Closeted aro/ace transfem
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 3 hours ago
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reblog if you've made a good friend on tumblr.
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 3 hours ago
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Hi :3
Calling trans women pretty princess may not pay at all, but know how blushy it makes their faces, that’s all I need to get by
(To the transfem reading this, hi there pretty princess)
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 3 hours ago
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@satan-offical what are you doing to the king?
Hey yall today for dinner i am havin BURGER! God bless anerica
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 3 hours ago
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what do I have to do to go to events where people are dressed nicely and there are plates of free cheese cubes
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 3 hours ago
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“Stop pushing sex onto kids!”
Sexuality includes romantic attraction and it always has. It is not solely about sex.
Being straight, you are attracted strictly to someone of the opposite gender, whether that be in a romantic, sexual —or a combination of both— way.
That is the exact same as being gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc. The gender simply changes.
I don’t look and assume a straight couple is talking openly about their sex life to everyone.
Quit having sex be the first thing and the only thing that comes to mind when you see or hear about an LGBTQ+ person/couple.
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 7 hours ago
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Let it shrivel up and die
“You shouldn't make fun of Donald Trump's conditi-” Nah
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 20 hours ago
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Me
who keeps breaking into my freezer and replacing the trays full of little water with ice cubes
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 20 hours ago
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This is how I feel ever time I try and explain me being aro/ace to other people
"aros can still date" well i don't want to. "aros can be in qprs" well i don't want to. "aros can still get married" i cannot stress enough how much i don't want to do that. "it can be completely platonic" i don't care i still don't want to. "aros can still go on dates and kiss people and act indistinguishably from an alloromantic person" why are you so hell bent on us fitting into amatonormative society as much as possible. "aros can still love" is this just to make you feel better? it feels like it's just to make you feel better
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 21 hours ago
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remaking because the last post died. I'm a schizospec chronically ill trans guy who's currently unable to continue commission work due to my worsening physical pain and fatigue. currenty I have no other form of income, yet I still need to afford things such as groceries and basic necessities.
my disability benefits are currently being processed, but I have zero clue when I'll start getting them. I'll set a tentative goal of £150 to help cover all of my expenses next month + help my girlfriend out with bills. please share around and help out if you can. thank you all so so much
ppal. don't tag as anything please
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 21 hours ago
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Same
I wanna be able to wear swimsuits.
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 21 hours ago
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The broiler at my work now with 100% more tongs in it
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do it :3
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 22 hours ago
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I want to make a d&d character that uses they/them pronouns
not because they nonbinary they’re just 2 goblins in trench coat
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 1 day ago
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The mana instant speed tutors are game changers because they are instant speed and one mana being able to find the right card for your next draw based on what every other player did for just one mana is really powerful and crop rotation puts any land onto the battlefield from your library so yes you can find a field of the dead but you could also find a blast zone or gaes cradle or Talon gate and game changers aren’t defined by should this card be countered otherwise a lot of other cards would be on their like etali primal conqueror or atraxa game changers are game changers because of their play patterns not wether or not it’s counter on sight hence why a lot of mox’s and other cheap rocks are on there but a lot counter/kill on sight cards aren’t
yes yes it is
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 2 days ago
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Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.
You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 2 days ago
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Reblog if you want kisses from a silly trans girl
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 2 days ago
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Hey can we stop treating trans men as less than us it’s extremely fucked up they’re going through the same shit as us (just the other way) and deserve just as much respect as we do
A cis woman tells me that maybe she should transition to gain male privilege as I'm recovering from getting beaten up in the men's bathrooms.
I tell her to be my guest and give me a call when she gets her jaw broken, I always carry a first aid kit and a pepper spray.
She calls me a misogynistic asshole.
A cis man tells me that he'd sure love some T.
Gave him my prescription and best of luck with the constant shortages and getting denied.
He calls me a pussy.
I'm fighting for my life and reproductive rights. I get told to get off women's fights, that it's not about me, like I shed my womb after my first T shot.
I search for support groups for SA victims, and I'm stuck in the same “women/NBs only”. Still shooting my shot, send an application. I introduce myself. Never get a call back.
I go to a trans night. Say I go by he/him. Get told back “yeah, that's how we all start !” by a trans woman. I'm too exhausted, I get up and I leave.
I hang out with my friends, one of them drunkenly says masculinity is a prison we must learn to escape. She gets rows of applause. Back to drinking alone.
Yes I could explain it. But who'd you rather be ? A delusional girl or a man made threat ?Or it could be better, I could just not exist ! And we'd bleach my corpse and I'd become a casualty. Not an F, ot an M, a W for Wound and for Wrong.
I put a candle on a single cupcake, 2 years on HRT. I blow it in the dark. Curtains closed like casket.
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ruby-the-nekomancer · 2 days ago
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my granddad just called me to tell me how big his cauliflowers are growing and it was so cute theyre “TWICE as big as the ones you get in the shop”
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