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I'm so mad because I just met someone in the community and they're getting asks. I'm so jealous, but I can't say anything because we aren't even a thing yet.

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https://www.tumblr.com/rqconfess/786729570297626624/it-might-be-im-just-searching-in-the-wrong-parts

hello anon! we ARE transroyalty in fact!! (and some transgods) but unfortunately we are closeted lmao </3

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*crab crawls in side ways* psssst, I think Black Magic by Little Mix could be interpreted as a Radqueer song, with this in mind, go listen to it(if you're fine with pop music and/or their music ofc) and see what I am seeing in the lyrics.

-👑🦅 (second ask in a row, I know but I couldn't help but share my revelation)

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I'm making a pride edit that will go on my private Tiktok that showcases my transIDs, I really only have a few family members that I actually have following me.

And one of them is my Mom, who I've mentioned TransID to before and shown her the definition, and she's pretty chill about it. I've already implied that I am a part of the TransID community without outright saying it, but I've never told her what my transIDs are.

This is nerve-wracking for me, which is part of why I'm doing my coming out for a couple of my IDs via an edit, as my edits are something I'm proud of.

If I'm right it should go well, as I know the family members I have following me(which are ofc my mom + 2 others) are pretty open minded. Besides if they have any questions they know they can ask me, even if I get a little embarrassed about it, because I'm still nervous about coming out as such things.

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i hate people who say that they’re pro para, pro endo, pro transid and pro radqueer but somehow they “aren’t radqueer”. what are you talking bout

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i think the transharmful label fits me but like.im very submissive and not at all dominant and i feel like you need to be dominant to be transharmful??? ough..

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Saw a post being a fucking dick so i'll say this. It is %100 okay if you do not want to label yourself as radqueer even if you support transIDs and Paras. It is %100 okay if you perfer to label yourself as neutral or something different. Anyone who tries to force any form of label on you are fucking stupid, and do not know your experiences. It is one thing to suggest a label to someone, it is a completely different thing to go "well obviously yur [blank] if you [blank] and if you disagree you're a terrible person" to someone. I cannot believe we have to fucking say "hey don't force labels on anyone" in the fucking radqueer community.

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Being RQ and having partners for years before you became RQ (and even before RQ was coined) and you all become RQ and it makes you feel like a huge oddball within the community.

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i feel like i don't belong in rqc because all the time i see posts about transharmful/transharmed folks and their fantasies/desires, and i just flinch away. i even avoid kinks that involve pain. i feel like i'm just a snowflake here. i just want comfort and not this 💔 like pls don't hurt me ever, i wanna be held and patted on the head

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im sorry for not posting your asks , ive been having horrible stomach pains lately and just didnt feel like doing anything😭😭

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other rq dating problem: everyone has dated in the community and everyone's ex is everywhere wtf you can't date a rq without their 7 evil exes

this made me giggle

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a rq partner would be nice but most rqs have no clue actually how to manage a relationship so that sucks

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We used to be HEAVILY anti proship, darkship, radqueer ect and thought they were disgusting but after we joined the radqueer community for 4 months our mental health actually IMPROVED 😦 rq community is so much more accepting than any anti we've ever met,,

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Researching schizophrenia in school and having a teacher tell me (and the class) that any of us could develop schizophrenia in the future was an awakening for me (transschizophrenic)

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Gonna be honest I joined radqueer spaces because I was desperate for a place where ppl affirm my delusions and now I’m seriously questioning my morals

I’m not even in it for the delusions anymore I just like. Accidentally became two different people with different moral codes.

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it sucks to be submissive/a bottom and rq because literally everyone else is holy shit every nsfw post is abt how much of a sub everyone is where are the rq doms and tops

anon this is very real

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I've seen the tags "radqueer nsft" and "radq nsft" being used recently so I think if more people started tagging their posts with that then we wouldn't have the issue of not being able to filter out nsft posts in the radqueer tags

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