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Be thankful you matured. Or else you might sound like a regressor from 2017 but it’s 2021 and you learned about agere from tiktok and now you are saying inaccurate things in the comments section of an Anthony Padilla video. Yes I know the blog is dead and I bring it into the undead to complain. But as somebody with PTSD who was little t traumatized by agere the comments make my heart race a little too much.-Lyra 

(yes I did respond to comments we all make mistakes. I feel like the wise elder who has seen so much but can’t make the younger ones understand)

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Not to sound dramatic but.....

As lead MCR singer Gerard Way said

So long and goodnight

The ask box has been closed. 

Your admin,

Lyra

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The blog will close later today

I am 18 now. I feel stangly liberated from the bs of my teens even though that was over mostly by 16. A new chapter has opened. I thank you all and feel such deep affection for this blog and everyone who visited it.-Lyra

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Less than a week till this blog closes. Do you have any wisdom to share about navigating the Agere community? What have your learned? Were there any particularly enlightening moments?

So honestly the blog closing has yet to fully hit me (the fact I am turning 18 has yet to really hit me lol) but I have been trying to think about what I will be taking away from this blog. I mean for a blog so filled with drama during some. points I always loved being here so there must be a reason. 

I think I know the reason. 

The internet is filled with perspectives and many contradict. The backlash many people face for expressing an opinion is real and can have a huge impact. I think that leads to people being very set in their beliefs since nobody can challenge them if they remain unspoken. When I joined agere I was 13. I was immature and not yet aware of some mental health struggles (that I got treatment for in 2018) I wanted to fit in so I ended up becoming anti cglre...until I found this blog. One of the mods of a community in chire at the time used to get a ton of hate here and she would send us to defend her. I only ever sent one ask telling Evie how kind and caring this person actually was  (she was not) but this blog had all sorts of ideas. I realized cglre was not bad and when I had a falling out with chire this place became my refuge. I changed people’s mind and others changed my mind. Over time this place almost became a neutral ground that people could use to just talk. That’s important. I am seeing the new bunch of 12-19 year olds come in almost doomed to repeat the same mistakes. So here I what I learned.

Real life is not the internet: None of this matters offline or really impacts anything Life is 100% more nuanced than any of us want but that does not make it less true: It tends to come down to what is right for a person not sweeping statements

Predators are in agere too not just a risk for mik: agere tends to ignore the issues of minors participating in dd1g lite stuff and predators in our own community. As agere becomes less centralized to tumblr and people go to tiktok and insta the risk increases.  Now everything I have said here is for agere not for big issues. I would handle a bully or a wh**e supr3mac1s! very differently. But the biggest thing I learned is: agere is not a big deal. It’s just a way to relax, to process, to have fun it’s not high stakes. Just be nice to each other.

The most enighting moment was realizing I was not a bad regressor or a bad person. This was something I realized many times. When I got kicked from chire, when I joined this blog, when I realized I had to leave for k!nk. I was never bad I was just doing things differently and that’s ok.  

I am thankful for all the conversations we had even the repetitive ones, the ones that ended in insults, the stuff I had to ban. While not all of it was fun or even good I am glad it had a place I think it reduced the game of telephone we all play by having everything in one place. I am thankful for age dreaming, cglre, the anons who has nicknames since we saw them so much, the people who felt safe enough to dm me, the people who tell me I helped them in some way, the three or so posts left in the seasonal regression tag, and of course Evie plus some other close friends and everyone on the RU discord server from 2017-2019 

When I look around and at myself I am not the same person who joined this place. The hair I grew so long  now just grazes my chin, I am taller, I can see my stuffies and the bag I keep my pacis but I also see my DBT book and my ear defenders, my combat boots and my bold makeup. I have grown and changed but in some ways I am still the same. I giggle at everything and hug my stuffies and dream of finding somebody who loves me for me. 

I think what I want people to know is you can be mature and small. And I know many of you are not adults or even close and I only became like this at my age due to so much being thrown at me at once online. so some of you might not be in the same spot. That’s ok, but please don’t go out of your way to be hurtful. Don’t send hate mail or call your fellow regressors things they have to hear from the outside world anyway. 

I was only able to grow when I felt accepted. I spent so long in agere in defence mode and I hope others don’t have to do the same. 

I know this was long I wrote this while super sleep deprived but thank you for the question!-Lyra     

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Will you be leaving this blog up when you go? I really hope you do so that history pertaining to temrs like agedre aren't lost :(

Yes. In a very niche community this is history and while parts of it are not so great I want to live up to our name and leave it up for little time capsule of sorts. 

And yes I am so proud that communities and terms that are now big parts of agere as a whole started here. It’s amazing the amount we did with the space we had. I feel like I get so mushy everytime I answer an ask now but I am truly so proud. I started coming to terms with letting this blog go almost 6 months ago and now it’s less than three weeks away (19 days) so I can’t help being a bit sentimental. Thank you so much for visiting this blog.-Lyra

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27 days till the 27th! I will shutting down @lyra-has-a-blog soon and then I will just hang out till my birthday and shut down the blog.

Anyway that’s all the updates from me!-Lyra

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Here's some cute forest puppies we saw while leaving work! -Demetri

oooo I love them!!-Lyra

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46 days a.k.a 1.5 months until this blog shuts down. I still have one thing an anon submitted that I need to look into more but other than that this blog is going to start winding down. Feel free to send any asks you have in but don’t try to start any drama you can’t clean up in a month.

also I am going through some personal stuff related to life transitions so any nice asks are appreciated 

The end times (for this blog) are near so let's celebrate all we have done. If people want to send in favorite moments or just tell me stuff go ahead!

My personal moment that sticks with me is a person sending in asks talking about something that would become age dreaming i spent an evening seeing how this idea really took shape and now I have seen age dreaming on tumblr to discord to tik tok to youtube comments! I feel proud that we have a supportive enough environment new things could be made.

Anyway that’s all for now!-Lyra

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Regressors beware! Piper is trying to join our community this is very dangerous. For evidence of her predatory behaviour please search pipertheviper. Keep safe babies.

-Lyra

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sooo I just posted an RU thing to my main on my not agere account....my cousin follows me on there. I got rid of it fast but wow lots of adrenaline lmao-Lyra 

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thank you so much for your reply lyra!! your blog has helped me so much and i cant put into words how much it means to me. im so happy youre moving onto better things and i wish you nothing but the absolute best! have a happy new year too :)

Thank you so much! I am glad that this blog has helped others like it has helped me. I hope you have a wonderful new year!!-Lyra

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I have screenshots and evidence that an agere influencer with over 50k followers on tiktok says racial slurs and I'm not sure if I should drop the stuff on this blog or not fdghjkl

I mean if you wanna then sure. Dm me @lyra-has-a-blog-Lyra

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Does anyone know any places to buy adult onesies that have websites similar to littles laboratory in that it doesn’t really use abdl or c/g/l and variant type language? I like onesies for my child alters and myself but if the sites I know that’s the only one that isn’t triggering for us (littleforbig website is very triggering for us) amazon hasn’t really helped much in finding what we want.

I have seen some if you search on etsy. Also I am so sorry for the late reply my inbox was not alerting me.-Lyra

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Previous anon with the bad situation um my cashtag is $faerie97 for anyone who is able to and wants to help me thank you for the offer for me to do this and thank you to anyone who helps

-Lyra

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im into the kink side of things but i also regress completely nonsexually. these sides of my life are intertwined bc its all still me, but theyre also pretty separate since i dont wanna hear about kink when im small. is there a place for me online? a server i can join or blogs i could follow? i feel like nobody shares my experience :(

there are some communities that allow dual comm and I knew of some nscgl blogs on tumblr but I think since 2018 so many of there tags have been purged and blocked that they left. There are 100% people like you but I think most hang out in nscgl places and less on tumblr these days. I hope you are able to find a place soon! Regression on tumblr has sorta disintegrated over the years due to drama and some places getting caught in the 2018 bans. I wish I could have been more helpful. I wish you luck!!-Lyra

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Me: *is going to leave agere soon*

Also me: *starts age regressing a lot again* 

(I have not actually publicly regressed (as in talked about it much online) for like two years+ now and I can still regress all I want in kink but I found this to be funny timing))-Lyra

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maybe the anon trying to get away from abuse could maybe share their cashtag here or some way some of us could send to help them maybe?

yes that would be great!-Lyra