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every time i see people trying to normalize fatness by sexualizing it i think of that post thats like “what are you gonna tell a fucking 12 y/o? dont cry dude youre so thick? stop it” bc like. truly. not only do i personally not want my body to be sexualized lol but also its so harmful to kids like?? being fat is normal in all contexts not just when youre in lingerie with a beat face looking pouty at the camera like can we talk about the variances in human bodies without resorting to making them normal only when theyre sexy, my god

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at least i'm self aware 😌

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so-called “old man fuckers” when you desire a man over the age of 50

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calling my lover "mine" but not in the way that my toothbrush or notebook are mine, mine in the way my neighborhood is mine, and also everybody else's, "mine" like mine to tend to, mine to care for, mine to love. "mine" not like possession but devotion.

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Your reminder that sauna Levi exists...

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& they both think they’re the luckiest guy on earth

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Eddie: Hold on! I’m having one of those things... a headache with pictures.

Steve: What the fuck?

Wayne: He's having an idea.

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as a girl who is literally just a girl i am always yearning. always longing always missing always wearing my heart on my sleeve. always feeling like my heart is on the verge of exploding. the sight of the sun makes me cry. anyway

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oh. i just found out that the writer of the vincent van gogh doctor who episode wrote it as a tribute to his sister.

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Nancy in Fanon: Jonathan, I am so disappointed that you started smoking pot after I nobly taught you that poetry is just another way to rap! I must flee for the arms of Robin Steve?? Eddie???! a guy named Spencer or Grant and he has a watch and an office and a trashcan and a little basketball hoop on it and he plays as hard as he works. Because dammit, he deserves to blow off a little steam!

Nancy in Canon: Get in, loser, we’re going shopping to uncover a government conspiracy and drink vodka and have sex in a bunker! You won’t even know who Vonnegut is by the time I’m through with you!!!

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Asking for consent does not ruin the moment, like imagine a dom whispering into your ear:

“Can I make you feel good?” before fucking is hot.

”Do you want it?” in a deep and raspy voice before they slide themselves into you is hot.

“May I?” is simply just h o t.

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This bitch walked So she could run

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there's a tiktok trend where men blame their friend's ex girlfriend breaking up with their friend for the friend killing himself...you simply can't advocate mens mental health when all you do is blame women. so let's look deeper into this: it is not normal to kill yourself or want to kill yourself after a breakup. breakups can be devastating but if you immediately jump to suicide you are struggling with your mental health. the reason this happens specifically a lot with men is they feel they can only be vulnerable around a female partner due to seeing emotional vulnerability as a feminine trait. they don't feel as secure opening up to other men, even close friends. this is where the "being your boyfriend's therapist" thing comes from--and if you are relying on a romantic partner for your entire support system, you are not going to fare well in life, because not every relationship will last. you'll also end up in toxic relationships because you feel you always need to be in a relationship no matter what.

a lot of men in my family do this. of course it's unfair to the woman but I sympathize with them as well due to having similar issues. but what you have to understand is whether or not you pursue a life of empty human connection outside romantic relationships is your choice. there is an incentive to make this choice if you feel more secure in your identity because of it, but at the end of the day, is it really worth it?

my younger brother had a horrible breakup recently and has been able to cope only because of supportive friends, mostly women but some men. he's gay so it's not a woman in the scenario, but he has had the same misogynistic expectations pushed on him as straight men and lost a lot of male friends in high school because of it. the last time he had a breakup he was suicidal. this time he spent valentine's day with friends and they had a party. real friends that let him be himself even if it doesn't align with expected gender roles. this could be those tiktok boys if they put down that alpha male podcast 🙏🙏🙏

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creature in fiction: *is portrayed as bad and mean*

8 year old me: but what if there was a good and nice one :0

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u ever see someone with extremely fucked up views (or actions) and think wowww if a couple of things in my life went the tiniest bit differently that would have been me

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the thing is like. i get that it's scary and makes people who do desire to get pregnant uncomfortable when we talk about the brutality and violence of pregnancy and the damage that pregnancy can do to your body

but you deserve to give informed consent to that process.

the lies around pregnancy - that it's inherently safe, that it doesn't do you permanent damage, that it's only extremely rare for people to die of pregnancy complications, etc like

all of these are lies constructed so that more people will get pregnant w/o knowing all that

there needs to be more talk about the impact of miscarriages and how common they are, how different abortion processes are and how accessible they are

but also like. talking about how pregnancy fucks your body up should not be taboo

this is a process that permanently changes most people's bodies, and that's even if the pregnancy doesn't do them like. severe illness or injury

and i just think everybody should have a right to KNOW that

bc to live in a society that intentionally obscures and hides facts about a completely optional and dangerous process does so for a reason, and that reason is based in a very sinister ideology that does not value bodily autonomy or informed consent