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some of my favorite replies to this tweet. happy lesbian visibility week!

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unsung benefit i think a lot of ppl are sleeping on with using the public library is that i think its a great replacement for the dopamine hit some ppl get from online shopping. it kind of fills that niche of reserving something that you then get to anticipate the arrival of and enjoy when it arrives, but without like, the waste and the money.

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it's so funny how graffiti is like a non issue that effortlessly reveals peoples' reactionary tendencies.

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I was hanging out at the karaoke bar, chatting with a beautiful woman, and we were really hitting it off. I threw a couple of flirtatious comments her way. She giggled nervously, but abruptly stopped and looked at the floor.

She told me that she was too nervous to hit on people because she's trans and worries that people will view her as a predator and that she might get hurt.

My heart sank. I let her know that she could hit on me in whatever way she wanted and I would LOVE it. We spent the rest of the night hanging out and flirting. We ended up making out. It was great.

But I can't stop thinking about how that wasn't the first time a trans woman has said that to me. About how unsafe it is for some women that they feel the need to give out fucking disclaimers to have normal interactions with people.

We have GOT to make the world a safer place for trans women. It pisses me off that there are men at the bar who are openly predatory towards me without fear of consequence, yet a trans woman is too scared to even fucking call me pretty. And that's because she IS more likely to face worse consequences for lesser things! Like what the fuck!

You need to always check on your internalized biases. Being queer yourself doesn't absolve you of transmisogynistic thoughts and behaviors. Being bi/pansexual doesn't mean you don't hold those biases either! If you feel differently about a trans woman hitting on you than you feel about a cis woman or a man hitting on you, you need to evaluate that.

Trans women, I love you so fucking much. You should be able to express attraction and love as freely as everyone else. I hope you can always feel safe around me. And I'll never stop fighting until you can feel safe period.

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half my brain is in my teeth and I feel my consciousness eroding everytime I drink the warheads flavored energy drink but that shit taste's so guud plus I have a huge fucking bimbo fetish

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trying to blast thoughts of a gay makeout session into his brain using only my psychic power

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can i give y’all some genuine life advice? be the kind of friend you want to have. my whole life i’ve wanted friends who go out and take pictures of eachother and stay up late on the phone. i’ve always wanted friendship bracelets and pictures hanging on my walls. and now i have that becuase i became someone who took pictures of my friends and listens to what they have to say and invites them over when they feel sad. be someone you want to be friends with and i promise you others will want to be friends with you too.

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ok lets settle it. which laios is getting the best dick rn

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@it2017

you think you’re a better kisser than me??? you think you’re a better cuddler? come over here and prove it punk

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doing my duty of drawing skeleton falin

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and they say romance is dead Undead

Рыцарство и романтика немертвы

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🪦★Faggot pride flag

[PT: 🪦★Faggot pride flag. End PT]

A flag for those who reclaim the f slur. Inclusive to all faggots

Tagging friends; @polyfragmentedchaos (we made this 2gether :33) @ars3n1cc @joehallwayreal uhhhh ask 2 be tagged / taken off

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please don’t blame crowley for this

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epic aro sculpture i did for class

the heart is made out of plastic bags wrapped with tape, so it's squishy ^_^ and the knife is qtips hot glued together. the knife is also removable!

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every autistic person watching this episode of dungeon meshi:

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stpd culture is the feeling of not being able to truly relate with anyone, even if someone seems to have similar struggles to mine, even if they are schizotypal; i still feel lonely, distant, not understood… its alienating

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Just the ghoulies