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“The hardest part of letting go is understanding that the other person is okay without you.”

— B.M.

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One day, you’ll remember the girl who loved you so much that she forgot to love herself. You’ll remember her when you wake up, when you eat, when you’re about to sleep. She will be your greatest nightmare. You will be the one crying, and she will be the one happy with someone else.

One day, you’ll regret losing her. You lost the girl who did everything for you. You lost the girl who was always there for you when no one else is. You lost her because of your ego. You lost the girl who stayed by your side even if you threw harsh words to her. You lost the girl who tried to understand you when she needed you and you were not there.

One day, you’ll realize that she was the one for you. The girl who stood by your side even if you don’t appreciate her. The girl you chose to let go because you’re full of pride. One day, you’ll realize that the girl you screwed up and left for another girl, was the girl who kept on fighting and defending you when she hears gossips about you.

One day, you’ll see her happy and contented with the life she have when you left her. She will thank you for letting her go and for making her realize she is worth of something so much better, that there is someone out there who is willing to do everything for her. She will look into your eyes with no feelings for you at all.

One day, when you see her, you will feel like you’ve been stabbed in your heart a millions times for giving up on her. And when that day comes, no matter what you do, no matter what you say to her, it will not make sense because she was already done spending years of her life trying to make you love her as she loved you…. But you didn’t.

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a relationship where you don’t have to beg for time, attention, or love >>>

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Being called “my love” >>>>>>>>

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Grabe yung ulan. Bigla ka na lang pag-iisipin. Tapos kahit di ka malungkot, malulungkot ka na lang bigla. Haha!

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Rainy days are for overthinking.

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here to remind you...

...that it'll get better.

it may take some time but you'll get through this.

you've faced challenges in the past and whatever the outcome may have been, you were able to move past them. you can do it again.

keep going on. keep believing in yourself ✨

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one day, it feels like i’m healing but then, the next day, i’m breaking again. it feels like i’m in a cycle that has no end. i shouldn’t be this tired at my age.

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Traffic Light.

“Love is like a traffic light, there are three colors which becomes a guide for us to know when to stop, to let go and to take action.”

STOP(red light)

“Loving someone so much doesn’t always mean they’re the right one for us.”

Hindi laging happy ending kapag nagmamahal ka beacuse true love never ends.

May pagkakataong mararamdaman mo ang sakit na dulot ng pagmamahal mo.

Masakit isiping may mga taong hindi kayang magpahalaga sa mga taong nagmamahal sa kanila.

Sabi nga “Its better to accept the fact that you are not appreciated than to insist yourself to someone who never really see your worth.”

Habang patuloy mong minamahal ang taong yun mas lalo kang nasasaktan. Dahil natatakot kang tanggapin ang maaari pang mangyari, na ang buong puso mong minahal ay bulag sa pagmamahal mo.

Hindi porket mahal mo ang taong yun sya na talaga ang para sayo

Natatakot kang mawala ang taong pinakamamahal mo, pero sya ba takot ding mawala ka?????(leche lang)

Letting go(green light)

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.

May mga bagay sa mundong hindi nakatakda para sa atin, maaaring ang mga bagay na ninanais natin na maging sa atin sana ay iyon pang hindi kailanman magiging atin.

Kailangan mong matutong magparaya upang maka mover on at maka get over tayo sa sakit ng nakaraan.

Loving someone is setting them free, letting them go.

Masakit?

Oo.. para sa katulad mong nagmamahal.

Never say good bye because good bye means going away and going away means forgetting, to let go, its not to deny but to accept.

The hardest thing to do is letting go not because you want to but beacuse you have to.

May mga taong darating sa buhay natin na syang muling magbabangon sa atin sa kabila ng pait ng nakalipas.

Huwag nating isarado ang puso natin. Dahil sa tayo'y nagparaya..nagmahal…o nasaktan :’(. kundi may taong handang pumasok muli.

Take action( yellow light )

While someone breaks your heart, another someone else is waiting to fix it.Proceed with caution. “Careful forethought to avoid danger or harm”

Natatakot tayong masaktan.

Natatakot tayong harapin ang pwedeng mangyari.

Natatakot tayong magmahal muli..Kaya nga nauso ang salitang “courage”.Yan ang kailangan natin to “take action”.

kung ang traffic light ay may yellow light para sa caution sign, sa love ganun din kung alam nating masasaktan lang tayo at di maaaring pumapel. Huwag na natin pahirapan pa ng husto ang sarili natin.

Kung ba sa elevator kung alam na nating siksikan na. Huwag na tayong magsumiksik pa. May hagdan naman ayaw lang natin pansinin. 

STOP, LET GO, TAKE ACTION.

Traffic light

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This is temporary. You have not stagnated. You are not a failure. You will heal, you will recover, you will have a beautiful life. It is waiting for you.

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😥

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8 Things to Stop Worrying About

1. Other peoples’ expectations for you. At the end of the day, it’s your life – not theirs- so just be yourself, and set your own personal goals.

2. What other people say and do. It’s not up to us to control other people, or to change how they act, or to influence their decisions.

3. Aiming for perfection. It’s unrealistic to aim for perfection. You’ll just be disappointed and discouraged all the time.

4. Getting it wrong. We all make mistakes in our journey through life. That’s part of learning. It’s normal and human.

6. Fitting in. Although social skills matter, and it’s good to fit in, you also need to be yourself - a unique individual. Also, conformity can kill individuality.

7. Being right. This is highly over-rated and can cause a lot of stress. If you’re confident and real you don’t need to prove you’re right.

8. Life being out of control. At the end of the day, there’s not much we can control – except our own reactions and our attitudes to life. So change what you can change – and then relax and enjoy life.

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Puro ka kasi kape, bumibilis tuloy tibok ng puso mo sa taong di ka naman gusto. 😏

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Kung sinong malapit, sila pang mas malayo.

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Some of you have never sobbed in the middle of your bedroom floor because you’re being forced to come to terms with your loneliness and are just gonna have to accept that no one will ever love you and it shows

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A conversation about how you feel is not supposed to end in an argument.

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it’s ok to miss someone. it’s ok to grieve even if the relationship ended badly. it’s ok to suddenly want to cry after feeling fine for a while because something reminded you of them. you’re a human and you probably loved them with your whole heart. they were a big part of your life so of course it hurts when suddenly they’re not there. even if they changed, even if things drifted slowly, even if you ‘deserved better’, even if you’re both supposed to have moved on by now, it can hurt. they made you really happy once. you made good memories with them, and a small part of you will always wish you could go back again. it’s okay to feel this way. it’s okay.