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Period pros and cons

Pros:

Not pregnant

"wow my tits look awesome today"

The fact that this is happening means I'm somewhat healthy

Cons:

Regular reminder that I was given a female-flavored meat suit

Stomach and face look like shit

C R A M P S

Period poops

A N G R Y

Blood on the goddamn sheets again

Not sure if pro or con:

Horny

Ate two meals worth of Chinese takeout at 10:30 last night

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Saying “children should not be exposed to sex” is not “infantilization” it is common sense, and has been agreed upon by society at large. And them being exposed to it doesn’t help them “learn and grow” it is traumatizing. It does the opposite of that. Please step outside your bubble and learn more about this before you do something harmful.

Let’s talk about my bubble. I was a health counselor in college. A high school biology teacher for a stint after that. I am a doctor now. Human biological and psychosocial development is a thing I actually have a bit of learning and experience with, if you can imagine. And I have given ‘The Talk’ in quite a few varied forms.

Now, by “children”, do you mean prepubescents only, the way people generally do? Or are you including adolescents as well, like fandom police? Either way, there is a level of sex talk you can give to prepubescents, they do often want to know where babies come from. Some of them even get the Penis-In-Vagina bit of The Talk and handle it pretty well.

Adolescents on the other hand, well, maybe you’re a fan of US-style Abstinence Only education. I am not. So not. Comprehensive sex education all the way. No ifs, ands or buts. They’re literally going through sexual development. How can you stomach keeping people ignorant about what’s happening to them? It’s dangerous, and in my thinking, unethical. They need to be prepared. You ever explained to a class of thirteen year olds what oral sex and dental dams are? I have. You ever described vaginal secretions and ovulation changes to sixteen year olds? I have. And for the record, they brought it up. Curiosity is normal at that age and they had questions. Some of them were already experimenting and putting themselves at all kinds of risk from ignorance. Lucky I have the actual schooling and certification to answer those questions, eh?

Now, lets talk about fandom. Fanfic is entertainment. Fanart is entertainment. Fandom content creators are for the most part a bunch of marginalized amateurs chucking out works for their own amusement and any friends they can make with similar tastes in this rapidly wildening internet. Fanfic is not The Talk. Fanart is not a How-To. You have a better chance getting a decent version of The Talk at PornHub. You don’t expect people to learn sexual behavior from Game of Thrones, do you? Why would you expect them to go learn it from fandom? Why do you think fandom is such a huge influence? Because I promise you, as huge a part of your life as it might be right now, it’s a drop in a bucket compared to the rest of the world. It just doesn’t have the reach or the capability to serve as an ‘educational’ source. Nobody is saying kids should come to fandom to learn about sex. But if they get an eyeful, honestly the stuff they see here isn’t going to be much worse than Cinemax on a Saturday night.

Now, we have established that adolescents have sexual interest, even if it’s just the academic kind for some of them. We have established that knowledge is better than ignorance. We have established that fandom is not nor should be the source of that knowledge, or sure as shit not the only one.

Now let’s talk about exposure.

To sign up for social media sites, and frankly most online accounts, you have to be at least 13. Adolescent. An age of sexual development and curiosity. At 13, you are deemed old enough to leave the kiddy pool and start swimming with the rest of us. And that means learning how to operate in the wider world. It means sharing space with a wider age group than you’re used to. It means learning how to decide what is for you, what is not for you, and what is not for you yet. Same way you pass the cigs and alcohol in the convenience store before you’re old enough, you can bypass a tagged, age-rated and warned-for fic and stick to something more age-appropriate. But you do have to get used to seeing these things, and passing them by, and saying “Not now.” That’s part of living in a society. If you opt to use a fake ID to bypass the barrier, if you opt to lie about your age online, that’s on you. Only you. The adult world does not stop just because minors exist. The protections of prepubescent childhood are not meant to last forever. Adolescence is a training stage.

So if ‘children’ are being exposed to sex in fandom, they’re exposing themselves. And that’s on their parents and caregivers for not giving them proper guidelines, not enforcing those guidelines, or not giving them enough proper education to satisfy their natural curiosity, or counteract whatever fantabulous imaginary sexual escapade they go looking for online. You can’t leave kids’ welfare up to distant strangers on the internet. Distant strangers, I must add, who have EVERY RIGHT to freedom of expression and living their adult lives to the fullest. The presence of teenagers does not change that. The teens have the tools now to protect themselves. They have the tags and the warnings. But they insist on acting like actual children, prepubescents, and not people who should be practicing their basic life skills. The teenagers on social media and fandom sites need to step up and meet fandom halfway. They cannot be babied forever.

So either the ‘children’ hike off to go ask Alice, if Mommy and Daddy completely dropped the ball, or they start practicing some self control. Because wherever the adults go, the kids follow. They follow despite lockdowns, they click despite warnings, they read despite age recommendations, and that’s entirely on the kids. Because nobody put a gun to their head and made them click.

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Video games are great because you can be the fashion icon you’ve always wanted to be

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New post from Alan!! Look at those two fools, I love them and their sibling dynamic 💕

TRANSLATION: Stay safe this quarantine! -With love, Alan

Flug: Can you get off? I still have work to do! Demencia: BOORING!!

Source below! Go give his tweet love c;

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Hope they like spiders.

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they're right yknow

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I have been very vocal about my eating problems (when I weren’t having problems) because I think more people should know about the struggles that people with disorderd eating have. And with being open about this I have had a lot of fucked up encounters that have made me realise why we people that struggle keep quiet.

When I told my ex about my illness he got mad at me and told me that there was no such a thing as “eating disorders” and told me that I had made it up because I was childish and didn’t wanna eat. I googled and showed him the statistics that 1 in 5 women (where I’m from) have at one point struggled with eating. He still told me that I was lying.

So yeah I wanna give a big shout out to my amazingly supportive and kind ex that really made me feel good:*

(Notice the sarcasm by my last statement)

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Rain frog appreciation post 🐸

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This show’s character designs are a master piece

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“The Vile Doctor is IN”  late birthday present for Flug. Also found out flug has a cannon face, so here is a shrouded one. 

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Hey Megan Trainor YOU SUCK

“I TRIED anorexia”

“I ate celery and ice for three hours then gave up”

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A gentle lamb Pakka, Lamkin is always sweet and kind. They are known to form strong emotional bonds with their caretakers.

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Compilation of recipe books!

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Everything hurts and I’m dying.

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Y’all ever just *dumb baby noises*

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19.

19. What kind of crown would you wear? Something mythical and enchanting like these ~ a gentle butterfly wing faerie crown, a floral maidens crown, a unicorn princess crown or a shelled sirens crown🌸🌷🐚🦋