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hi! i’m not on here at all anymore so here’s a cute pic from this weekend! bye!

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in what ways is it hard to live with your boyfriend?

i believe that you never truly know someone until you’ve lived with them. when we moved it, we got to know each other’s habits and had to adjust and compromise accordingly which isn’t always easy. we also spend a LOT of time together, we get on each other’s nerves and get sick of each other so we had to learn to give space to one another and make our own plans seperately etc x

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How is living with your boyfriend??

amazing and also hard

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some guy i barely know asked if im a virgin and i told him yea and now im really scared and just feel weird about telling him:(

girl virginity is fake, it literally doesnt exist!!!

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i was wondering for my 18th birthday i really want a tattoo and idk what to get :/ i dont want something super basic but also i want something cute:) any ideas?

if you don’t have an idea of what you want, you prolly shouldn’t get  tattoo!! don’t get something for the sake of having a tattoo, ´get a tattoo cause there’s something you want on you forever!!

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yummy meal/snack ideas?

bread in any form

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I agree that reverse racism doesn't exist. The only form that exists is racism.

i don’t remember what this is referring to but HECK YEAH

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hi love how do i tell my parents that i’ve been talking to this guy??

“mom, dad, i’ve been talking to this guy i really like!!” don’t make it a big deal, they’ll prolly be understanding

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its a beautiful sunny day and you have the day off but all your friends are busy/you dont have anyone to hang with: what do you do?!

me all summer!

i would probably work out, take a nice long shower, paint, go out into nature, try and pet as many dogs as possible

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weird question but people sometimes say that they dont sleep in any underwear and i never have done that, but i was wondering if thats normal and like a lot of people do it?

oh heck ya lol it’s very healthy too!

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how do i overcome my social anxiety? my parents keep bugging me to get a job (im 16) and i keep putting it off because i’m afraid of waiting on people or just getting yelled at. I don’t know how i can overcome this and i really do want to.

Hi love, I’m really sorry you’re struggling with social anxiety, it’s really debilitating. I think the first step would be to find professional help, they could help you so much more than a random 25 year old on the internet ever could. I also think you need to have a serious talk with your parents about how you feel. Hopefully they’ll be understanding and supportive of you getting some help! Otherwise, I think that starting small would be a good idea. Step out of your comfort zone regularly and do things that make you uncomfortable until they’re not a big deal anymore. Exposure therapy is most definitely something a therapist would recommend. Good luck love 

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Where did Jake and you meet for the first time? How did you get to know each other?

I haven’t been on tumblr in ages but I just opened my ask box and there are a bunch of questions!! So hi!!!

Jake and I met in Maastricht for the first time, it’s pretty much the exact middle point between where lived and where I lived. That was just an awkward first date though, the second time we met was much better.

He actually found me on Tinder when I was on a trip in Amsterdam! I only found out about this a few months after we started dating lol but he found my instagram through tinder and then my tumblr through instagram and messaged me on here!! That’s how we first met - good ol tumblr lol

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a local celebrity. Brugge, autumn 2012

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1349💐 #紫陽花 https://instagram.com/p/BkeZSKeBDKr/

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