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where's my 4skin

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101 #swallows. would’ve been a better movie than the one about dotty dogs tbh.

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girls who keep getting interrupted during sex 😒

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i need someone with large hands and calluses to finger me ay ess ay pee

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i had a moment of clarity how strange our conversions look

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guy with juvenile assault charge cant be rough in bed without checking in with his partner every 5 seconds, more at 11.

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we were talking about normal and abnormal like. sex acts. and

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we were talking about normal and abnormal like. sex acts. and

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i could top him...

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Define "had sex" in whatever way makes sense to you.

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“He can do all the work” gin I will literally fall asleep half way through u can’t say that to me I won’t be able to keep my eyes open

okay and. will he stop???

"fuck, kitty, are you really falling asleep while my cock is in your throat? good kitty, that's it... go to sleep, let me take care of it."

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Facefucking spitting hair pulling cum swallowing 🙏

answer of shame

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Itty bitty teeny tiny little slutty skirt

(ghussy flash on p4tre0n ✌️)

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all the kisses!

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I've always wanted to take a more domtop role in sex but since I'm ftm I've kinda been forced into the subby c*ntboy role for all of my sexual relationships. I'm finally in a relationship with a girl who wants me to take that dominant role but I'm just... Really struggling for some reason? It's not that I don't want to, it's like 90% of my fantasies, but every time we start I just feel so frozen and I can't think. I can't muster any of the confidence and dominance that normally comes to mind when I think about her.

We've talked about how I'm struggling with it but none of her reassurance has really helped. Is there any way to get over this or am I just kinda stuck bottoming?

Anon, the type of sexual trauma you're talking about can be difficult to work through. Being forced into a specific sexual role can make trying another one, even one you like, feel scary or wrong or strange.

Let me be clear first: you are not, in any way, stuck bottoming anymore than you're stuck subbing. If you feel "stuck" having to have some sort of sex or doing some sort of kink with your partner, don't have that sex/do that scene. Take a break, say no, whatever fits for you.

Having sex, engaging in kink are things you should be able to chose to do with your partner because you want to. If you feel like you can't dominate her, that doesn't mean you have to sub for her.

Especially not when you have trauma related to that! Just set it aside for the moment.

I think I'd really start slow for this. You referenced bottoming; have you tried topping at all? Or just domming? Are you trying these things all together? Maybe you need to take small steps.

You also mention trying scenes-how much are you two talking out those things before trying? Maybe you need to discuss them more beforehand so you can have a fully fleshed idea in your head of what exactly you both want to happen.

Obviously, I'd suggest therapy if you have access but I'd also suggest just talking to your partner or a friend about what you're struggling with and how it relates to what you went through if you can. Sometimes just talking about things can be surprisingly helpful.

I'm not sure if this advice will actually help but lemme know if you have any other questions, Anon. Wishing you luck!