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being a self shipper uncomfortable with doubles/sharing fucking sucks. people are so fucking nasty and for what

people in the self ship community that are okay with doubles 9 times out of 10 make you feel bad for not being okay with it

and people outside of the community look at you like youre a freak and they try to shit out "ohh gatekeeping gatekeeping"

like many people dont understand why some self shippers dont like sharing nor do they take the time to understand.

many self shippers dont just self ship with a character bcus "oh attractive ooh theyre my type" but because they have a deep personal and spiritual bond with said character, that character brings them a wave of comfort, safety, and serenity better that anything in reality can. seeing someone else love up on them and be like "omg i feel the same" when you gush about them literally feels like someone saying that about your ACTUAL partner. and it hurts so fucking much.

non sharing self shippers arent trying to gatekeep a character, they arent trying to stop others from enjoying/self shipping with them, they just want people to refrain from doing it around them.

like dude im not some twisted childish bitch im just trying to avoid distress and a complete breakdown. thx.

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The amount of absolute chadness people have when they MARRY their F/Os is SO FUCKING RAW!!!! YOU LOVE THAT CHARACTER SO MUCH!!!! AND THEY LOVE YOUUU!!!!

(Pr*sh*ppers/C*msh*ppers STAY AWAY FROM ME)

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PROMO TIME!!!

Hello! My name is Lyra, I use She/He/They pronouns, I've been self shipping for years!! :D

I mostly Self Ship with On.e Pi.ece characters

#The Marines!? - Kiz.aru

#Swan Lake - Bo.n Cla.y

#The Emperor - Iv.ankov

#Mr Roboto - Kuma

#Isle unto thyself - Ji.nbei

#Like a Phoenix - Marco

#Creepy Crawlies - Gecko

#Til Death do us part - Br.ook

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so what if i changed my entire account to one piece because im sillyyy

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Your F/O who is hated or generally bashed in their source material/fandom is forever amazed at your strength to wade through the fog and see them in a different light. Perhaps they did something deserving of it, or not- it doesn't matter to you. You saw them and you KNEW that they were someone worth loving in whatever way you do.

In some way, you're reminding them to love themselves, through the love you give them.

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returning promo...

(commissoned art above by qaliidaseok on twitter!)

🕷️ you can call me sharky, i'm 22, she/her and i would be extremely blessed to have the privilege of being your miguel mutual!

🕷️ miguel o'hara is my fictional soulmate and only romantic f/o. we have been together since 4/06/23, he is shipped with my spidersona anna, and their ship name is widowfang. i am extremely uncomfortable sharing him unfortunately :(

🕷️ i am committed to a project at the moment to draw miguel every day until the btsv movie releases! the only thing that could make me miss a day is if i died, that's how serious i am.

🕷️ i am very very anxious in who i follow back atm, due to anxiety about seeing doubles. if you are a safe blog in this regard, i would love to be mutuals. nonetheless, i hope to grow and make some new friends!

(general dni, no proship, etc.)

miggywife.carrd.co

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be your f/o's gay awakening

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selfshippers we need to be making more 'marysue' selfinserts. im talking crazy powers im talking loud designs im talking having at least 8 canon characters in love with them. im talking crazy backstory im talking canon-breaking storylines im talking earth shattering plot twist catalysts. like. seriously who is going to stop you the f/o police? yeah ok bud try me ill make them one of my unrequited lovers too.

pr*ship c*mship etc dni.

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promo post

i’m miah! i’m in my twenties, my pronouns are he/him, and i’m a hopeless/hopeful romantic. i’m nervously getting into the selfship community. hi.

things to note

some of my ships are alterous, some romantic, and some platonic. check my carrd for the status of each!

my current main f/os are oswald cobblepot (who i cherish with my whole heart and who is a big comfort to me!!), barbara kean, and ed nygma from gotham, as well as missy from doctor who. i’m comfy sharing all f/os :)

here’s my carrd. please read the byf!

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Imagine your villain F/O using their weapon of choice to tilt your chin up so that you look them in the eye.

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Marry your f/o (if you haven't already)‼️

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I haven't made self ship art in a while...

So here have some angst/lore!

❤Taglist;

(@facadesinternalveil @fading-bisexual-queen-milkshake @bloodsweatandpotato @bloomingbodies @ava-ships @toasty-self-shipping @selfshippinglover @fluffyselfships)

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💕Bugsnax Headcanons💕

☆How do they show affection

Wiggle shows her affection with music (obviously). Writing songs to show her love or appreciation towards you.

Gramble shows his affestion by making others gifts! Like sweaters, hats, mittens, etc. Anything he can knit for you!

Chandlo shows his affection is big bear hugs! If you needed comfort, he's the guy for the job!

Snorpy shows his affection through helping others with little things like fixing some items that they didn't notice. He rarely gives hugs but is still learning from Chandlo.

It's hard for Floofty to show affection, but when they do, it's very sweet. Either leaving small gifts on your table, giving you small compliments, or a simple pat on the back. Floofty's like a cat.

Shelda shows her affection through comforting words and wisdom if you're feeling down. Sometimes, she makes you a flower crown.

Wambus shows his affection just like Shelda. Giving encouraging words and probably a hug from time to time. Even gifting you some sauces everyday.

Triffany shows her affection by spending time with you a lot. When she starts rambling, meaning she's more comfortable around you.

Beffica shows her affection by gossiping and gifting you things. She is comfortable talking to you about stuff and giving you her time. She would give you cute gifts like photos, keychains, etc.

Cromdo is a bit reluctant to show affection, but when he does, he tries his best. Acting like he's bothered to do things for you, but does it anyway to show he cares. Even giving you half prices if he likes you enough.

Filbo shows his affection in so many ways. Hugs, gifts, quality time, helping you, etc. Anything to see a smile on your face.

Lizbert shows her affection with big hugs and helping you with difficult stuff. Either with carrying heavy stuff or discussing how you feel.

Eggabell shows her affection by spending time with you and watching your health. She wants you in the best shape of health and would scold you if you do something dangerous. She only does that because she cares.

Clumby rarely shows her affection. Always frowning, glaring at others, or yelling. But when she does open up and show her affection is by small gift giving. She hates talking about how she feels, so she gives small gifts.

Alegander shows his affection through making you coffee or tea before chatting about your favorite stuff. He would want to show he loves giving his time and learning more about you... even sometimes spying on you.

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how it feels to see That One Ship that has your f/o in it

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your f/o(s) know you enough to sense when you’re beginning to get upset, when you’re starting to grow anxious, sleepy, frustrated...

and when that happens, they’re more than happy to pull you away from whatever is causing you distress — could be a quiet reminder for a quick break, gentle tug on your sleeve, or (if you’re especially stubborn) them physically picking you up to take you somewhere else.

they’d be more than happy to envelop you in a warm hug while sweetly whispering words of comfort in your ear. you can listen to them awkwardly laughing at themselves when they crack a lame joke in order to try and cheer you up, or hum you a sweet tune to lull you to sleep in their arms for much needed rest.

they might suggest some new activities to get your mind off things, or just sit down with you in order to discuss a solution for whatever issues you may be having.

whatever it is you might need at the moment? they’re more than happy to provide, so long as it makes you feel better.

BANNER DESCRIBED IN ALT. TEXT

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f/o more dark-skinned characters without patting yourself on the back for it btw