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Me: Thought crimes aren't real and fantasies are allowed to be fucked up because it isn't real and isn't hurting anyone.

Some rando: Okay but you definitely support me wanting to attack and kill people for THESE fantasies though, right?

If I meant an exception I would have added it. I do not think anyone should ever be punished or locked up for their thoughts or fantasies. Yes that includes the really icky ones. It includes art/fantasy where the person wants to be the aggressor (even if its not consensual), a person who imagines being a victim, any kink or paraphilia under the sun and the ones only known by sea urchins.

If you think someone deserves to be punished for "bad thoughts" You are a fucking FASCIST. Actions are what matter. Someone could think about murdering his neighbor every single day multiple times a day and as long as he doesn't do it, he's not guilty. Appeal to disgust is worthless and will only ever be used to punished "undesirables". And the people in power will always make the people they hate fit the criteria. You can literally see it being done now when politicians claim all trans people are groomers. Stop perpetuating fucking fascist shit.

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I simply do not understand how people can think writing about things that aren't real is bad. Its not real. Its not a real thing why are you mad.

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Actor Jonathan Joss was just murdered for being gay and married to a trans man. On the first day of pride 2025. He was best known for playing John Redcorn on King of the Hill.

I had no idea he was gay but he was married to a man named Tristan Kern de Gonzales (on valentines day 2025!)

They lived in San Antonio Texas where his family is from and he grew up. He was 59.

In Janurary 2025 his home was burned down which made news. It killed some of his beloved dogs. He didnt elaborate beyond he believed it was arson (gofundme is still up and i suggest donating to help his funeral costs and his husband

Update: de Gonzales says hes fine he just wants justice but i still think its nice)

Now we know he and his husband had been threatened by several neighbors for being queer. They told pigs, pigs being pigs did nothing before or after it happened.

Yesterday Joss and his husband went to check their mailbox wherein they found one of their dogs skulls (statement from his husband

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As they weeped and mourned in shock, a neighbor, Sigfredo Alvarez Ceja, came out and aimed at de Gonzales…but Joss jumped in front of the bullet and was instantly killed.

Ceja, homophobia murdering coward, tried to take off but de Gonzales had called pigs who vaguely tried to do something. He was arrested and his bail set for $200k. Or as my sister said who the fuck sets bail for a murderer?

San Antonio.

De Gonzales is clearly mourning, posting pics on Hoss’ fb page. This one really struck me

This is why we need pride people, and not rainbow capitalism. Please donate to the gofundme and let san antonio cops knows what you think. De Gonzales said multiple neighbors had threatened them…id like to see those people investigated for arson.

Go into pride with rage and knowing. Have joy, kiss puppies, dont bow to homophobes. And maybe enjoy a little king of the hill.

UPDATE

Jonathan Joss’ husband Tristan kern de Gonzales identifies as trans on his facebook page.

Which explains the ramp up of hate and why the murderer shot at de Gonzales (Joss pushed him out of the way). So this is also a transphobia related murder

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i figured tumblr would appreciate this more than pinterest.

pinterest @/alightcaseof_ohno

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some of the kindest people you’ll ever meet are blogging about blood and guts at 10 in the morning

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"What were you doing at the devils sacrament" jarking my whole thing off. Next quiestuon.

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I truly hate the word "unalive." There are so many other euphemisms that fictional Italian mobsters worked so hard to provide you with and you just ignore them.

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love downloading a pdf to never read. just in case. like lol. you’re coming home with me

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why do people pretend to care about mental health and trauma and "accepting yourself" until someone says they have a paraphilia. like literally. it's all "you are not your intrusive thoughts" until someone goes "hey i have a fixation i didn't ask for, i don't want it, i hate it, but it's the only thing that gets me off" and suddenly it's pitchforks and "kill yourself freak" in the replies. where’s all that compassion you scream about when the subject is palatable?

you literally cannot choose a paraphilia. it's not a kink. it's not "oh haha i like to be tied up but i can still nut without it." no. it's "if i don't think about this one very specific, very disturbing thing, i literally can't finish." it's often connected to trauma. it's often not even something people like. it’s just there. it's a loop. it eats your brain. you didn't choose this. you didn’t vote yes on your own wiring.

and no one talks about how horrifying that feels. how fucking shameful. how humiliating it is to be stuck with something that makes you hate yourself every time you cum. how alien it feels to try and connect with another person sexually, knowing you have to fake it or hide it or lock it down in your skull like a rabid dog in a basement.

and the worst part? you don’t act on it. you go to therapy. you read every article on self-control. you develop a moral code so rigid it cuts into your own skin. and people will still treat you like a monster just for existing. just for thinking. you become a prisoner of your own mind, and instead of people helping you manage that, they tell you to jump off a fucking bridge. they’d rather you be dead than complicated.

like. you can believe something is wrong. you can believe something should never ever ever be acted on. i get that. that’s fucking fine. but you can believe that without advocating violence against people who have never hurt anyone. you can hold space for "this person has a dark corner in their brain" and "this person is still deserving of safety and dignity and help."

but no. you want to be a thought cop. you want to be a vigilante for things that exist only in someone’s locked skull, in their private shame spiral, in their browser history they delete with shaking hands. you think if you scream loud enough you’ll never have to sit with the fact that being human is messy and sometimes ugly and not everything fits in your "good guy" box.

leave people alone. especially the ones who are hurting and not hurting others. you are not the fucking morality police. you are not god. stop playing executioner just because someone was brave enough to admit they’re struggling with something you don’t understand.

and maybe. idk. grow the fuck up. stop being so afraid of your own shadow that you try to erase everyone else's.

fuck you.

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don’t even get me started on how people treat pocd, zocd, iocd, all the “bad thought” ocd subtypes like they’re a crime and not a mental illness.

like. literally. how are you gonna scream “intrusive thoughts aren’t actions!! mental health matters!! don’t believe everything your brain tells you!!” and then turn around and crucify someone who says “hey, i have obsessive thoughts about hurting people and it makes me want to die because i would never actually do it.” like how do you not see the hypocrisy in that???

do you know what it’s like to have a brain that throws the worst possible thought at you every time you feel safe or happy? to be holding a baby and your brain goes “what if you drop them?” or kissing someone and your brain goes “what if you’re assaulting them right now?” and then it won’t stop. it loops. it eats you alive. you cry. you spiral. you throw up. you pray to a god you don’t even believe in to make it stop.

and then you google it. and you find out it’s ocd. you finally feel seen. finally understand that your brain is just misfiring and you’re not some hidden predator. and you think—maybe i can heal.

but then you see how people talk about pocd. or zocd. or violent intrusive thoughts. you see how they call people freaks. monsters. pedos. abusers. how they don’t even try to understand what those acronyms mean. they hear one word and decide you should be dead. and suddenly you’re right back in the spiral. hating yourself. afraid to ask for help. too ashamed to speak.

you know who doesn’t seek help? people who are terrified they’ll be treated like a predator for having a mental illness. people who are told their thoughts are crimes even when they’re horrified by them. people who hear “you should kill yourself” one too many times and start to believe it.

so no. having pocd doesn’t mean you’re a pedophile. it means your ocd latched onto the worst possible fear because that’s what ocd does. it’s not attraction. it’s not desire. it’s fear. it’s obsession. it’s torture.

same with zocd. same with iocd. same with harm ocd. if you can’t wrap your head around that, then stop talking. stop pretending you care about survivors or mental health or empathy if you’re gonna throw people under the bus the second their pain isn’t pretty.

people are allowed to be scared of themselves. they’re allowed to say “my brain is cruel to me” without you interpreting it as a confession. they’re allowed to exist. to breathe. to get better.

stop treating mental illness like a moral failing. stop acting like empathy only applies to disorders you personally find relatable. stop pretending you’re the good guy when all you’re doing is making suffering people suffer more.

you’re not helping. you’re not protecting anyone. you’re just cruel.

and if that makes you uncomfortable? good. maybe you’ll finally fucking sit with it.

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since theres been a lot of kink posts today, and some of you may not know what some terms are so allow me to explain R.A.C.K. and S.S.C. for the class,

R.A.C.K. stands for Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.

that means:

risk-aware → we know what we’re doing isn’t “safe” in the bubble-wrapped, soft-hands, vanilla sense. we’re doing things that can hurt. that can leave marks. that play with power, fear, control, pain, shame, etc.

consensual → everything is negotiated, agreed upon, talked about before anything starts. you say yes, they say yes, and if someone says no? it doesn’t happen. period. safewords are a big deal in kink, scenes end immediately without question* when used.

kink → not therapy, not morality, not your business unless you’re invited. we’re doing what gets us off, what makes us feel alive, what makes us feel powerful or small or free or filthy or real.

it’s not about being 100% safe. it’s about understanding the risks, communicating openly, and choosing to do it anyway—together. it’s not reckless. it’s intentional.

S.S.C. stands for Safe, Sane, and Consensual.

and yes, that’s exactly what it sounds like.

safe → not “zero risk,” not “nothing bad can ever happen,” but safe as in informed, prepared, and practiced. we’re not winging it. we’ve read the guides. we’ve learned how to tie a knot that won’t cut off circulation. we know where to hit and where not to hit. we’re not out here doing surgery with a butter knife — we’re doing kink with intention.

sane → we’re of sound mind. we’re making decisions with full awareness, not in a dissociative fog or under pressure. sane doesn’t mean “boring.” it means we’re grounded. we understand the difference between fantasy and reality — which is more than i can say for the people throwing tantrums over someone’s consensual knife play scene.

consensual → (again) the golden rule. the backbone of everything. the full, enthusiastic, informed “yes.” not coerced, not manipulated, not assumed. every scene, every role, every toy and word and title is agreed on before anything happens. you don’t get to play if you don’t get consent.

S.S.C. is the foundation. it's what separates us from abusers. it's what turns kink from chaos into care. it’s the baseline that says “you matter, and i want this to be good for you.”

no one’s saying you have to like what other people are into.

no one’s asking you to watch.

spoiler: if it’s done with safety, sanity, and consent? it’s not your business to shame.

you don’t have to like it. you don’t have to understand why someone wants to get caned until they cry or call their partner “sir” while scrubbing the floor.

but if it’s consensual and informed and everyone involved knows the game they’re playing? it’s not your place to shame them for it.

if you see people in a scene that doesn’t fit your comfort zone, and your first reaction is to scream “abuse!!!” like a purity culture parrot? maybe take a second and ask yourself if you actually understand what you’re looking at.

so next time you feel like opening your mouth to say “this is abuse!!!” or “why would anyone want that :(”

maybe shut up and google what things mean first. because some of us are out here building trust and pushing limits and doing the work—while you’re just yelling into the void because you don’t get it.

read. listen. grow.

* without question: your partner will not judge you , they will not be angry. they will make sure you are okay and safe after. then they may ask what they can change (if anything) to avoid you safewording in the future. its to assure your safety. dont be ashamed to safeword ever

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As pride month begins, let us not forget our Palestinian brothers and sisters.

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Happy Pride Month everyone! Remember 4 months ago when the CEO of this platform harassed and chased a trans woman off this website just for posting her transition timeline, then chased her to other social media platforms to continue harassing her, and threatened to call the FBI if she continued disputing the multiple dubious terminations of her blogs that did not violate tumblr's terms of service in any way? And despite tumblr staff insisting that the CEO was acting against their interests, the broad transmisogyny evident in the site's culture and moderation policy has still not been adequately addressed?

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I feel like some of you guys think "bad art" is like someone gluing rhinestones to a water melon, or a guy who made his own armchair out of Ohio license plates, or a trashy romance novel where someone says "the blue-eyed one kissed the brown-eyed one," when in reality bad art is a 1000000 Billion Dollar movie where none of the workers got paid and every single creative decision was market tested to see how lucrative of a profit it could foreseeably make to wow shareholders.

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they’ll call her a villain for the most sane view of thinking children should stay alive and be with their families. i love you ms rachel