort. Can I just get a business license and pretend it’s all from a fake/real business?

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Before January ends, I’m going to magically and extremely blessed by the universe.

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“Does my sexiness upset you? Does it come as a surprise That I dance like I’ve got diamonds At the meeting of my thighs?”

— Maya Angelou - Still I Rise

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A vanilla, a Sugar Daddy & a Master?

The Universe conspires in my favor and God is so good. I got everything I asked for.

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Dplive

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I’m back with part 2 of my Sugar Baby Advice Masterpost. Here is a list of links to advice from various sugar babies/sex workers/etc that I’ve gathered through my extensive research. Feel free to check out my advice page here for hundreds of links to advice that I found helpful. Enjoy! 

• Some Classy Conversation Topics 

• The Perfect Spam Message/Art of Spamming

• Messaging Tips

• Marketing Yourself: Read This

• 50 Unusual Date Ideas (Good for dates with your SD)

• How To Attract a Man: How to do it, what to do, and how to make yourself so desirable that all men will want you and only you. 

• The Men Post: How to make wealthy sugar daddies/clients keep coming back to give you more and more every time. 

• Body Language Linguistics 

• Freestyling Tips

• A Few Useful Websites For Sugar Babies

• Dining Etiquette 101

• Reasons Why You Are NOT Asking For Too Much

• What To Say To a POT Who Asks “What’s in it for him” 

• Sex Work Approved Payment Options

•  THE LINKS: The Official Sugar Baby Reading List (Strippers, Escorts, Cam Girls too)

• To Reverse Search a Phone Number 

• Guys To Avoid On Seeking Arrangement

• Delete Yourself From Web Services

• Ways To Ask For Gifts

• What To Put On Your Profile

• What to say when a SD asks “what you’re willing to do” sexually 

• Craigslist Ads That Attract Certain Men

• Emotional Reasoning Is More Powerful Than Logical Thinking

• Online Adventures: Writing To/Writing Back

• Mandatory Sugar Tool

• Escort Advice Tip #001

• 3 Ways To Get What You Want From a Man

• Sugar Baby Academy

• How To Charm The Cash Out of Your Sugar Daddy

• How To Dress For Sugar Success

• How To Separate the Boys From the Men

• Don’t Make It This Easy

• Get The Conversation Going & Weed Out The Jokes

• How SD’s Can Track Where You Live

• Sugar Baby Travel Tip

• Sugar Tip: Subscribe To Magazines Related To Your Goals

• Sugar Travels

• Saving Money

• Apps Every SB Needs

• Money Saving Tips

• How To Organize Your Hustle

• 5 Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To An Allowance Offer

• Asking For Money On The First POT Date

• Verify Him

• Sugaring From Scratch

• Apps For Sugar Babies

• The Girlfriend Experience

• Freestyling Guide

• Sugar Allowance - What Form Do You Take It In?

• Fashion Tips And Dress Codes

• Turn Vanilla To Sugar

• Checklists

• Spending Sugar Money

• A Poor Sugar Babies Guide To Looking Pretty

• What To Say To Get The Allowance You Want

• How to Trigger a Man’s Generosity Right From the Start

• 25 Things That Will Make You a Better Sugar

• The First Encounter

• Tips: What to Say 

• Craigslist Masterpost

• Sex is Sex but Money is Money

• Stop Comparing Yourself To Others Success

• Safety Tips From a Client

• How To Make Real Money

• Staying Safe While Being a SB

• How To Keep A SD Interested: Long Arrangements

• Things I’ve Learned From Living With SB’s (part 1)

• How To Manipulate People Into Liking You More

• What Personal Information Should You Give Your SD?

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SWER Media Club

MANGA & COMICS

Rent Girl by: Michelle Tea

Paying for It: a Comic Strip Memoir About Being by: Chester Brown

Sex Criminals by: Matt Fraction

PINK by: Kyoko Okazaki

Delivery Cinderella by: NON

MAGAZINES & ZINES

strip-magazine

$pread

KINDLE HOW TO’s

Ho Tactics: How to MindF**k A Man into Spending, Spoiling, and Sponsoring

A Gold Digger’s Guide: How to get what you want without giving it up

Blueprint for an Escort Service

Blueprint for an Escort Service 2: Beyond the Original Blueprint

The Courtesan Handbook

The Internet Escort’s Handbook Book 1: The Foundation

The Internet Escort’s Handbook Book 2: Advertising and Marketing

How to Start an Escort Business I

How to Start an Escort Business II

How to Start an Escort Business III

Digital Sex Work: How Your Webcam, Cell Phone & Pedicure Can Make You Rich

Cam Girl 2.0: Make Boss Money at Home While Keeping Your Panties On

Start Earning Over $40 an Hour as a Webcam Model Now!

How To Succeed As A Webcam Model

Talking Dirty: Getting into the Phone Sex Industry and Staying There

Greedy: A Guide to Financial Domination

The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance

The Sugar Daddy Formula: A Sugar Baby’s Ultimate Guide to Finding a Wealthy Sugar Daddy

Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know if You Want to be a Sugar Baby

Make Money Stripping: how to make money as an exotic dancer tonight!

Stripping: Your Guide for Making Money in a Tough Economy

The Nerdy Girl’s Guide to Stripping: A 10-Step Guide for Stripping Your Way to Success

The Pole Position: Is Stripping for You? And How to Stay Healthy Doing It

Zen And The Art of Stripping: A Very Naughty Tale

Secrets of The Lazy Stripper: The Ultimate Exotic Dancer Package Book 1

How to Make More Money in the Gentlemen’s Club: The Ultimate Exotic Dancer Package Book 2

The Successful Stripper: The Ultimate Exotic Dancer Package Book 3

Lap Dance: The Ultimate Guide to Being the Best Exotic Dancer: The Ultimate Exotic Dancer Package Book 4

FICTION

After Dark by: Haruki Murakami and Jay Rubin

Around the World in 80 Men by: Brandi Ratliff

Bitter Sweet: A Controversial Crime Thriller by: Mason N. Forbes

Black Girl in Paris by: Shay Youngblood

Changing His Game by: Justine Elvira

Dance Dance Dance by: Haruki Murakami

Escorted by: Claire Kent

Evocronik 1.0 by Jc Weatherby

Gutterboys by: Alvin Orloff

Heaven by: Kimberly Cain

I Am Not Myself These Days by: Josh Kilmer-Purcell

In Lucia’s Eyes by: Arthur Japi

In the Company of the Courtesan by: Sarah Dunant

Kushiel’s Dart by: Jacqueline Carey

Mistress of My Fate by Hallie Rubenhold

Private Dancer by Stephen Leather

Safe Houses by: Lynne Alexander

Six Moon Dance by: Sheri S. Tepper

Slammerkin by: Emma Donoghue

Southern Discomfort by: Rita Mae Brown

The Balcony by: Jean Genet

The Butterfly Trap by: Dennis Jon

The Crimson Petal and the White by: Michael Faber

The Dress Lodger by: Sheri Holman

The Gargoyle by: Andrew Davidson

The Handmaid’s Tale by: Margaret Atwood

The Past Never Ends by: Jackson Burnett

The Submission Gift by: Solace Ames x review

Tipping the Velvet by: Sarah Waters

FANFICTION

Underland by: jellyheart84

Creamsickle by: Rhiannon Argo

Harry Potter Porn Star by: Reverie Wilde

Innocent Games by: Wynja

Dating Backwards by: RemainNameless

Escort Services by: Tempest-2455

In Which Tess Hires Teen Prostitutes by: Incidental Vegan Cannibal

Personal by: Incidental Vegan Cannibal

BIOGRAPHIES

Unrepentant Whore: the Collected Works of Scarlot Harlot by: Scarlot Harlot

Cop to Call Girl: Why I Left the LAPD to Make an Honest Living as a Beverly Hills Prostitute by: Norma Jean Almodovar

Working: my Life as a Prostitute by:  Dolores French

Woman at Point Zero by: Nawal El Saadawi

Strip City by: Lily Burana

Spent by: Antonia Crane

In My Skin; a Memoir of Addiction by: Kate Holden

The Story About Me: a Hijra Life Story by: A. Revathi

Bare: the Naked Truth About Stripping by: Elisabeth Eaves

a Piece of  Cake by: Cupcake Brown

Ordeal by: Linda Lovelace

Dominatrix on Trail: Bedford vs Canada by: Terri-Jean Bedford

Conertina: the Life and Loves of a Dominatrix by: Susan Winemaker

The Mayflower Madam: the Secret Life of Sydeny Biddle Barrows by: Sydney Biddle Barrows

Madam Inside a Nevada Brothel by: Lora Shaner

How to Make Love Like a Porn Star by: Jenna Jameson

Inside Seka: The Platinum Princess of Porn by: Seka

The Best Kept Boy in the World by: Arthur Vanderbilt

Belle du Jour by: Belle du Jour

Insatiable; Porn a Love Story by: Asa Akira

Rent Girl by: Michelle Tea

The Little Black Book of Griselidis Real: Days and Nights of an Anarchist Whoreby: Jean-Luc Hennig

Naked in The Promised Land by: Lillian Faderman

The Last of the Live Nude Girls by: Sheila McClear

Indecent: How I Make it and Fake it as a Girl for Hire by: Sarah Katherine Lewis

Hos, Hookers, Call Girls and Rent Boys: Professionals Writing on Life, Love, Money and Sex

Johns, Marks, Trick and Chickenhawks: Professionals and Their Clients Writing About Each Other

SOCIOLOGY

$pread: The Best of the Magazine that Illuminated the Sex Industry and Started a Media Revolution by: Rachel Aimee

Brothel: Mustang Ranch and Its Women by: Alexa Albert

Encyclopedia of Prostitution and Sex Work by: Melissa Hope Ditmore

Flesh for Fantasy: Producing and Consuming Exotic Dance by: Merri Lisa Jhonson and Danielle Egan

Global Sex Workers: Rights, Resistance, and Redefinition by: Kamala Kempadoo and Jo Doezema

Global Woman: Nannies, Maids, and Sex Workers in the New Economy by: Barbara Ehrenreich

G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire by: Frank Katherine

Honey, Honey, Miss Thang: Being Black, Gay, and on the Streets by: Leon Pettiway

Legalizing Prostitution: From Illicit Vice to Lawful Business by: Ronald Weitzer

AIDS, Drugs and Prostitution by: Martin A. Plant

Live Sex Acts: Women Performing Erotic Labor by: Wendy Chapkis

Love For Sale: A World History of Prostitution by: Nils Johan Ringdal

Making Work, Making Trouble: The Social Regulation of Sexual Labour by: Deborah Brock

Men Who Sell Sex: International Perspectives on Male Prostitution and AIDS by: Peter Aggleton

Naked on the Internet: Hookups, Downloads, and Cashing in on Internet Sexploration by: Audacia Ray

Negotiating Sex Work: Unintended Consequences of Policy and Activism by: Carisa R. Showden

Playing the Whore: The Work of Sex Work by: Melissa Gira Grant

Policing Pleasure: Sex Work, Policy, and the State in Global Perspective by: Susan Dewey

Prostitution and Feminism: Towards a Politics of Feeling by: Maggie O’Neill

Prostitution and Sex Work by: Melissa Hope Ditmore

Selling Sex: A Hidden History of Prostitution by: Raelene Frances

Selling Sex: Experience, Advocacy, and Research on Sex Work in Canada

Sex at the Margins: Migration, Labour Markets and the Rescue Industry by: Laura Maria Agustin

Sex For Sale: Prostitution, Pornography, and the Sex Industry by: Ronald Weitzer

Sex Slaves and Discourse Masters: The Construction of Trafficking by: Jo Doezema

Sex Work and Sex Workers

Sex Work Matters: Exploring Money, Power and Intimacy in the Sex Industry by: Melissa Hope Dittmore

Sex Work On The Streets by: Neil McKeganey and Marina Barnard

Sex Work Politics: From Protest to Service Provision by: Samantha Majic

Sex Work: Rethinking the Job, Respecting the Workers by: Colette Parent, Chris Bruckert and Patrice Corriveau

Sex Work: Writings By Women In The Sex Industry by: Frederique Delacoste

Sex Workers Unite: A History of the Movement from Stonewall to SlutWalk by: Malinda Chateauvert

Strip Club: Gender, Power, and Sex Work by: Kim Price Glynn and Charles Andrain

Taking the crime out of sex work: New Zealand sex workers’ fight for decriminalisation

Temporarily Yours: Intimacy, Authenticity, and the Commerce of Sex by: Elizabeth Bernstein

The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure

The Prostitution Prism by: Gail Pheterson

The State of Sex: Tourism, Sex and Sin in the New American Heartland by: Barbara G. Bents, Crystal A. Jackson and Kathryn Hausbeck

The Story of Jane Doe: a Book About Rape by: Jane Doe

Times Square Red, Times Square Blue by: Samuel R. Delany

Trafficking and Prostitution Reconsidered: New Perspectives on Migration, Sex Work, and Human Rights

Vindication Rights Of Whores by: Gail Pheterson

Whores and Other Feminists by: Jill Nagel

Working Sex: Sex Workers Write About a Changing Industry

TELEVISION SHOWS

Masters of Sex

Deadwood

American Horror Story: Freak Show x review

Firefly

The Playboy Club

The Client List

Secret Diary of a Callgirl

Satisfaction

Hung

Dollhouse

Underbelly The Golden Mile x summary x watch season one

DOCUMENTARIES

Daddies Date Babies

9 to 5 days in porn

American Courtesans

Aroused

Bettie Page Reveals All

Client 9

Live Nude Girls Unite!

Hookers at the Point

Mutantes: Punk Porn Feminism

Paris is Burning

Screaming Queens

Whore’s Glory

Buying Sex

Stripped

Bangladesh: Brothel Justice

Meet the Fokkens

The Great Happiness Space

Scarlet Road

MOVIES

Working Girls

Leaving Las Vegas

My Akward Sexual Adventure

Chloe

Milk Money

Welcome to the Rileys

Gypsy

Showgirls

Mighty Aphrodite

Emotional Truth

Remedy

Magic Mike

Lovelace

Lost Highway

Klute

Inland Empire

The Frozen Ground

Afternoon Delight

Elles

Pretty Woman

Closer

The Best Little Whore House in Texas

Memoirs of a Geisha

Priceless

Baise Moi

Blaze

The Player’s Club

Nathalie

Lap Dance

Breakfast at Tiffany’s

Student Services

The Girlfriend Experience

From the Head

The Center of the World

This Girl’s Life

The Pornographer

Flashdance

The Babysitters

Sweet Charity

Sleeping Beauty

Black Girl in Paris

Stripteaseh

Moulin Rouge!

Les Miserables non-musical and musical

Zombie Strippers

For a Good Time Call

Byzantium

Call Me: the Rise and Fall Heidi Faleiss

Dancing at the Blue Iguana

The Heart Is Deceitful Above All Things

Mysterious Skin

The Machinist

The Wrestler

Sin City

Sucker Punch

Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me

House of Pleasures

I Know Who Killed Me

Someone seriously needs to appreciate the effort, the days that it took for me to find and organize all this information into one place, don’t be shy show me the love.

I AM STILL LOOKING FOR FANFICTION WITH A SEX WORKER AS THE MAIN CHARACTER AS WELL AS ZINES! IF YOU HAVE KNOW OF EITHER PLEASE GIVE ME THE LINK.

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Craigslist Masterpost Pt. 3

1. The “It” Girl (Insert City Here) 

If you’re looking for an intelligent, witty and confident woman that turns heads whether she’s in a t-shirt to a little black dress then please email me. I love to make life light, happy & full of fun! I believe I am truly the most graceful, giving, loyal, beautifully maintained, intoxicating woman you’ll ever meet.

2. Let’s Create Memories (Insert City Here)

I enjoy intelligent, mind stimulating conversations but I also have a great sense of humor and would love to be the one to help take your mind off of your worries,stresses and career once in a while. I would sincerely appreciate the support and mentor ship from a genuine, caring and intelligent person that want’s to see me succeed while we enjoy our times together. If you are looking to spoil, look no further. I’m looking for a gentleman whose company I can equally relish for a night out on the town or a relaxing evening in, I’m an educated young woman who believes in the importance of compelling conversation. Mutual respect is a must in all aspects of life, and lust for life is a necessity, too.

3. Pretty Woman (Insert City Here)

I have been described as an exotic indulgence. I will always welcome you with a warm, inviting smile along with a bubbly personality.

 I am seeking a gentleman who is confident, sweet and must smell and look nice. You must know how to treat a lady.

Please email me if you’re interested in learning more. I promise it will always be a treat when we meet.

4. Table For Two (Insert City Here)

I hope you are having a great day. 

Allow me to tell you what I am looking for on here. Seeking a gentleman who doesn’t mind taking a cute young lady out to lunch. Also, someone who doesn’t mind having fun and spoiling them appropriately. 

5. A Romantic Evening (Insert City Here)

My playful personality will entertain and seduce you, and entice you to spend every minute in a dreamlike ecstasy.

 I adore well mannered and respectful men who can appreciate an endearing and attentive woman. I have a pleasant and loving personality, and love to use my positive energy to light up someone’s day. 

I am very compassionate and caring. I am very intelligent and love to expand my mind and learn new things. I enjoy a nice stimulating conversation while drinking wine. I am very passionate and live in the moment. 

6. All-American Beauty (Insert City Here)

I am searching for a long-term financial commitment with a gentleman man who wants to enjoy great times with a beautiful woman. I would love to find someone who likes to enjoy life the way I do. Someone who isn’t overbearing or jealous. Most importantly, someone who is secure enough in themselves not to feel challenged by my ambition. I want someone who can handle my hectic schedule during the week, but can still find time to see me.

7. The Kept Woman Experience (Insert City Here)

Sexy, sassy, classy, vibrant, beauty is seeking a gentleman who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to get it. On the other hand, I like spa treatments, getting my hair done, vacations, I want to be well kept. If you are interested then please email me.

8. Merlot & Company (Insert City Here) 

Are you too busy for a relationship? Don’t have time for traditional dating? 

 I am nice, intelligent, and love to laugh. My ideal match would be someone thoughtful, playful, energetic and likes to have a great time. A lady like me understands.

9. Rendezvous (Insert City Here) 

I love gentlemen who are well off but yet they are able to stay humble. As of right now I’m looking for someone to spend a really good time with. I love shopping, going to concerts I’m also available for traveling. If you are looking for a great beautiful charming woman to spend time with and pamper, then trust me I’m the one. 

10.  It’s Just Dinner (Insert City Here) 

I want to be treated with the utmost respect and will make sure that this is reciprocated. I would love to be a companion and travel the world. Most importantly, I want to have fun and try new adventures! I am very spontaneous! Our adventure awaits!

Good luck and have fun posting. Remember, always meet this gentleman in a public setting. 

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Craigslist Masterpost Part 2

1. Award Winning Beauty (Insert City Here)

Things I love: A stimulating conversation, beaches, indulging in gourmet cuisines, traveling, and spontaneous adventures. I also enjoy the theater, opera, and ballet.

I am articulate, well traveled, and well spoken. I enjoy trying new things, architecture, fine dining, wine tastings, social activities/events/charities, entertaining and yachting.

2. I Know What I Want (Insert City Here)

I am seeking a companion/friend and see where it would lead. Let’s take a 3 day trip to Vegas and stay at The Bellagio or go to Key West, Florida and enjoy a margarita under a Tiki hut. How about somewhere romantic like Paris? I love The Italian setting of a 5 star restaurant which includes a very impressive wine collection and succulent dishes. The world is our playground. At the end of the day, I would like to be your little princess.

3. Tired Of The Sun, Let’s Make It Rain ;) (Insert City Here)

My ideal sponsor would be respectful, intelligent, humorous, charming, good personal hygiene. We would be able to enlighten one another, have interesting conversations, enjoy the same pleasures and entertainment.

I would like to keep things light and simple because I know you have a hectic and busy schedule, but if things progress into something wonderful..I am always willing to compromise.

4. A Sweet Escape (Insert City Here)

I’m a very passionate individual with a zest for life. I want to make long lasting connections with intelligent and successful people. I enjoy learning and I consistently pursue intellectual growth. At this time, I am seeking a gentleman who is more than willing to help me grow as better individual and I would be more than happy to allow him to help me with my career goals.

If you are looking for a beautiful woman inside and out, then I look forward to meeting you in the future. Remember, life isn’t measured by how many breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away.

5. Renaissance Man (Insert City Here)

Don’t open the bottle of champagne just yet. Just wait. Aren’t you missing something? No, I’m not talking about the appetizers or the main dish. You are missing, me. I am seeking a gentleman that is distinguished and mature. If you are into suits, scotch, and traveling spontaneously, then you have met your match.

If you need any help, please message me. Until then, good luck :)

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Academy Masterlist

For women who want to manipulate, steal, sleep, and lie their way to the top by @luxury-liar

Updated March 2018

General - basic advice

Aesthethic - to treat the eye and spark whimsy

Icons - patron saints of vice

Calendar - who, what, and when

Networking - how to meet the people you should

Etiquette - stand tall, deport well, use the correct fork

Culture - the smartest girl in the room

Money - cash is king

Business - running your enterprise

Sexwork - fucking for profit

Branding - control your public image

Crime - theft, control, violence. only when necessary of course

Backstory - rewrite your autobiography

Disguises - could be useful

Manipulation - selling honey to bees

Beauty - pretty girls rule the world

Fashion - dress to impress

Home - your castle

Travel - where to go, how to get there, what to do

Health - outlive them all

Fitness - a good body is the best revenge

Self-Defense - take no shit

Sex - everything is about sex, except sex. sex is about power.

Inspiration - plans, schemes, and dreams

Humor - take time to laugh

Resources -library of resources

Miscellany - everything else

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SUGAR BABY, SPOILED GIRLFRIEND, TROPHY WIFE BOOKS

Too Pretty to Pay Bills: Keys to Gold Digging Success: Tips on How to have the life you deserve as a woman! Style: The Modern Lady’s Guide to Elegance and Charm Ho Tactics: How to MindF**k A Man into Spending, Spoiling, and Sponsoring The Art of Seduction

Solving Single: How to Get the Ring, Not the Run Around

Men Don’t Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer 

The Seduction Mystique: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Loving and Marrying the Right Man How to Marry the Rich 

The Sugar Daddy Formula: A Sugar Baby’s Ultimate Guide to Finding a Wealthy Sugar Daddy

Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know If You Want to be A Sugar Baby 

A Gold Diggers Guide

How to Meet the Rich: For Business, Friendship, or Romance

The Power of the Pussy - How To Get What You Want From Men: Love, Respect, Commitment and More!

Why Men Marry Bitches

Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl—A Woman’s Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship 

How to Marry Money 

Smart Girls Marry Money: How Women Have Been Duped Into the Romantic Dream–And How They’re Paying For It 

Smart Women Finish Rich: 9 Steps to Achieving Financial Security and Funding Your Dreams   Your Inner Fox: Unleashing the Elegance Within 

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When I die, take my ashes and throw it in white people’s eyes

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YKWTFGO 🗣

“You know wtf going on” 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

So I’ve been out of the bowl for about a month. Just relaxing and enjoying a little peace. Sometimes we need that or this shit will drive you crazy 🤷🏾‍♀️🤪 Bat shit crazy!

Decided to log back into my dating sites and see what’s shakin’ in Splenda land. 🙄 Same ole, same ole I see. Matched with a guy that just wanted to ask me questions about a few key words I used in my profile. On tinder I’m a bit more lax with the words I use. I just hate it when these guys KNOW wtf I mean and still try to ask questions. I play right along with their goofy asses. *check this out*

Bahahaha 😈🤣😂🤣 Turn them tables sis! Just responded in a real nonchalant manner. For some reason these guys “claim” to want a relationship but get hooked/turned on when you “care-less”. Wait on his response…

Talking bout he’s not looking for a sb, but approaching a woman that CLEARLY stated she wanted someone generous. 😩😂😂 Ok…As you can see I came at his ass again letting him know it’s my way or the highway 🤷🏾‍♀️ Lets see if he’s still interested 🤔

“…well said” I know like Hell it was! The truth is ALWAYS well said. Don’t let these men make you feel like what you want you don’t deserve. I’m seeking a certain kind of man, if you can’t provide what I’m seeking, “on to the next”. It’s a few billion of them in this world, don’t let one detour you. Hold your ground!

“No wet ass & dry bank accounts sis”

💋 Sugary Vixen