Xander + B’vali. 23. He/him. Catboy. Arashi’s biggest fan. Main: @radiant-system
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“Fat people give good hugs”
“I love being fat because people use me as a pillow”
“I love being fat because I’m not constantly cold”
I don’t want to be touched and am extremely sensitive to cold, wish that didn’t mean my body shape was impossible for anyone to appreciate
#what’s with the good hugs thing anyway#I give terrible hugs because they’re never like my choice#and I don’t want to be doing it
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It's kind of funny when people ask me why I blocked them because like idk, I've blocked hundreds of people, but also probably fatphobia. I've gone through many fat liberation adjacent posts with thousands of notes and blocked every single person being fatphobic
#so basically don't try to link me posts in messages#I have too many people blocked#also went through a period of blocking everyone being annoying in the syscourse tag#so those and transphobes are probably most of the people I've blocked#also like no one blocked on this blog#I block them from my main so I won't see their posts
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"grow thicker skin" "toughen up" "stop being a whiny little baby"
why are yall so opposed to men being sensitive? why are yall so hellbent on reinforcing toxic masculinity, especially on trans men/masc people?
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Even if your life sucks right now, you can do things to make it suck less. Learn to make your favorite coffee drink. Wear clothes you really like. Do yoga. Sometimes the small things save us.
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Had a backlog of text shipping templates so decided to make some more




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19 minutes into my birthday and I'm already thinkin about the two parasites who live in my brain

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I'm so good at blocking people, friend was like "do not look at the Yamato tag" yet the worst thing I saw was one (1) ai artwork
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It's fascinating how people will complain that we only headcanon canon male characters as trans men and thus taking away characters from trans women (they clearly don't know what a headcanon is and also no trans woman has ever complained about this where I could see) but at the same time we're terrible if we headcanon female characters as trans men because we're making there be more men
#I unfortunately have a habit of getting really into canonically trans characters everyone *also* loves to argue about#Mordred from FATE is a trans man and I will die on that hill
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sorry for inactivity guys..
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the 3 mables inside his skull are working really hard, dont bully him
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I’m taking dude, bro, girl, and girlies (and similar) away from all of you until you stop insisting that they’re gender neutral
#‘girlies’ post that isn’t about me#’girlies (gn)’ post that desperately wants to misgender me#but mostly this post is about using that as a defense to use them for trans people who Told You it makes them uncomfortable#transphobia
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I find stating the obvious really funny so “trans men truly are the men of the trans community” would’ve been hilarious to me if not for the context of it being about trans men being inherently misogynistic or whatever
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“If you’ve only dated cis men and you want to date trans men exclusively you should probably know like anything about trans men.”
“You’re bioessentialist and might as well be a terf. Also you should detransition.”
Not a so called conversation I expected to see this morning
#transphobia#if that’s your response to people suggesting maybe you should find things out about trans men#then I don’t think you’d be very receptive to hearing about their experiences when dating them either so you probably shouldn’t
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Imagine how great life would be if I could have a hysterectomy and top surgery so I’d be slightly less miserable
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choosing to allocate spoons to hanging out and having a good time at the cost of perfectly completing all your work is not a failing it is in fact an act of survival. “too sick to work = too sick to play” is in fact ableist bullshit that you don’t have to buy into. and the fact that leisure time is treated like a privilege is a fucking travesty
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