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Watch:  There is one place women are seen topless — but it’s no wonder the female body has become objectified

(Or check out the uncensored version of the video.)

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Fun facts for non trans women about tucking and why you shouldn’t demand it from us

This guide is for cis people and trans men and nonbinary people who don’t need to tuck

It will very easily cause us slight harm

It will very easily cause us great pain

It will very easily cause us permanent painful damage

It will probably make us infertile

It is extremely painful for many, for many it isn’t, but despite the pain we have to do it to be accepted

Around 40% of us can’t do it because our inguinal canals are tiny like they’re supposed to be, like medically if we do this we will 100% be permanently harmed

Why are you looking at our crotches

Just cause heppie tytoos or whatever your new fave drag queen is can do it, doesnt mean every amab can, the drag queen is also probably in pain

Fuck off, we don’t owe you anything

I haven’t done it so far, no one’s pointed it out, except Tumblr users who will “,just check in to see if I’m tuckin okay? I just wanna help you pass!”

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Hey... it’s been awhile.

I feel like this is the only safe place to talk about this, as I’ve talked about my sexual assault(s) experience on here several times.

I don’t feel like, for the most part, my story is safe on social media, especially when people I know personally (from high school, but it appears to have spread beyond that a bit too) are friends with me on said media. Tumblr is the only space I know where about TWO people I know from HS are friends with me (though I’ve made more since) and they are the only two people who are likely to know my experience and who I’m talking about (I’d be surprised if they didn’t know who I’m talking about to be frank).

I have a lot of paranoia around the topic of my assault, and when talking with people who are possibly friends with my assailant. But since I have him blocked on all forms of social media, and all these forms basically blacklist his name from all my friends’ likes comments and mentions from my sights, I can’t see who is and isn't a mutual of the two of us.

CW:  I don’t even know what I want to get out of this tumblr post other than to vent my feelings and fears.

Also, please don’t think me harshly for Facebook stalking people who are liekly innocent please, I’m really panicked and concerned for my privacy and safety when it comes to keeping my entire life as secretive from him as possible. But if this is something that makes you nervous to read, go ahead and skip. If you truly want to know what is troubling me though, you can read.

Let’s just leave it at he’s in a particular “coven-esque” religion that makes him friends with many people I’ve grown to love and care about, and because of how closely-knit this religion is I can’t speak about him around these people without fear that word will get back to him and he will find me and hurt me (as my worst fears anticipate). I can see that a large number of my friends list is mutuals with his stepmother and mother, and I know this because well, I knew his mother and his stepmother has her husband (his father), and HIM in the cover photo of her Facebook page.

I honestly don’t know who I can confide in about this. My partner is lovely and supportive but whenever we get on the topic of him, his mood shifts to very hateful and violent, rather than just listening to my fears. Hell, even him saying “don’t worry I won’t let him hurt you again, and you’re safe” isn’t truly enough to make me actually feel safe and protected.

I want to be brave and just openly come out about my experience with him and talk about him using his name freely, without fear that word would get back to him from my friends, but I honestly can not say that I trust all my friends to keep that privacy, or to break all ties with him knowing what he has done. I simply can’t, because I can’t expect them to break their ties with someone they could be so strongly interconnected with.

And honestly it’s also likely rooted in the relationship I had with him. He made certain to make a personal impact on so many of my own friends’ lives, that even after we broke up we shared friends. He made sure to make himself look like a good person to them, so that my experience was forever silenced from the moment I was assaulted (the first time, and each time after that).

Right now I’m just in a state of panic that rises up every once in a while, especially when I’m looking at Facebook and someone who is in his coven is suggested as a friend, to which they share mutual friends with me.

And as a deep apology to my friends who happen to follow the religion in question, of which I’ve been suggested to follow many times as it falls in line with my own personal takes on spirituality, HE is the reason why I always refuse and get very uncomfortable about the topic.

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The last two comments though. I worked in a haunted hayride for a couple years and as someone who cant handle horror well i understand people being scared, but please dont hurt people who are literally being paid to scard you. You paid to be spooked and if something is setting you off there are ways to work around it. Many of us (at least the ones who arent dickheads) will comply if you just yell out "hey im really fucking scared and need yall to chill out please im not okay atm" before walking into our room we can respect you. (I had plenty of people do this and so we would just lay dormant for those people, and due to the labor it was nice to get an extra minute of chilling for the next group)

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A huge medical step for trans women, cis women and other people struggling with fertility 💕

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Hey guys! So I spent the past few days working on these cute dice and I hope you like them! You can get these as prints or shirts by clicking here!

Please check them out or reblog if you like these! If you have suggestions for other colors Id love to hear those too~

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controversial but in my many years as a minor on tumblr i’ve never seen a single sex worker. they always block minors, mark their blogs as nsfw, and don’t spam the popular sfw tags. even if you, as a minor, actually look for them, as long as you listed your age truthfully in the registration, you won’t be able to find them.

what i, instead, saw as a minor was:

porn bots (which could be stopped by: captcha, double confirmation for accounts, not allowing url shorteners, not allowing rebloggers to delete captions, i would even be ok with hyperlinks not being allowed in reblogs)

fetishes and kinksters (which could be stopped by: adding more tags to the nsfw filter, including fetishes/kinks that appear as sfw)

people who forget tag their shit (which could be stopped by: an auto-tagging system for sensitive tags that would work similarly to the current block for apparently nsfw posts, but can give the op the option to delete incorrect tags)

pro-ana, pro-mia, romanticization of self-harm (which could be stopped by: banning the whole tag, as it just happened)

nazi, terfs (just kick them out for hate speech like twitter does)

pro-map thankfully only appeared once i was already past 18 but of course you could just ban the whole community + tag as it just happened.

prevent usernames with words that hate and pedophilic groups use to flag from being chosen at blog creation.

while i know that tumblr is a 13+ website, nsfw content was hidden from minors last year. most cp was deleted + outlawed (both irl and drawn) for good not even last month. and while those are recent changes they did make tumblr, overall, 13+ appropriate.

i do not care much for porn, i just feel like they are solving the problem the wrong way and punishing a group of people who did nothing to harm minors. there were smarter solutions to this problem that were ignored in the favor of a very sloppy solution that doesn’t even cover stuff like sfw kink blogs, porn bots who don’t post pictures (most of them), people who just won’t tag their nsfw, hate groups and other non-sex related communities who are extremely dangerous for minors.

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“You don’t need anyone’s permission to call yourself bisexual.”

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My 7 year old daughter drew a picture of Isabelle for me 💕

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The mushrooms in animal crossing are just too cute!!!

I also opened a Redbubble shop, so you can check them out there if you’d like!

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isabelle is so cute!!

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don’t worry about me. i really enjoy my work!

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I got a new scanner! and to test it out I went for a doodle of an alolan Raichu I had laying around. Scanned it and colored in PS and PaintToolSai~

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*own OC gets increasingly off-model* ah well, what are you going to do

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She on beat like a muhhfucka

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A Real Quick Thought Regarding Gridless Combat

Don’t overexplain things: leave room for the players to be awesome. If the group is fighting in a mess hall even if you didn’t explicitly say it OF COURSE there is a tankard of mead they can throw in the enemy’s eyes while grappling on the table. Right within their reach too!

Don’t get too specific with distances. Of course the character is close enough to the table to flip it over, getting a nice piece of cover and also hampering enemies with all the greasy food now littering the floor.

You may have not even thought to put a chandelier in the mead hall, but now that your player specifically asked if there is one, of course there is!