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Happy pride month to my dad. When I came out as bi to him, this man googled what it ment, look at me and said "ohh. Yeah. You get that from me. You'd have far more siblings of I only shaged women." And went right back to his work emails.

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Being the only bi cis guy amongst almost exclusively trans friends and peers is wild because in theory its like im living in a horny manga where all of a dudes friends turn into hot babes, but in reality they are hunting me like the last bison on the prairie. 5 years ago I mentioned bionicle and one of them asked when I was starting estrogen.

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if vampires can't come inside without permission does that mean that you can just keep riding that thang and they can't um . yknow

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I'm going to have to stop you right there.

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Recently seen some more eggs crack cause of me and thought of this anon again

I hope this person has been doing well in spite of the state of the world ♥

Several, several years ago I once made an ask about how I wish I was a girl cause you were so pretty and I was mildly infatuated.

Turns out I was a girl and just didn't know it yet, but that probably should have been a huge clue. Thanks for being part of my journey of gender confirmation!

Omfg congrats?!? I'm always glad to be part of people's journeys! I hope yours has been good to you so far :)

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hearing that your characterizations are good is like. the best thing to hear as a fic writer.

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RIP 4Chan, i'll never forget this post that instantly cured my social anxiety upon reading it 🫡

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"I need more queer friends" is all well and good but I think you actually want more kind open-minded friends. My brief college roommate was a lesbian but such an unbearable you're-not-queer-enough exclusionist that I dread bumping into her at pride every year, meanwhile I have friends now who are such good allies that I regularly forget they are straight.

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some of you aren’t even perverts you just have normal sexual desires that you are ashamed of

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Why do they even make apps for ADHD. You want me to use my 24/7 handheld immediate distraction device? To manage my 'gets distracted too easily' disorder? Ooooh we developed the perfect tool for managing your anemia. Its hosted in Dracula's castle. 👍

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this tweet is new but it is actually a fundamental text for me

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the color signatures of various elements when ignited

FB image credit: Ceres Science

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Its a weird feeling seeing/hearing that you've left some great impact/influence on someone's life

And yet they're 150% better off now that you're no longer part of their life

I feel like I'm some weird npc you'd find in a hidden location that changes the course of the narrative and could also join your party but gets left behind cause I have no practical use outside of completing lore quest and maybe teaching a new skill

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Sometimes it feels like you've lived your whole life in a house that's always a little bit on fire. Like it's usually just in one room and you make sure to wet the walls around it so it doesn't spread and that usually works. You were expected to take more responsibility over fire containment when you were like seven because it's not like you can expect your parents to always be 100% on guard about making sure the whole house doesn't catch fire, and you figure that's just how things are like.

And sometimes as a kid you visit your friends' homes and some of then whisper to you - grimacing with embarrassment - about how they're not supposed to tell anyone this, but there's a whole room in their house that's currently on fire. And you're like yeah it's ok I'm not supposed to tell people about the way our house is a little bit on fire all the time, too. And then you visit some other friend's house and there's no trace of fire anywhere, and you think "wow, these people are really good at hiding their house fire."

And one day you show up to work like "hey sorry I'm late, I forgot to wet the walls before going to bed last night and my whole house burned down", and you're startled by the way people react, acting like that must be the worst thing that has ever happened to you. And you're just like "chill, it's been years since the last time this happened, and it wasn't even that bad this time", and that just makes people more shocked, acting like that's the weirdest and most concerning thing they've ever heard anyone say, which only confuses you more.

And then someone tries to explain to you that people aren't supposed to have an ongoing house fire. Most people actually never experience a house fire in their lives. Like not even once. Not even a little bit. The normal amount of having your house be currently on fire is zero.