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Potentially hot take but one of the reasons we need art and music in schools is that, taught correctly, they are ideal avenues for teaching kids how to do something, kinda suck at it, keep going anyways and improve over time.

And THAT is one of the most valuable skill sets a human being can have. THAT is the skill set that unlocks soooooo many others.

A LOT of people I see with anxiety and depression do not have this skill set. To suck at something is a threat. Proof that they are doomed to suck at it forever. And then, often, that either THEY suck forever or the task must be stupid/useless/pointless (whence we get AI art fans who have decided actually making art is pointless and degrading the labor and skills of others is fine because these are useless skills).

Or you get the freeze- the inability to try things in case you fail. The sudden lancing shame and humiliation or hopelessness. The sense that anything you haven't learned by now you can't learn. Which is so heartbreaking and so untrue.

I just hate it.

"What if I write it and it's bad" "what if I draw it and it's bad" "what if I play it and it sounds bad" DOING IT BAD IS HOW YOU LEARN TO DO IT GOOD! You can't skip the process of leaning and the process is FUN if you let it be what it needs to be!

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boring take from real 21st century idiots: bdsm is bad because it's basically torture

interesting take from a fictional 14th century monk: torture is bad because it's basically sex

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sometimes the only closure you will get is knowing that everything you did was done earnestly and out of love

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swsh reference 😁

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Top 4 krusielle all time past & future

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or so says the sadist

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Ok like whateverrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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inspired by me trying to kill a bug and it vanishing

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Spamton wouldn't say that probably but this reminded me of Tenna okay

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partners

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i am not immune to the weird little man

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What Kris and Susie are doing for their school project

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they seriously deserve a nap

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Hot female santas in your area

(I know its like june but . Halloween post)

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mom and baby