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path-forbidden · 5 hours
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I feel this is often just a desire to be witnessed that runs into an expectation of dismissal, and tries to protect itself accordingly. All the things you do display a kind of emotional truth, if nothing else. Presenting that as an argument gives the emotional truth a hard shell, and it veils what you're actually asking for, which might be as shallow as tolerance or as deep as comfort.
Theres a common argument that goes like "how can you say the threat I fear isn't real, look at all the things I do to protect myself from it!" And it's not clear how you even counter it. Except just saying "I think you are bad at assessing risk"
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path-forbidden · 6 hours
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Insane to me that the UK government is slowly trying to legislate trans people out of existence and I have not seen a single person talk about it
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path-forbidden · 6 hours
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Insane to me that the UK government is slowly trying to legislate trans people out of existence and I have not seen a single person talk about it
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path-forbidden · 1 day
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path-forbidden · 1 day
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The Yassification of ghouls in fallout
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path-forbidden · 2 days
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Hi I'm a trans man who's been homeless over a year (+left an abusive relationship a few months ago). I desperately need help, please (including any advice, especially for $/housing).
I've been having a lot of trouble finding work. My IDs are also all messed up, and my bank is in another state. I have a case manager helping me sort things out, but there are a lot of dead ends.
I currently have a room for the weekend (Fri afternoon to the morning of Mon May 6). I stayed outside last night, + have been increasingly.
I really need help extending the room, as well as help for food + hygiene supplies, please. Appreciate everything, and anything. Thank you!! Sorry to beg eternally.
paypal.me/srlj2
venmo.com/samrljames
cash.app/$samrljames
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path-forbidden · 2 days
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finally torrent
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path-forbidden · 3 days
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https://goodlawproject.org/crowdfunder/nhs-cyp-guidance/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaadkVMoRUHpcFptnjlifnc1xJ0i7YGVi78tfv2vEXVaVIQDPTEp1-ozNcY_aem_AfqNP9xEERFn6GRCZCIP7B2RriLi8ZN7pVAFzmNwdvqIXW0nmc1mTe5Hq0UV3xC6VPWdYe1x64wHk7O6-HPOhIdf
Please share, tag someone who could bring this to a lot of people, and post to other platforms. Not originally mine, idk who is the source of the screenshots.
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In thick white text on black background-> NHS ENGLAND ARE PLANNING A HONEYPOT WHERE THEY SEND ALL KIDS ON GIDS WAITLIST TO CAHMS TO HAVE THEM BE ASKED IF THEY ARE TAKING BLOCKERS/HRT VIA PRIVATE OR DIY ROUTES
Text is broken and in the middle is an excerpt from a leaked nhs document-> a) For medication sourced directly (e.g via the internet), explain the increased risks of harm due to the unregulated nature of these medicines/products. These may include the use of counterfeit chemicals, unsafe/unknown ancilliary ingredients or variability of potency etc. More information can be found here (link to nhs website). // b) Do not initiate or continue prescribing puberty surpressing hormones or gender affirming hormones. The General Medical Council's guidance to medical professionals on 'bridging prescriptions (a course of endocrine intervention managed by a healthcare professional outside of the specialised gender service while an individual is waiting to be seen) does not apply to care offered to young people under 18 years of age. // c) If the child/young person or their carer disregards your advice and you consider that this puts the child/young person at increased risk, then a safeguarding referral might also be appropriate in line with standard safeguarding approaches. Discuss with your line manager and your organization's safeguarding team.
Thick white text on black background continues-> ANY WHO SAYS YES AND DO NOT DESIST FROM DOING SO WILL BE THREATENED WITH SAFEGUARDING REFERRAL (TAKEN INTO STATE CARE)
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In black text on white background, from the news article linked above-> It seems to us - and to those inside the NHS who have leaked the document to us - that what purports to be an "assessment" in fact an exercise in bringing very significant pressure to bear on trans youth and their families to cease private treatment, backed up with a threat of a safeguarding referral to social services if they do not. // We are concerned about what appears to be a misleading exercise in gathering data on which trans youth are obtaining private treatment from abroad, for the purposes of seeking to cause or compel them to stop treatment.
In the same thick white text on black background as previous image-> So an internal NHS document has been leaked basically asking trans kids on excruciatingly ling waiting lists to come to a 'mental health assessment' where the NHS will harvest their personal information & threaten their families with a social services referral if they're found to be on private blockers/hormones & refuse to come off them. // This country is for dogs i swear.
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path-forbidden · 4 days
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As protests start ramping up and violence escalates please remember:
DO NOT PUT MILK IN YOUR EYES FOR PEPPER SPRAY OR TEAR GAS.
It can and will cause infection due to bacteria. Flush with water, distilled if possible, and never EVER wear contact lenses to protests where there may be police retaliation.
Please reblog. It may save someone's sight.
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path-forbidden · 5 days
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about to get delivery i can't afford cause the alternatives are lying in bed all night in pain & unfed or aggravating all my injuries again cooking. tip me $5 before tumblr kills tipping forever out of spite?
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path-forbidden · 5 days
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Please help Little Puss Press in recovering from the collapse of their distributor earlier this year, and support the future of trans literature
Here is the kickstarter; for some reason, Tumblr won't allow a link card
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path-forbidden · 6 days
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I like the Cyndi Lauper version of this a lot, her voice in the chorus has incredible heart and her cadence is really interesting. Her version's a slow buildup of passion, the sense of obsession is a background hum, it's more internal. Roy's is like an avowal with that beat, it's intoxicated, it has this breathless momentum that to me utilizes the lyrics better. In her version, "is that alright?" is not as important. In Roy's, it's an essential line; it keeps this obsession anchored in love, where it could sound creepy. The guy drove all night and it's you he worries about. I think he repeats the line because he's aware of that aspect.
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path-forbidden · 6 days
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it is time for one of my rare postings of music. today is one of the all-time love songs for me, the chorus goes straight thru me
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path-forbidden · 6 days
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Spotted in the subway smashing a dirty floor pizza with my rock
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path-forbidden · 6 days
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path-forbidden · 6 days
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Really funny and strange moment when a guy in a discord was talking about punching cinderblocks as a kid with rage issues, and someone said it's funny people are so different, there's no way [path-forbidden]'s ever done anything like that. Reminded me of my old doctor assuring me she knew I'd never be violent while I was thinking about forearm choking her. Is it just the white woman experience, or does my voice radiate nonviolence
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path-forbidden · 6 days
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Like I really do want to leave room for complex identities, a lot of us have shifting and zigzagging relationships to gender when social context and embodiment change. But a little sensitivity toward us would really go a long way here.
I'll be honest man, the undercurrent of trans guys etc wanting to be us and wield our perceived authority and perceived positive visibility is a little too much right now. See: the recent push to invent a trans man counterpart to transmisogyny to turn the whole idea into a he said/she said. If you wanna say something like "transmasc woman", I get you, but if you're gonna go around straight calling yourself a "trans woman", that is going to raise my hackles.
I have seen way too much extreme bad faith in that area. That phrase is currently most of what we have to describe a particular relationship to systems of power. "Transfem" being most the rest, and god knows I've seen that one used too. Really think in the modern day you can find some new language for this one.
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