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| In the Ruins |

(I love when his cape goes swish-swoosh can you tell by my art of this goth man already.)

💀 PATREON | bsky | IG | Prints&merch

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sometimes it be like

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he just likes being included

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Damn, I'd love to be explained how and where we're the ones in the wrong, but you just insulted that transfem in your comments section, claimed transmascs are soon-to-be TERF detransitioners, reblogged a post about killing all trans men, and then said "trans women who actually live as women" (real thing one of these people has said) and I'm starting to think I'm not the one on the "wrong side" here.

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desperately posting about fun stuff bc reality is hella bleak man

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if you’re a baby trans and you haven’t started smoking cigarettes or vaping yet don’t. it’s actually not that hot or interesting. It will just cause you ungodly frustrations and suffering and cost you a bunch of money and be next to impossible to quit

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TIHYLTTW and Trigun cross references are my favorite thing to have ever been brought by the Internet

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i went in to get a bra fitting today and I had a big conversation with the woman who runs the boutique i go to about her advice for trans women re:underwire bras and fittings, so I'm gonna pass that along!

she said that underwire bras aren't typically made with trans women's' ribcages in mind, but that if you have smaller boobs a soft bralette or sports bra is totally fine. it's also possible that bras made for drag will fit, but she wasn't sure how helpful that would be and neither was I, since we're not talking about a boob plate here. i was asking on behalf of some of my friends who have naturally big boobs after horomones though, and she told me that if your breast tissue feels unsupported or you're getting new back pain that you think is coming from there, your best bet is to get fitted at a small boutique, and that there are higher band sizes that you can try.

I told her some of the girls I know are scared to do this and she reccomended to have someone call the place for you and ask outright, being upfront that you're nervous about it, and then base your decision on how they react. but also that most independent bra stores are probably friendly because they're being run by hippies. At a chain like victoria's secret or something they're not going to carry higher band sizes at all, plus you're never gonna be able to tell who you'll get at a chain, so she recommends calling a smaller place where you can really get a read on the people there from talking on the phone.

I hope somebody finds that helpful!

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*meows loud as fuck to no avail*

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"you know you could just be a feminine boy, you don't have to be trans" <- person who spent the last several years mocking you for being a feminine boy

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straight men will see a character go "I am in love with this man in a way that i am directly comparing to the way that his girlfriend loves him" and be like yeah they tolerate each other

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(I am the kind of cat that's drawn to this kind of pspspsps)

Great fic op!!

Pspspspsps drunk unresolved sexual tension vashwood drabble.

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Do you have penis or vagina? Are you amab or afab? Are you pre/no-op or post-op?

Are we fucking? Are you asking about protection or researching safe sex? If not, please fuck off! That's an inappropriate thing to ask a stranger.

Please stop making binaries about non-binary people. Intersex people literally can't fall into a genital binary. It's literally in the words. Especially if your trans. We've lived the life defined by our genitals. Why do you then demand others to do the same?

Afab transfem? Don't care.

Amab vs afab enbies? None of my business.

Transmasc lesbians? Look upon my great fields of shits, and you will find it barren and desolate .

I'm not even non-binary or intersex and this shit pisses me off. I was raised a man, have a typical penis, and transfem. I'm proud of this. Some aren't. That's ok.

Some people don't want to be defined by their (current/birth) genitalia or don't want strangers on the internet knowing that. That's none of my business. It should be yours too.

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Me and my sibling fighting in uno