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why not give yourself an extra pronoun? as a treat. go pick one out champ. you earned it. i am so proud of you

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NYC ppl I'm dead serious I live an hour from you including the hell-traffic, I will come to your house fr

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The sentences "Asexuals can still have sex" and "Aromantics can still date" need to go up on the high shelf for everyone except aces and aros talking about their own experiences. From now on, everyone else has to use the revolutionary new phrase "Asexuals and aromantics can do whatever the fuck they want forever."

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i think some users on this website have either no idea or forgot that they live in echo chambers and doesn't compute that there are a lot of issues that the average person simply doesn't know about

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Anyway terfs love trans men and want to rehabilitate us and accept us and no terf is ever bigoted towards a trans man ever at all 🥰

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ITS NOT

FOR YOU

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"OP why are you mad that your words are being misinterpreted you're on the piss on the poor website" actually i think it's very reasonable to demand people pay attention to the words they use, the choices they make, the things they believe, and their capacity for empathy and comprehension and that it's sort of weird that you're finding humor in making excuses to just believe that there simply is no possible way to improve your actions

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one trans man to another, it's always fascinating to me when people imply that there were no trans men or drag kings anywhere during the stonewall riots.

there is a very weird & persistent idea that trans men are like, a brand new phenomena and/or basically do not exist within the trans community/do not have a place within the trans community.

people also straight up do not know drag kings exist a lot of the time.

it's bizarre! not to mention very much rooted in & perpetuated by transphobia.

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people who say "smash the hate the gender binary!" & joke about their blorbo beings a boygirl as soon as they have to interacr with an actual real life multigender person

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i kind of feel like if you take "don't bomb iran" as an endorsement of the iranian government, you're not intellectually ready to engage in conversations about real-world politics. Go talk about steven's universe instead

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Are we seriously saying that transphobia only affects trans women. Please think about the trans men and nonbinary people in your cmmunity for once. Either that or shut the fuck up.

We don't just get 'uncomfortably included'.

In the UK trans men are legally defined as women. We can't go in 'mens spaces'. And if we are too masculine we aren't allowed in womens spaces either. Nonbinary people have no rights here. We have no legal protections at all.

We also get hatecrimed and are forced to endure absolutely heinous shit

Also think about the countries outside of the western world. You can't seriously try and say trans men don't experience transphobia in good faith.

We do also get excluded a shit ton you ignorant toerag.

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"you can just change your art style at any time!"

YOU can maybe, I'm bad at art

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I’m so happy I got this shot earlier holy shit

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most annoying thing on this website is seeing a good take by someone you objectively agree with but it's worded slightly clumsily or inarticulately so you can't reblog it without risking being misconstrued and called evil and problematic. many such cases

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Not all venom fans are monster fuckers 😞 some of us are just aroace disasters who like the idea of a platonic soulmate who likes to murder annoying people for you, is that so bad?

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Thank god I saved this from gayporntattoos before it got deleted

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I'm just gonna say it: people using the term "transandrobros" gives me the exact same vibe as people saying "feminazis".