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Mother's Day.. .

DEAR MOMS… Thank you for supporting us. We know it can’t be easy – watching us making our own mistakes and paying the consequences, but you do it time and time again, always ready to help us out. Thank you for encouraging us to chase our dreams, rather than making us worry about living up to yours. You have been our number one fan since day one, and you don’t know how much that means to us. You are always cheering for any goal we have (even if our big plan for life is to become a construction worker, like mine once was). You may think that some of our aspirations are silly, but I promise you that it means the world to us when you support them anyways. Knowing that you’re supporting us each step of the way gives us the confidence to go after what we want, knowing that no matter what we have you to come back to! Thank you for making us feel beautiful. You tell us that we are gorgeous just the way we are, and we can tell that you believe it (even if sometimes we don’t). During our awkward teenage stage you are one of the few people who we will be comfortable around fresh out of bed, hair a mess, and not a lick of makeup on. When we stare into the mirror, hating ourselves you know the perfect thing to say to make it better. And when all of our friends are counting calories, we know that you’ll never judge us for pigging out on seconds. Thank you for choosing your battles. Sometimes as daughters we are sassy and hard to put up with, but we don’t mean it. We are so sorry for all of the times we’ve hurt your feelings with our bad attitudes. We really do appreciate everything that you do for us. When we take our bad days out on you it’s just because we know that you’ll love us forever, no matter what. Thank you for letting us be a daddy’s girl. Being a daddy’s girl doesn’t mean we love you any less, but sometimes we just need our daddies. Our dads can lift us high above their heads and scare even the most ferocious monsters away, but we know that our moms hold us tight in their heart and are there for us when the real life monsters make us cry. So when we just need a little daddy daughter time, know that your turn is right around the corner. As we get older you magically transform from mom into a friend – and that’s when we are going to start needing your more and more. Thank you for letting us make our own messes, and thanks for being there for us when they are too hard for us to clean up by ourselves. We are still learning, so we will probably make more mistakes than you’d like, but you always remember that you were once in our shoes. Even if we haven’t yet, one day we will probably make a mess that is too big for us to pick up alone, and you are going to be the first ones that we turn to. Thank you for letting us be adventurers, even though some of our adventures may scare you. Whether your little girl is off to her first sleepover, to college, or somewhere far far away to start the next chapter of her life, just rest assured that thanks to you there is no adventure that is too big, and no problem we can’t handle. And if we do do feel overwhelmed we know that you’re just a phone call away. So moms, thank you for loving us unconditionally and giving us the ultimate role models. Love, your daughters.❤

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Love is a strange emotion. It can bring us close and yet, at times it can push us further away. Balancing togetherness and space perfectly is not easy, .... .but it’s worth the effort. #Qsays

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I never told her I loved her

I woke up extra early and cooked breakfast for two. Bacon and egg sandwiches with the crusts cut off. A warm cup of cocoa with extra brown sugar to match. She looked me in the eyes and smiled. I smiled back. She went in the shower and I prepared her clothes on the bed. Sprayed her favorite perfume and got prepared myself for I was running late. I saw her with her back against the mirror so I hurriedly went over, turned her around, and helped her zip up her top from the back. She looked at me through the mirror and smiled. I smiled back. I went to work. I was always busy. Always out of town. Always on the phone. Always in a hurry. I never had the time to say goodnight. Still, she slept with a smile on her face. The few times that I'd get home early, I'd pass out right away. It was the only time I got to rest. One night I felt a heavy weight on my back just as I was about to pass out. She gave me a massage and then fell asleep on my back. I turned around and looked at her face. She was smiling. I smiled back. I felt bad for not having much time for her. I had a feeling she would leave me soon. One day I woke up to the sound of voices talking in the living room. I heard her talking to one of her friends. Her friend asked her how we're still together when I had no time for her. And she answered "We lasted this long because she never told me she loved me". Her friend said "That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard". She paused for a second and said "All the time she spends away from me, it's still for me. She's working hard to give me the things I want and need. It's for us. For our future. So yeah, she never told me she loved me. She never had to. Cause she showed me. Everyday.". And then she noticed me standing by the door. She looked straight into my eyes and smiled at me. Tears fell down my eyes as I smiled back. This is the woman I fell in love with. I never had to tell her I loved her. She knew that I did. She's a real woman. She's my woman, my love of my life.. *dedicated to the woman i love the most... more than my Life..

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"She's been broken"

Before you fall in love with her, you have to understand that she's not perfect. She's been broken. A few times in her life she's been fooled and hurt. She has doubts. She will take precaution. This comes with the package. This will make it harder for you. Your goal is to make her feel happy and loved. You can't make her happy when she's hurting. You have to take away the pain. You have to be the one to prove to her that there's hope in love. Be that person that will bring true smile on her face. -Q.

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"She doesn't deserve this"

She doesn't deserve to be left hanging on to you when you're not sure how you really feel. She doesn't deserve to be just a trophy girl. She doesn't deserve to be judged according to her looks. She doesn't deserve to be objectified. She doesn't deserve to be an option. She doesn't deserve to be led on. She doesn't deserve to be cheated on. She doesn't deserve to be left constantly wondering why she's not good enough. She doesn't deserve to be made to wait for hours for a date only to be disappointed because you're "tired". She doesn't deserve to be treated with little to no respect. She doesn't deserve to be taken for granted by a person who doesn't realize her worth. She doesn't deserve to be twisted into thinking that everything is her fault. She doesn't deserve to be screwed over. She doesn't deserve to be your second choice. She doesn't deserve to be in doubt and in pain. She doesn't deserve to be used and abused, mentally, physically, and emotionally. She doesn't deserve someone like you...

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Like all things that are truly ‘worth it', love isn't easy or stress-free. Each new challenge offers an opportunity to strengthen or destroy a couple's bond, and it takes real effort to choose the path that leads to success. The only difference between relationships that fly and ones that die is the way in which challenges are faced. Like a good workout, you can only get out of it what you put in. If you want to get strong, you have to do the heavy lifting, gain endurance, test your limits, and earn your sweat. Strong relationship requires the same elements as a strong body – a commitment to push forward when things get difficult, and the flexibility to adapt to new moves. If you don't stretch first, you could get hurt. And if you don't maintain the passion in your relationship, the bond will wither

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Knowing things for a Better Relationship

# 1: Trust “Ang pag titiwala sa isa’t isa ay mahalaga sa isang RELATIONSHIP lalo na kung nag uumpisa palang kayo ng ka-partner mo.” # 2: Open Minded “Dapat maging open kayo sa isa’t isa sa lahat ng bagay upang mapanatiling maayos ang inyong RELATIONSHIP.” # 3: Be Loyal “Dapat maging tapat sa isa’t isa upang maiwasan ang tampuhan sa relasyon, lahat ng bagay na dapat malaman, dapat sinasabi na agad.” # 4: Be True “Maging totoo sa ka- Relasyon mo wag kang mag sisinungaling para hindi masira ng maaga ang RELATIONSHIP.” # 5: Understandable “Naiintindihan niyo dapat ang isa’t isa dapat maging malawak ang pag intindi sa mga bagay bagay at mga pangyayari o mangyayari palang sa inyong relasyon.” # 6: Be matured “Wag mag isip ng kung anu anu kapag ang ka-relasyon mo ay dimo nakausap lang ng ilang oras or na late sa pag kikita. Hindi un maganda sa isang relasyon.” # 7: Sacrifice “Dapat handa kang Isakripisyo ang lahat upang maging maayos ang relationship na gusto mong ingatan at maging maayos sa mahabang panahon.” # 8: You “Yung siya lang wala ng iba, kahit anung mangyare dika maghahanap kuntento lang sa ISA sa buhay mo.” # 9: Faithful “Steady ka lang dapat sa relasyon hindi ung kung kanikaniko ka nakiki flirt hindi kanaman tsinelas na iba iba ang gumagamit.” # 10: Don’t Give Up “Wag na wag susuko kung maayos pa ang isang relasyon ayusin hindi ung onting away e lalandi na sa iba.” # 10: Bonding “Dapat bonding everytime para malaman niyo ung mga dislike at likes para mag kaintindihan.” # 11: Sweetness “Ang pagiging sweet sa isa’t isa ay masaya lalo na pag parehas kayu ng partner mo ung tipong susubuan mo siya tapos ikaw din mga ganun bagay kahit fish ball lang ang kinakain niyo.” # 12: Caring “Dapat maging maalaga tayu sa ating ka partner my care sa lahat ng oras lahat ng pagkakataon.” # 13: Understanding “Dapat malawak ang pag unawa sa bawat isa para mag kaintindihan sa lahat ng oras at aspeto sa buhay at maging matatag ang pag sasama. # 14: Don’t Hide “Kung wala pa kayo sa tamang edad wag itago ang relasyon sa inyong mga magulang dahil dito masusubukan kung gano katatag ang relasyon ninyo.” “Kung nasa tamang edad naman wag ikahiya sa ibang tao dapat maging proud ka sa kanya ipag sigawan mo sa buong mundo na mahal niyo ang isa’t isa.” “Wag mag tago ng sekreto sa iyong ka-relasyon na pag sisimulan ng malawakang hiwalayan.” # 15: Fair “Maging fair ka sakanya dapat aminin mo ung dapat aminin sabihin mo ung dapat sabihin para walang away na mangyayare at lokohan.” # 16: No Jealous “Wag masyado mag selos kung dimo pa alam ang totoong dahilan, alamin mo muna bago gumawa ng ikakasama.” # 17: Accept “Tanggapin mo kung anu siya at kung ganyan siya at kung panu mo siya unang nakilala dahil doon mapag titibay ang pag sasamahan ninyong dalawa.” # 18: Believe “Maniwala sa lahat ng bagay na alam mong ikakaganda ng inyong relasyon.” # 19: No Limit “Walang limitasyon dapat ang pag mamahal ninyo sa isa’t isa ung tipong walang rules na ipapatupad sa bawat isa.” # 20: Sweet “Kulang nalang pati asin langgamin sa ka-sweetan ninyo, pero dapat nasa lugar.” # 21: Time “My oras ka dapat sa kanya, ung mga free time mo sakanya mo dapat ibigay para mas lalo mapag tibay ang inyong pag sasama.” # 22: Never ever be angry at the same time “Wag pagsabayin ang mga galit ninyo dapat marunong mag pakumbaba para mas tumagal ang RELATIONSHIP.” # 23: Learn to Forgive “Matutong mag patawad sa mga kasalanan na nagawa sadya o hindi sinasadya, huwag mag tanim ng galit sa iyong ka-realsyon.” # 24: Never Lie “Wag ka mag sinugaling sa iyong ka-relasyon kung gusto mong tumagal ang inyong relasyon.” # 25: Don’t Cheat “Huwag mong lokohin ang isang relasyon dahil hindi biro ito kung hindi kana masaya maaga palang umalis kana para walang mahirapan sa bandang huli.” # 26: Don’t make promises you can’t keep “Wag kang mangangako kung hindi mo kayang tuparin dahil siguradong my masasaktan sa inyo at ikakasira ng relasyon niyo.” # 27: Whatever problems “Kung anu mang problema ang dumating sa isang relasyon, importanteng harapin ninyo ng mag kasama para mas tumibay ang pag sasama.” # 28: Appreciate “Bigyan halaga kung anu ang ginagawa niya pag aalaga sayu at pag mamahal.” # 29: Great Communication “Kailangan ng magandang pag uusap sa isa’t isa upang mag kaintindihan mabuti sa mga bagay bagay at magkaroon ng magandang pag sasama.” # 30: Be frank in love “Yung habang nag uusap kayu nag bibiruan nag tatawanan, habang kinikilala niyo ang isa’t isa. Sinasabi mo ung mga negatibo mo at sakanya.” # 31: Understand each other as you change “Nag babago ang mga gusto natin at di-gusto sa bawat oras. Maganda makipag usap ka sa iyong ka relasyon sa iyong interes at pangarap sa isa’t isa, kung anu ang gusto mo o siya sa susunod na araw, linggo, buwan o taon.” # 32: Go out one day a week “Kailangan ninyo lumabas paminsan minsan, kahit kumain lang sa simpleng Restaurant na medyo romantic o manuod ng Cine para na sweet.” # 33: Commitment “Dapat handa kang tuparin ang mga pangako mong bibitawan at handa ka sa mga pwedeng mangyare.” # 34: Distance “Ang Distansya sa isa’t isa ay hindi handling sa totoong pag mamahalan, ang mahalaga meron kayung oras para mag usap at handang makinig, pag babahagi sakanya at tawanan.” # 35: Being happy “Dapat maging masaya ka sa mga desisyon mo, mga nang yayare sa iyo at mga pananaw mo sa buhay. Dahil kung hindi ka masaya sa pagiging single mo hindi ka din magiging masaya kung papasok ka sa isang relasyon.” # 36: No matter how hard “Kahit gaano kahirap ang sitwasyon kailangan tiisin at kailangan maging mahinahon sa mga gagawing hakban para di makaapekto sa inyong pag sasama. Dapat lagging POSITIVE.” # 37: Always give your lover the space they require “Wag mo silang pwersahin na gawin ang isang bagay na ikaw lang ang my gusto, bigyan mo siya ng kalayaan para maging maayus ang inyong pagsasama.” # 38: Sweetest thing “Kahit maliit na bagay lang ang iyong gawin basta mula sa puso mo at puno ng pag mamahal.” # 39: Do your best “Gawin mo ang lahat ng paraan para mapanatiling maayos at masaya sa bawat oras na kayo ay mag kasama.” # 40: Struggle “Kapag nakikipag away ka sa iyong ka relasyon parang nakipag away ka na din sa iyong saril. Bawat maling nakikita mo, kahinaan naman sa sarili mo.” # 41: Respect “Respeto sa sarili at sa bawat isa para maging maganda at tumagal ang inyong pag sasama.” # 42: Keep in mind that every relationship has ups and downs “Minsan ang mag ka relasyon nag aaway din, pero minsan mas ok ung ganun para mas lalo niyong mapagtibay ang samahan, lahat naman nadadaan sa magandang usapan at maayus na pag papaliwanag sa isa’t isa.” # 43: Always “Lagi mong gawin ung mga bagay na alam mong mag papasaya sakanya at mag bubuo ng buhay niya kahit simple lang pero ASTIG na pag mamahal at pag aaruga sa iyong ka-relasyon.” # 44: Embrace “Yakapin niyo ang isa’t isa kagaya ng pagyakap ninyo sa inyong relasyon mas maganda mas mahigpit sa bawat sandali na merong hindi pag kakaunawaan.” # 45: Love without expectation “Wag hayaang makasagabal ang takot sa iyong daraanan. Kung totoo ang iyong pag ibig na binibigay mo ang taong karapat dapat sa iyong pag ibig ay unti unting ibubunyag ang kanilang sarili sa paglipas ng panahon.” “Wag ka mag expect ng bagay na alam mong Malabo mong makuha makuntento ka sa kung anung meron sayu.” # 46: Patience “Habaan ang pasensya sa mga darating na problema at sa mga kamalian ng bawat isa.” # 47: Protect “Kung mahal mo ang isang tao handa kang proktehan siya sa lahat ng oras sa puso, isip at kanyang katawan. Wag mong saktan ang kanilang damdamin sa mga bagay na alam mo mag dudulot ng sakit sa kanila. Alagaan mo, mahalin mo, protektahan mo at wag gumawa ng bagay na puputol sa taling nag uugnay sa inyong dalawa.” # 48: Forget “Kalimutan mo ang nakaraan mo at masasamang alaala, harapin mo ang kasalukuyan ng my tiwala at kompiyansa sa sarili. Ihanda mo ang iyong sarili sa mga darating at bigyan halaga ang mga taong laging andyan at handang tumulong para sayu sa oras ng kasiyahan o kalungkutan.” # 49: Courage “Ang tapang ay nangangahulugan upang mapanatling gumagana ang isang relasyon.” “Sa kahit anung dagok o problema na dumating handa kayo at hindi susuko sa pag hahanap ng solusyon kahit sa nakakabahalang panahon.” # 50: Beyond all challenges “Sa kahit anung hamon anung problema ilang bagyo delubyo man ang dumating sa inyong relasyon handa kayung harapin ito ng magkasama at nag uunawaan tungo sa maayos relasyon" Q

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not all people will like you.. they say you can’t please everybody”. That’s why I’m lucky that I have you.. because of that I’d be confident to say na “kahit mawla sila, basta anjan ka mabubuhay akong masaya"

Q

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Eleven Hints for Life .. .

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let them go. (probably find someone better, you deserve more)

3. The best kind of friend or a lover, is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say any word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

4. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives. (those who leave it’s their lost and those who came, well… .its worth dropping by or stayin’)

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. (you just have to move forward)

6. Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth, even that fades away.  Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. (in just those smile, that heart is yours.)

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other’s shoes.  If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life.  A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.  Live your life so that when you die, you’re the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

#QSays.. . ✌

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Roses are red Violets are blue... . Gamit ko ay boteng may barya rakrakan itu

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If you see it in your mind, and have the courage to speak it. It will happen.

Notorious Mcgregor

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You can't expect people to treat you how you want to be treated.

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Roses are red, Violets are blue... . Kingina ka c5.

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The moment you allow yourself to get hurt is when you know you are ready to fall in love... Again.

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Roses are red, Violets are blue... . Tanginang sale

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Roses are red, Violets are blue... . Ayoko na uminom..

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Roses are red, Violets are blue... Ano ba talaga tayo?

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