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Hope for Clexa???

Since Clarke had the flame at one point. Does that mean when she dies she’ll join Lexa and the other commanders?!?!? Please tell my poor broken Clexa heart that this is what will happen

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This I bonkers to me (FYI this is just my experience) people with the most broken families recognize how important family is, but people with good supportive families take them for granted. One of my exes had an amazing family. Supportive, helpful, etc. when I explained to him that my family is my top priority over him. He told me he should be that priority. We had been dating for a month. Another ex came from a broken family. His mom was an alcoholic his father was never around parents divorced abusive, and this guy understood exactly how much my family meant to me. We even incorporated him into our family dinners/hangouts we had every weekend. I know both sides of this story. My dad is my broken side. My mom is my support beam. Let me tell you. There is nothing more important then your family especially if you have a supportive one. Don’t take them for granted.

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BOI NO ONE TOLD ME IT ALL KEEPS GOING DOWN HILL. WHERE IS THE PEACE. THE SAFETY. WHY IS PIKES HEAD NOT ON A PIKE. WHY DOES ICE NATION SIT ON LEXAS THRONE. WHY IS LINCOLN DEAD. I HAVE LOST TOO MUCH TODAY. This show I slowly twisting a dagger into my heart repeatedly and I am not okay with it.

3x07 of the 100 killed me. I hate this goddamn show. Bellarke best step it up to even come close to what Clexa was. My poor cinnamon roll is gone. May we meet again. Long live Lexa.

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3x07 of the 100 killed me. I hate this goddamn show. Bellarke best step it up to even come close to what Clexa was. My poor cinnamon roll is gone. May we meet again. Long live Lexa.

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I also forgot to mention that Pike can go float himself. That is all.

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Umm no one told me Lexa was going to be that badass. I mean I knew she was going to be cool, but when she killed the Ice Queen I mean damn. Clarke you best keep her. #Iwoulddieforlexa

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SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME WHY THE COULDNT LET WELLS LIVE WITH CLARKE AND HAVE THE GOOD LIFE BOTH OF THEM DESERVED. I HATE HIS DAMN SHOW AND ITS EPISODE THREE.

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This is a big, giant list of Youtube tutorials that will teach you all the basic life skills you need to know in order to be a functional adult. There are a lot of important skills that aren’t included in this list, but this should be enough of a basic guide to get you started and prevent you from making a total mess of yourself. Happy adulting! Household Skills:

How to unclog a toilet without a plunger

How to fix a blown fuse

How to fix a leaky faucet 

How to clean soap scum from your tub and shower

How to escape from a house fire

How to make a budget and stick to it

How to sharpen a knife

How to clean a self-cleaning oven

How to clean red wine stains from carpet

How to clean blood stains from fabric

How to clean grease stains from fabric

How to do a load of laundry

How to iron your clothes

How to test your smoke detectors

Cooking Skills:

How to tell if produce is ripe

How to know if food is expired 

How to properly sanitize a kitchen

How to cook an egg

How to make rice

How to make pasta

How to put out a kitchen grease fire safely

How to use a gas stove

How to use a convection oven

How to cook meat safely

How to use a stand mixer

How to use kitchen knives properly

How to make mashed potatoes

How to make grilled cheese sandwiches 

Health Skills:

How to stop bleeding

How to treat a burn 

How to do CPR (on an adult)

How to do CPR (on a child)

How to do CPR (on a baby)

How to help someone who is choking

How to save yourself if you are choking alone

How to read a nutrition label

How to treat frostbite

How to recognize when someone is having a stroke

How to maintain a healthy sleep schedule

Mental Health Skills:

How to calm down during a panic attack

How to help someone who is suicidal 

How to meditate 

How to stop self-harming

How to recognize problem drinking

How to choose a therapist

How to deal with disappointment

How to cope with grief

How to raise your self-esteem

Relationship and Social Skills:

How to apologize

How to cope with a breakup 

How to accept criticism 

How to deal with bullying 

How to argue in a healthy way

How to ask someone out

How to break up with someone

How to recognize an abusive relationship

How to rekindle a damaged friendship

How to speak in public

Job Hunting Skills:

How to tie a tie

How to write a resume

How to write a cover letter

How to dress for a job interview (for women/femmes)

How to dress for a job interview (for men/masculines)

How to properly shake hands

How to nail a job interview

Other Skills:

How to sew on a button 

How to hammer a nail

How to change your oil

How to put gas in your car

How to jump-start a car

How to pick a good password

How to back up your files

How to write a cheque

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Today I had to stop for gas. I filled up my car easy peasy. During this I noticed an older man was in a pickup beside me. I know he finished fueling before I did. I didn’t think much of it but I finished fueling my car and waited for his car to drive by before heading towards the store to get sunflower seeds. He saw me going in and flipped right back around into his spot next to mine. Red flags were going off because it was 8 o clock the only other people there were in a rundown shady car. I went in got my stuff and came back out ready to defend myself if need be. Right as I was going to get into my car he pulled up in front of me and said, “I just wanted to make sure you got into your car alright. I hope I didn’t worry you.” Then he drove away. There are few good men left in today’s screwed up messy world, but I was lucky enough to meet one today.

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Grey Rey training.

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Something inside me has always been there. But now it’s awake… and I’m afraid. I don’t know what it is or what to do with it and I need help.

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DON’T MAKE COMMENTS ON CHILDREN’S WEIGHT

This is the fucking reason for my disorder

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when a woman is faster, stronger, better at sports - it’s because “she’s on enhancement drugs” “she’s manly” “the sport is easier when it’s played by girls.” 

when a woman is smarter, classier, makes more money - it’s because “she studies something easy” “slept her way to the top” “used affirmative action to get what she needs”

“overwhelmingly, men are perpetrators of mass violence” i say. this is a fact. i am reminded not to be too generalizing, because that isn’t fair. not all men, after all.

women are used to this. when we hold up serena williams, laverne cox, mae c. jemison to prove: we can do the same as you. we are told: no, those are the exception. there’s something wrong in the system or in them that makes it so they rose above their station. they’re not like other women. but every woman who is bitter, bitchy, cruel: they’re proof all women have personalities that follow the stereotype rules. it doesn’t matter that women are better surgeons, girls do better than boys in school, women are better leaders, better lawyers, are better at investing and finances, better drivers. but all women are stupid, hysterical, emotional messes that can’t drive and would nuke the country if someone called them a mean name.

but it’s not all men. not all police officers. not all frat boys. not all, just some bad apples, just some, don’t i know to judge people on the content of their character and not on who they are.

from the time they’re young, boys are given the benefit of the doubt. from the time girls are young, they’re told the majority of them will drown.

people are scrambling to figure out what is wrong with american schools that girls are doing so much better. maybe it’s because girls are suddenly now more likely to be morning people? is it unfair grading? is it some type of learning-style difference? is it all the exposure to female teachers? after all, if girls are doing so much better, there’s something wrong, right? there’s something wrong with the system?

men overwhelmingly are to blame for mass violence. just last night i watched a reporter ask the camera: “is this because of the women in his life?”

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Save a lesbian from conversion therapy

My name is Cara and I live with my abusive family. My mom saw me kiss a girl and shaved my head

This was me before

This is me right now

She’s sending me to conversion therapy in a week and I really need funds to get a room before that happens.

I have a Venmo where my username is @CaraSchaum

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