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honestly the boundaries between friendship and romance don’t really matter that much like at all if everyone involved is ok with it

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reblog if it's okay for your mutuals to message you and create an actual friendship, not just interactions

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off you go my 007n7 design

adding my 007n7 designs to my strawpage gehahahaaa

also bonus n7 and ck hug i never finished and added

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Yesterday the girl in front of me at cross country told me to stop breathing so loudly.

Tf you want me to do. Stop breathing? 💀

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I think the only thing keeping me going at this point is my fucking transformers collection

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If you put a dish in a dishwasher, it gets washed. If you put a shirt in a dishwasher, it gets shredded and breaks the machine.

If you put a shirt in a washing machine, it gets washed. If you put a dish in a washing machine, it gets shattered and breaks the machine.

Maybe you are not weak. They just put you into the wrong washer.

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Heterosexual relationship culture is so alien to me and I don’t know if it’s the fact I’m not cishet or the fact I’m autistic but I hear so many things that make me go “Am I insane or are they?”

There’s a lot of hate on widowers and I saw a woman say “You cannot compete with a dead woman.” which is perhaps a reasonable statement to say if he’s constantly comparing you to his dead partner but that wasn’t what the post was about. And I realized “Oh my God, these people genuinely feel like they’re constantly in competition with their spouse’s exes and the ex being dead makes them feel insecure that they cannot best her.”

There’s also been an uptick in the ‘men and women cannot be ‘just’ friends’ rhetoric which I feel like is extremely dangerous and reflects the rise of fascism and sexism. Some of these stories of women feeling threatened by their husband’s female best friend have some merit and others are like “I feel angry that my husband still talks to the girl he grew up next door to and she and her wife are invited to family gatherings and included in family photos sometimes. Am I right to be suspicious?” No. No you’re not. I cannot imagine being you and living with that high level of stress and paranoia and constant torment and jealousy about your husband having a positive relationship with anyone who isn’t you.

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one of these days we'll get to see beyond the normal colour spectrum and also our rgb painting shit will as well. like we'll get to paint shrimp vision colours. until then vivid light layer mode will do

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There's people who have a religion, and there's Religious People. The first type is just normal people who happen to have a foundational structure they like to have their world built upon. The latter type are the kind that make me want to lean in and say "look, I would not even want to get into the kind of Heaven that would let you in."

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When a small kid decks their shit and starts screaming, it's apparently useful to ask them "are you more scared or more hurt?" because they might actually pause the shrieking to understand that adults might not automatically know what they are feeling, and that they can and should use words to communicate whether they need emotional support or medical attention.

I wonder if it could be applied to tumblr. Asking shrieking people "are you disagreeing with what OP said, or are you mad about the way they worded it?"

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While tumblr and ao3 have their wholesome relationship, roblox and youtube are engaging in toxic yaoi (only because both of them don't actually care about the kids or the safety of their users in general)

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A customer asked for pickles on their sub and I (dumbass) reached for the cucumbers. They quickly went “oh, no, I want pickles!” and I immediately said “they could’ve been pickles. in another life” ????? Why did I get hired????????

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hit the jackpot

So I went to the city and the transformers figure choices were so overwhelming that I decided not to take one /jk

( the next shelf was full of cyberverse Arcee)

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i'm sorry but a lot of you guys need to be writing short stories.

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"why now? why not then?"

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genuinely so obsessed with this twitter post

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Hi slahsor