32 goth lesbian poly trans woman (she/her) was previously @horny-pink-kiwi APAT, apparently(Assigned Puppygirl At Tumblr). cis men dni. Very much a bottom, co-owned by(and dating) @death-transcrypt and @artemisia-absinthium-x 🖤 follows from @dr-pink-kiwi
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the hottest thing in kink spaces to me as a sub is the concept of a sliding scale of expectations from a Top or Dom/me...let me explain...
yes some piss subs can hold for 10 hrs, but also celebrating the piss subs with small bladders that make it to the 2 hrs mark and can't go on
yes some intox subs can be given double digits and stay conscious, but also celebrating the intox subs that have two drinks and cant walk straight or avoid slurring their words
yes some masochists can be beat black and blue for hours, but also celebrating the masochists that can't and their accomplishments and less vibrant marks
it helps combat the inevitable(?) feelings of less worth when comparing to others that can do more and i think should be a crucial factor that Tops and Dom/mes take into consideration, celebrating anything and everything ur given and the understanding that everyone is different and capable of handling different quantities and reinforcing that quantity does not equate better, more submission, etc.
this also goes both ways, Tops and Dom/mes also deserve a sliding scale of expectations !!!!
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fat people who have been extraordinarily lucky to have never been sexually harassed or assaulted i'm genuinely happy for you and hope that remains the case but instead of posting another "nobody talks about how there is freedom in being fat ❤️ i can walk anywhere at night as a woman and feel safe because i know no man is interested in me 🥰" thing can you please think about the implications of your words & whether your experiences are universal for like five seconds
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they should make an emoji for wagging your tail so i can spam it. for reasons. not because im a dog or anything.
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being a black artist is tough because you'll slowly notice a lot of people and artists tend to have a Eurocentric lean towards their characters or the art they draw.
the same blue eyed light haired fair skinned OCS and characters over n over again. when they do draw black characters it's either a commission, they do it poorly (whitewashing), or absolutely refuses to draw us or learn.
there's so much antiblackness everywhere. it's frustrating.
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Just saw a gorgeous Black trans woman feeding pigeons and saying “you know what I love about birds? They don’t cALL ME SIR” to them it was so cute I’m so smitten
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checking in , y'all like bat characters right? specifically bat women who look a lil disheveled?
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Knight who seeks to get injured in combat so she can be tenderly held by her Lady but she keeps absolutely killing it out there and she's too honorable to throw a fight
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hello? anyone up? I'm work-shopping my cat fursona
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@transgirlthanatos @artemisia-absinthium-x *jiggles at you* 👀
I hear you're stressed. I have some stress toys for you *jiggles boobs* 🩷
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astrologers will call them good friends
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outfit i wore at this year's pride parade!
apparently i was in focus in several news articles AND on TV X3
they/them
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