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Always

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Who do you see when you close your eyes? For me? It’s you. It’s always been you. I don’t even have to try. It’s simply you to whom my soul runs. It always has. Always will. ~ B.T.

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Yes, please... still the safest place I have ever felt is in your presence. I crave it. Ambassador of my heart

#intimacycoach #mylove

" You're my favorite place to go when my mind searches for peace."

💜🖤

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Not by doing nothing, you already planted your seed in my mind. Random moments throughout the day I am reminded of your smile, your fingertips tracing my thighs and calves so gently yet grabbing my ankles with force, the sound of your voice alone makes me drip. You laid the correct foundation so my mind looks for you, always

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It’s crazy how much you turn me on just by doing nothing.

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As an intellectually disabled person and an aac user, Ive been told many times about what peoples ideas of consent and sex is towards intellectually disabled people. I’ve been told that intellectually disabled people cannot consent, I’ve been told that we can’t have sex, that it’s not something we can do, or even comprehend. This is a very broad statement. No intellectually disabled person is going to be the same. Process the same, know the same, comprehend the same.

I as an intellectually disabled person, can have sex. I can consent to it. I can use my aac to consent. I can use my mouth words to consent. I can use the sign language I know to consent. Multi use of communication is important for me. And I can consent using any method.

Saying that intellectually disabled people cannot consent is not only wrong, but leaves a vast population of intellectually disabled people out of the conversation. Instead, rethink your language. Maybe instead say “some people cannot consent due to this or this” however, you never know. The most disabled person you know could be possible to consent maybe. You never know someone’s comprehension skills. Stop assuming. Unless you know the person really really well, you never know.

Not to mention you never know what that person could be capable of in the future. Have they been taught about sex? Have they been sheltered from it and not told about it? People with ID are notorious for not having been taught about Sex. It’s an important subject that everyone has the right to learn. 

That’s all. Just some late night thoughts.

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@pleasurepie on Twitter

Text ID: Teaching consent doesn't make sense if you don't talk about pleasure.

How do you know what you do & don’t want if you don't understand your feelings of desire and pleasure?

In order to give meaningful consent, you need to know what you want—and that what you want matters.

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I recently watched a very popular sex specialist say "We don't know what consent looks like" Are you fucking kidding me... here are the words.... I will start making the photos. Hard for a man doesn't mean yes, and a woman being wet isn't yes either.

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Consent = F.R.I.E.S.🍟

Consent! What is it and what does it look like? There are many aspects to giving consent, it's not just about saying "yes", so why not use the acronym 'FRIES' to remind yourself of all the things to consider when giving or asking for consent.

F - Consent is Freely given: you should never pressure, coerce or force someone into saying yes to something, this is not consent. You must respect when someone says no. You should feel confident and happy when you consent to any activity with your partner(s).

R - Consent is reversible: it is okay to consent to something and then change your mind, if you're not comfortable, say so and ask to stop. If your partner changes their mind on something you should respect their choice, and if they are willing, have a conversation about their decision.

I - Consent is informed: you should know what exactly you are consenting to and your partner(s) should too. It's good to discuss specifics beforehand and what you're both comfortable with.

E - Consent is enthusiastic: when someone is giving consent consider their tone and body language. Do they sound happy, upbeat and are they being proactive? Or do they sound hesitant, reluctant or closed-off?

S - Consent is specific: when someone says yes to one activity, it does not mean they consent to other activities. If someone has consented to something in the past, it does not mean that they have consented to doing that activity again in the future, you need renewed consent.

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when the safe word is “gentle” because you don’t want them to stop, just be… more gentle.

safe words don’t always have to mean total, full red. safe words can mean go slower, i need a moment but don’t pull out, can you not do specifically whatever it is you’re doing, etc.

sex is supposed to always have open communication, and if you’re like me and struggle to say full sentences or give specific instructions, come up with a list of words that have different meanings to you and your partner(s).

talk, put everything out in the open, be vulnerable, trust this person / these people, make sure you’re all on the exact same page, and most importantly, be safe ~

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Intimacy starts in the mind, see me, communicate, teach me something, show me something new, hear me, understand me, feel me physically, energetically...what does my energy say to you? Is it telling you I won't ask for anything I can't bring to the table myself? When we engage with sex on this level, it changes everything. Learn to not rush, connect and feel first...that type of orgasm is what makes it so incredibly powerful, especially when we cum together.

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start here ~

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Yes, please. Mmmhhmmm💦🫦

#intimacycoach #sweetcherrypie #sexnerd #realsexed #allmysensesplease

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"Intellectual, imaginative, romantic, emotional.

This is what gives sex its surprising textures, its subtle transformations, its aphrodisiac elements. Sex loses all its power and magic when it becomes explicit, mechanical, overdone, when it becomes a mechanistic obsession. It becomes a bore. You are shrinking your world of sensations. You are withering it, starving it, draining its blood. If you nourished your sexual life with all the excitements and adventures which love injects into sensuality, you would be the most potent human being in the world. The source of sexual power is curiosity, passion. You are watching its little flame die of asphyxiation. Sex does not thrive on monotony. Sex must be mixed with tears, laughter, words, promises, scenes, jealousy, envy, all of the spices of fear, foreign travel, new faces, novels, stories, dreams, fantasies, music, dancing, opium, wine."

- Anaïs Nin, The Diary Of Anais Nin

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Yes, please

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