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do u think emotional abuse can cause a system???
Like only emotional abuse as the 100% cause for a OSDDID system? No. Not even close in fulling any significant criteria for either OSDD or DID development. I certainly believe emotional abuse plays a role in the development of a system, but you should not ever logically suspect ONLY emotional abuse in causing OSDDID.
Dissociation is a response to truly painful stimuli. Sexual, physical, and neglectful abuse does proven harm to any child, both in body & in mind. OSDDID forms from the constant need to be ready to ignore chronic pain stimuli as soon as a trigger is recognized. Emotional abuse— while absolutely plays an impactful role on the survivors state of mind & confidence, is simply not categorized as pain stimuli in your brain.
People categorize emotional abuse into their core beliefs and opinions, which is why emotional abuse alone is not enough to develop a system.
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How do I come out to my parents as bi?
You just did, son. We still love you.
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REBLOG
I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT
To prove something to a friend, please
REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES
LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES
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Plural Culture is "I know we just switched. I am absolutely not the person who was just fronting.
But who the fuck am I??"
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The earliest use of "plural" as an identity label was as an inclusive alternative to "multiple," coined by endogenic systems in the 90s.
https://web.archive.org/web/19980115122056/http://www.asarian.org/~vickis/naming.html
Regardless, endogenics take terms related to systems as well as spaces that don’t want them so why can’t we do the same? Or is that not fair?
My main issue is that endogenics and proendos come into places that don’t want them.
But if everyone’s going to have a fit over a tag on Tumblr of all places, I’ll make my own tags that anti-endos can use lol
I’m also not reading all of that super small font.
I just find the constant coming into spaces that don’t want endos or their supporters really annoying.
But okay
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hey dawg I'd reconsider posting this https://www.tumblr.com/sysboxes/745238375357906944/text-this-system-has-a-jschlatt-factive-no-he?source=share considering Jschlatt is proven to be a violently racist person who's done a lot of horrible shit
Hey! Introjects are not their source. Regardless of what Jschlatt did (of which I genuinely know nothing about), an introject shouldn’t have to carry the burden of their source’s actions.
Furthermore, it’s incredibly healthy honestly for an introject to distance themselves from their source and not care about it. Removing the box would simply reinforce the idea that introjects need to associate and claim their source as part of them, rather than distancing themselves away from it.
(Also… read the box. That’s the whole point of it. The user doesn’t care. They don’t need to care. Genuinely confused by this ask, ngl.)
Kudos to introjects who can step away and not give a shit about their source 👍 You’re the real ones.
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thank you so much, we hadnt seen it until now ^^
-Corvid
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❥ 🍓 subsys/group:
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❥ 🩷 sourcetalk:
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❥ 🍂 nicknames:
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Read pined to use or request
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we were talking to our clinician about our system, and he said “DID is usually self diagnosable” and i joked like you’re gonna get cancelled. the system community crumbles as a licensed therapist supports system self diagnosis.
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Systems are allowed to lie!
My personal opinion is actually one I will not budge on; Systems are allowed to lie. To anyone I don't want to know, I can lie about how many alters I have! I can lie about how many fictives there are, in fact, I can lie if I am a fictive! I can lie to who they are talking to! I can lie about anything that we as a system do not want to share, for any reason!
Anything about the system information is not just personal but is inherently medical privacy. You need to only be honest with your psychiatrist or therapist.
While there might be a boundary someone has with a specific alter, that is different. But besides that, just because someone knows you are a system, does not mean they get to know about anything inside of it. You owe no one information, the disorder comes from trauma. No one deserves or has the right to your trauma. The exact same goes for reactions, coping, and results of that trauma.
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"don't make your illness your entire personality >:("
It's???? It's a personality disorder???? That's just what I am like????? What
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You know it was all fun when autistic people were referring to themselves and other autistic people as “acoustic”. It got a little cringey but was still relatively harmless when other people started commenting it as a joke under their friends/parasocial content creators videos of them geeking out about special interests or whatnot. But now people are using it as a synonym for stupid, and I’m not one to cry ableism often but it’s become people’s replacement for the r-word and that shit needs to stop yesterday.
TLDR: the “acoustic” meme was already dying but it needs to be killed faster.
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Shout out to systems who cant get diagnosed. Shout out to systems who split easily. Shout out to systems with high introject counts. Shout out to complex systems. Shout out to systems with mostly littles. Shout out to systems with small alter counts. Shout out to systems who dont want to get diagnosed cause they dont want it on their record. Shout out to systems with nonhuman alters. Shout out to systems
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anyway i looked up the post about seeing your grandma's boobs and tumblr has deleted the screenshot of the story where the finnish dude says that americans are "like that" because they haven't seen their grandma's tits
good job tumblr 👍
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I HAVE THE SAME ONES
It is a gradiant of light pink-light purple-and blue (so yes it is blue)
LOOPS

Please forgive the question in the alt text I am partially colorblind and genuinely can't tell if it's blue or another color
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reading the symptoms of autism as a now grown adult after being bullied for no explainable reason all your life
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Lord give me strength I must travel to the other side of my room
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