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"Is that your dick bulge?" No ma'am that's cigarettes. Move along you don't want me.

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shes singing pictures ;_;

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D. S. Stylus would be a beautiful name for a poet

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my patrick bateman figure came in :3

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big issue with linear time is that when there are a few minutes until some event and they aren't enough minutes to do anything with, you just lose those minutes. I think you should be able to save them for later and then combine them into a chunk of leftover time that you get to use at the end of the day, like bonus hours.

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The astronaut strolls through the infinite, taking on shapes of places she vaguely remembers. While being none of them.

With alt and base drawing ; )

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recent gem doodles

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having my evening cucumber

I offered a portion to this large and mannerly horse

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🌘

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As fearsome and deadly as the adult manticore is rumored to be, there’s no escaping that awkward adolescent phase.

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let's struggle to dine with mama

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splatoon idol oc’s

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dose anyone remember him... redraw of old dnd character from 2020.! what! he was like a goblin bard but iwould change it now to be half goblin half elf maybe

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no for real like sit over there and drink your little beverage and stay tf out of the way let me cook

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One of the most healing things I’ve strove (striven?) to do in my life is viewing sex as just another thing people do, among a host of other things like eating and pooping and playing with cats.

Our entire society, feminists and puritans alike, pushes the idea that sex is uniquely powerful and dangerous, capable of inflicting The Worst Trauma or the Highest Fulfillment, and that’s…just flat out untrue. Other experiences can cause similar trauma: violence, disasters, war, instability. Other experiences can result in transcendent pleasure: trance states, live music, non-sexual intimacy, tattoos.

I think this is where the disconnect in perception about sex positivity comes from, because the phrase itself makes people who already view sex as being uniquely powerful think sex positivity means viewing sex as uniquely good, when actually…it’s mostly about taking sex off that pedestal. Normalizing sex. Making it into just another thing people do. Because that’s the first step in making sure people can engage with sex on their own terms in a healthy way.

Taking sex off its cultural pedestal was the thing that allowed me to overcome the deeply-instilled shame I developed from being raised within Christian purity culture, and from being queer, and from existing as a woman. I think a failure to do that, in feminist circles, often leads to an overblowing of the (very real) harm that sex has the potential to do at the exclusion of other problems facing women and other marginalized groups, which often leads to more shaming rhetoric - just rhetoric that shames different people for different reasons.

Sex is not the enemy and it’s not our savior. It’s just one more thing people can do with their bodies.

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