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I Cant Love You Because Your "FAT?"

Why cant you love me? Is it because I’m FAT?

Him! Yesss HIM!

So he sits there and says “I want a girl to call mine, someone to cuddle, call at night when I am bored JUST someone who cares”.

I sit and stare at him thinking {little does he know he already has me}

He says “I really like your friend (blank), Shes perfect”.

{PERFECT ooh really?}

I said out loud this time “What do you like about her?” “Not meaning to sound mean or anything but you already know the kind of guys she goes for your nothing like them..”

And the next thing that comes out of his mouth KILLS me

he said “Shes funny” {I’m Funny} “Shes weird” {Well I’m NOT normal} “Shes really pretty” {I have been called that a couple of times} and “She has a great BODY” {Yup! She Wins}…

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“What I didn’t realize, back when I was this twenty-five-year-old pinup for geeks in that me myself and iconic metal bikini, was that I had signed an invisible contract to stay looking the exact same way for the next thirty to forty years. Well, clearly I’ve broken that contract. Partly because, in an effort to keep up my disguise as a human being, I had a child at some point. And then, in an effort to stay sane for said child, I took pounds and pounds of medications that have the dual effect of causing water retention (think ocean, not lake) while also creating a craving for salad—chocolate salad. So yes, in answer to your unexpressed question, sanity does turn out to come at a heavy price.”

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POW!! 

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walk up to the club like, “What up?

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If I gotta be a bitch, I'mma be a bad one! 👏🏾

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I Cant Love You Because Your "FAT?"

Why cant you love me? Is it because I’m FAT?

Him! Yesss HIM!

So he sits there and says “I want a girl to call mine, someone to cuddle, call at night when I am bored JUST someone who cares”.

I sit and stare at him thinking {little does he know he already has me}

He says “I really like your friend (blank), Shes perfect”.

{PERFECT ooh really?}

I said out loud this time “What do you like about her?” “Not meaning to sound mean or anything but you already know the kind of guys she goes for your nothing like them..”

And the next thing that comes out of his mouth KILLS me

he said “Shes funny” {I’m Funny} “Shes weird” {Well I’m NOT normal} “Shes really pretty” {I have been called that a couple of times} and “She has a great BODY” {Yup! She Wins}…

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If I gotta be a bitch, I'mma be a bad one! 👏🏾

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Words to live by.

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trying to stay awake in class after being up all night on tumblr: 

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Ekaterina Shumskaya

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la tristesse durera toujours

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Big Girls,

Double chins are ok. Don’t be afraid to lift your head up. 👌💕

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Grunge ootd and the music that’s been inspiring me lately. Links and playlist on my blog. ❤️💀💄

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Feelin myself 😜 Kik- icheybot IG- _wy0ming

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TRIGGER WARNING: EATING DISORDERS (ED), SELF HARM, SCARS

Hi! My name is Margaret, and for the past 5 years I have been struggling with an eating disorder (anorexia purging type). Most days I still have many insecurities about my body, but today was a good, body positive feeling day.

My eating disorder, combined with body dysmorphic disorder and a slew of other mental illnesses have made surviving really hard sometimes, but with good food, love and time, I hope to come to terms with the home of my soul. You are all beautiful, I pinky promise! 

lots of love, Margaret <3

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