peaches1954

[peaches1954]

[peaches1954]

I love the dichotomy of this kink.

It can be so soft and yet so dark, depending on your desires in the moment. It's okay to need this, you know? It's okay to crave that sense of peace that being so childish brings you. It's okay to need your Daddy to make all your decisions for you while you take a break from having all those complicated big girl thoughts. You don't always have to be in charge, or on top of things, or the one everyone turns to when things get hard. It's okay to lean on another, someone you love and who loves you in return, in a way only he can.

It doesn't make you bad, or disgusting, or stupid, or unwell. Wearing diapers, playing with baby toys, these things don't harm anyone. You and your caregiver are creating a safe space for the both of you, where each of you can have your needs met. You get the peace of being truly taken care of, while your Daddy is rewarded with the certainty of guidance, with the calming power of having that control in his hands. It's okay for both of you to need it, even when the rest of the world doesn't understand. Because in that space you two have created, you are just as you need to be, and no one expects anything more or less than exactly what you are able to give.

And yet, at the same time, there is an undercurrent to this kink, something deeper and darker for you to tap into if you want. You can let the childishness consume you. You can bask in the humiliating feeling of behaving this way, even when you're supposed to be something else. An adult, a partner, and yet here you are, behaving like an infant and going potty all over yourself just so your caregiver can clean up after you. If you choose to see it as perversion, that is what it will be. You are humiliating yourself, a little fawn becoming prey for your Daddy to take advantage of.

He is your predator on the prowl, gently luring you into a helpless state where you can't even process your own thoughts, and you are completely at his mercy. He'll do to you anything he pleases, and you'll do nothing to stop him, because you're just a mindless little girl who wants nothing more than to please her Father. You are perverted, disgusting, stupid, unbecoming of what an adult woman should be in society. And he is a creep, a corrupt man teaching his little girl how to be corrupt just like him.

And that's all okay. All of it, both the soft and hard, the peaceful and terrifying, are okay in the space between you two. You set the pace, control the rhythm. Each of you is a note, and together you are a melody. The electricity between you is jazz, freeform and improvised from one moment to the next, creating a sense of ecstasy that only those willing to listen are able to experience.

And that is beautiful. Kink is beautiful. The soft reassuring comfort of regression is beautiful, as is the overwhelming weight of darkness bearing down on you. You can have both, in any capacity you want. You can have as little or as much of one or the other as the two of you have negotiated. It is an agreement between the two of you, or more. Kink is consent. Kink is empathy. Kink is people learning to speak their own same language, and when you are in true harmony, you can take that language and form beautiful sentences and paragraphs as a testament to what is between you. _

This is fantasy for consenting adults.

[peaches1954]

"Wow, you're really into that?"

No. I'm lying for attention. Of fucking course I'm into that, I'm not on tumblr for the fucking good of my health.

[peaches1954]

Reblog if you want kinky anons

[peaches1954]

Pullups are such a wonderful in-between state of potty training. Because it's like, clearly you need some form of protection. You just can't control yourself and still have little "accidents," so you can't be trusted in big girl panties. But there's still some hope of you learning and figuring it out, so we haven't fully stepped you back down into diapers yet, even if it's constantly a question of whether you're even ready to try potty training at all.

So we keep you in pullups, "just in case," even though we know you're going to wind up using them more often than not. And they can hold one or maybe two wettings of course, but beyond that? If you go potty in them you might as well be peeing your pants. It's the best of both worlds. I get to see the embarrassment in your eyes of knowing you need protection because you just can't hold it, and also watch as the pee spreads throughout your pants, turning the fabric on your inner legs dark. Which of course just means I get to tease you for making such a mess all over yourself and tell you how this means maybe you aren't ready for pullups after all.

And messing in pullups is something else entirely. If you're a baby still in diapers, it's almost expected that you aren't potty trained whatsoever. So if you have a messy accident, it's not like anyone expected anything more from you. You're just a baby, after all. But if you're in pullups? Well clearly you must be beyond that level of potty training. You're a big enough kiddo that you can be trusted to at least make it to the potty for that, can't you? And when you prove to us that you can't, when you squat down and fill your pullups like the little toddler you are, that just makes it all the better, all the blushier. _

This post is fantasy for consenting adults.

[peaches1954]

i love the word "accident"

I had a little accident

I had ... a ... kind of a ... big accident

don't rub there anymore, I'm gonna have an accident ...!

I went accident on the bed :(

not sure if I little-girl accident or big-girl accident

do you wanna go accident on me daddy O~O

I accident in my pull-up ...

... so much that my pull-up accident too ~_~

[peaches1954]

The Little-Melting Language of Forced Regression

No, no, baby. Mommy/Daddy decides.

I think somebody needs mommy or daddy’s help. Can you say it for me? use your big-girl/big-boy words? 

Well I don’t know about you, but it sure sounds to me like you’re saying “I need spankies” when you say that, prince/princess. 

We know you’re a baby, don’t we. Can you say it? Come on, sweety. Tell me you’re my little baby.

Oh, you think you’re too big, now? You think you get to make the rules, even though you’re a tiny li’l baby.

It sure sounds like you want to ask my permission…

You belong right here *pats their lap*

Say, “Please mommy/daddy”. I want to hear you ask nicely

Can I hear you say, “Please?”

Aww, it’s like you think you’re in charge.

I love it when you get all big and serious and adult. It just makes it cuter for me to see your little baby self, the true baby we both know you really are. 

If you keep arguing, we’re going to need to get a strap to hold your paci in place…

Oh, my sweet precious baby. You know that I will make the right decision for you. Because I know best!

Oh little one, I just love it when you play pretend, and act like a grownup!

That wasn’t a question, little one. That was an instruction. 

Do I need to use my serious Mommy/Daddy voice? Hmm?

For those littles into forced regression…these key phrases or wordings will make them MELT!

[peaches1954]

🎀 since I couldn't find a caregiver question game, I've decided to make my own with (a lot of) help from a little monkey 🐵🐒🐵 and here it is 🎀

[peaches1954]

Wardrobe malfunction

What’s wrong baby why are you fussing so much just before we are going on? What do you mean your dress isn’t long enough. We have been over this before - I know you don’t like how short your dresses are however it’s not your choice how or what you wear. That’s an adults decision to choose what you wear each and every day.

I know you don’t like the fact that your dress is very short and every time you bend forward or have to kneel down your nappy is very visibly on show but that shouldn’t worry you. Your not gonna be trusted to wear big girl panties either that’s not an option as you always end up ruining them and making a mess of them every time we try giving you a chance at being a grown up - Your a baby now and baby’s wear nappy’s and use them for there intended purposes

I wouldn’t worry about what everyone else says, pay no attention to the comments of passing people or the snide remarks and laughs of those pretty girls over there - there right to make fun of you. You’ll just have to learn to accept that until you can stop messing yourself like a helpless immature toddler and no before you ask; I’m not taking you into the bathroom either while we’re out. The grown ups can as there mature adults but if you have to go then your gonna have go in your pants like the helpless pathetic mess that you are.

Maybe I’ll give you another chance to prove your a big girl sometime however that’s a long time off at the moment.

[peaches1954]

Educational post!

Sadly there are a lot of creeps on here that have no kink experience and aren’t Doms or Daddy’s. They’re just abusive morons praying on inexperienced girls that don’t know any better.

A real daddy won’t demand you call him daddy after 2 mins.

He won’t demand nudes and say you’re not a real sub if you don’t do as I say.

A real daddy will get to know you, respect your limits and ask what you’re ok with and take it slow.

Please reblog and help share this.

[peaches1954]

5 Tips for Vetting a Dom

Here are some tips I came up with after reflecting on years of dating shitty men (& a few good ones). Some of these apply to dating in general, even outside of a D/s dynamic, & could also apply to all genders.

Notice how much interest he shows in getting to know you. This is a narcissist test as much as it is a misogynist test. Does he tell endless stories about himself and ask few questions about you? Does he make assumptions about you based on your gender or kink identity? Nope, next!

Notice if he has an interest in learning. You don't need someone with a ton of experience in bdsm. It's more important that they're willing to learn & change. In fact, if he thinks he has nothing to learn because he's so experienced, that's not a good sign. Every D/s dynamic is different, so having experience doesn't mean he'll know the best way to be a Dom for you. If he's open to new perspectives from others in the community (and open to learning about your specific preferences), that's a good sign!

Notice how he responds to criticism. Does he apologize & own up to his mistakes or does he make excuses & defend himself when he does something that offends or hurts you? Even an apology says a lot - is he sorry for how it affected you or just sorry because it's "not like him" or makes him look bad?

Notice if he expects deference before you've consented to submitting to him. This one might be a personal preference, but I find it off-putting when a guy expects to be called Sir by every sub who crosses his path. If you want someone fully committed to you (and I know not everyone is into monogamy), then wait for a Dom who sees those labels as sacred & earned.

Figure out if his idea of D/s aligns with yours. One of the most important aspects of this is how much you both want D/s in your lives. It could be from just in the bedroom to 24/7 or anywhere in between. Don't succumb to pressure or change your preferences for anyone! There will be someone who wants what you want out of D/s and bdsm.

[peaches1954]

Hi there! I was wondering if you could give me your thoughts. I dabbled in Dom/sub a bit in previous relationships and liked it. I discovered DDlg/ABDL and found I loved it too. However the DDlg/ABDL I’ve never done in real life with a partner…it’s always on my own. I worry that I might have built the fantasy up too much. And that when I do finally get to have that in real life experience, it will be a let down.

Thank you for reaching out, sugar pea! You're really hitting Papa with the difficult asks today, huh?

Something that all of us online kinksters really have to understand is that what we do, see and interact with online is always going to be different then what we do in real life.

Is it fun to imagine being abducted by Papa and living for months as his itty-bitty baby in his nursery until you lose your ability to function as an adult? Of course!

Is that something that would ever be fun, or even possible, in reality? Unfortunately, no.

If you want to engage in abdl and cg/l play in real life, you really need to keep in mind that it is going to be substantively different than you imagine it.

That doesn't make it a bad thing though!

From Papa's point of view, if you want to have a great experience, treat it like any other scene you would participate in. Talk about it with your partner(s) ahead of time. Set rules and boundaries for what is and is not acceptable. Be communicative during it. And remember to remain flexible if something just doesn't feel right!

There is never shame in changing a scene, stopping a scene, or setting a new boundary if something feels wrong!

Also, remember, everything gets better with practice. Just because it might be awkward or not perfect the first time (it probably will be at least a little) doesn't mean it won't get better.

I really hope this advice help. Just remember to take things slow, communicate, and, of course, stay safe!

[peaches1954]

having moral qualms about my ridiculous fetish is so fucking silly actually. like oh god im such a sick freak….surely everyone would hunt me down in the streets for being an evil pervert if they could see into my twisted mind….. no. no one must ever learn of my dark, dark secret. which is that i like playing toys and pretend.

[peaches1954]

Then came the realization that it was not going to end.

“So, you’re my new little girl,” he said, moving closer, my body recoiling from the attention. “You’re my little baby girl now. And you need a diaper.”

I watched him, a silent scream building in my throat. I was so small, I was so vulnerable. He held a diaper in his hands, a thing that had been so far, removed from my life, now taking up a prominent space in it. “Малышка” (Baby) he whispered, and I knew that he would never call me by my real name. It was all so much, all so overwhelming.

I could feel the soft, familiar padding and the fabric stretched between my legs, a constant reminder that I was no longer in control, and in this world, there were no rules, there was nothing that could protect me from what was coming. "I was only going to stay for a few months.” I thought. But what was I doing now?

My heart pounded in my chest, as a Russian phrase came out of my lips. “Я… не… понимаю” (I… don’t… understand). I was so scared, that I could only muster those basic words. He could not understand, but he seemed to understand. Then he held my hand and I was a doll, a pretty, silly little thing for him to play with. My new home, was my prison.

[peaches1954]

How to regress/baby me!

Just DO it! It's all about control

If you’re regressing me, don’t check; do.

Don’t ask me about my diaper, check it.

Don’t ask if I want my paci; force it in my mouth.

Don’t ask if I want a diaper change; force me to a flat surface and change me.

If I’m trusting you to regress me, just do it! Don't beat around the bush. I really don’t wanna be the big girl that needs to be checked with. I am trusting you and you have my consent to full on regress me!

When I say, “I’m not a baby!” I’m really just reinforcing your regression’s grip on me. So DO it!

[peaches1954]

When I call you my little…

When I call you my little it means that you are mine.

When I call you my little it means that you are loved and cherished.

When I call you my little it means that you have nothing to fear because I am there to protect you.

When I call you my little it means that I trust you to see this side of me.

When I call you my little it means that you can depend on me.

When I call you my little it means that I am here for you and to help you.

When I call you my little it means that your submission is a gift I greatly value.

When I call you my little it means that you are my safe place as much as I am yours.

When I call you my little it means that I will take care of you.

When I call you my little it means that you will always have someone hold you.

[peaches1954]

Spankings aren’t over until yours eyes AND diaper are leaking! Just one doesn’t count.